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I get along with people a lot, and I want to be with dogs more and more
It's not a shame to be alone, it's not a terrible thing, and it's even more uncomfortable to sit alone in a corner after a full meal and a mess of glasses and plates, and to look out of place in a crowded and noisy crowd
Nowadays, people are getting better and better to be alone, because it is not boring at home, because there is a world of mobile phones, you can still make money, and you can also relieve boredom with one stone
Remove the meaningless socializing, socializing, and unloading disguises, you will find that you have a lot of time to do what you like, you will find that many people are not so important, they don't care about you so much, and you can perceive, understand, and appreciate the world more truly
Modern society is stressful, young people need more alone time to relax, or because of the development of social networks, young people can meet their social needs through the Internet, and do not need to live with family or friends as before
For people who have no exchange value in their own right, the vast majority of social interaction is ineffective socialization, or even side effects
Even if it is a pure social cow, you will need to have some time for yourself. In modern society, various external affairs occupy too much personal time, and no matter what personality you are, you may not be able to meet "solitude", but to a different extent. And it's easier to be alone
The more a person thinks, the easier it is to be "disconnected" from the people around him, and the more a person feels out of place with the people around him, it means that there are irreconcilable differences in your choices and pursuits with others. And these are the "necessary stages" in social networking. Choosing a circle is because when we are young, we need to socialize and be recognized, only lively gatherings can make us be seen and concerned, because we are young and confused, we don't know what we want to do and what kind of life we want to live. And liking to be alone and too lazy to socialize is precisely the awakening of a person's consciousness. He had a new understanding and evaluation of his own life, and he knew what he was going to do next
I don't want to talk to rich people about eating and drinking, I don't want to listen to rich people complain, I don't like to listen to people telling right and wrong, and I don't want to listen to gossip
Everyone is on the one hand, and they are longing to be alone
It's true that I like to be alone more and more, and socializing consumes a lot of energy
Being alone is a way to protect yourself and grow yourself
The main thing is that where there are people, you have to spend energy on interpersonal relationships, and you have to always pay attention to whether your words and deeds are appropriate, and you will be very tired after a long time, and it is really relaxing and comfortable to have a space to be alone. Nowadays, you don't have to go anywhere to do anything on weekends, you can enjoy being alone in the dormitory and watching a drama to cook a bowl of noodles, or going to a deserted river to sit and blow the wind for an afternoon, as long as you don't need to deal with people
It feels like the development of the Internet has led to a sharp decrease in young people's social needs and a lower tolerance for whom they are intermingling. A person can get needs through various online platforms, so why should he endure all kinds of contradictions in the real society. As a result, many behaviors are classified as ineffective socializing. In fact, social interaction is not divided into effective and ineffective, and people are born as social creatures and need a sense of social identity
Among the animals, those who like to be alone are like tigers and leopards, and those who like to live in groups are like wildebeest and sika deer. Therefore, people are similar, those who like to be alone are powerful characters, at any age
Look at the reports that you want, want, and want, and look at the jobs that need to be able to work, be able to do things, and provide emotional value. The essence of systematic social relations is a cannibalistic net, where infinite PUA individuals provide material and spiritual supplies layer by layer, and the edification of thousands of years of Confucian culture has never used respect for individual individuals. However, there are different types of people, some people do everything to climb up, and some people just want to spend their lives freely and peacefully, but the number of the latter in contemporary society is getting more and more, and allowing the existence of such people is also a kind of social progress
You are given two options, one is: accompany the leader or elder to drink, and then serve tea and pour water at the wine table, and he will take a sip of it at will; the other is: go home and turn on the computer to enter the Night City, accompany Judy to dive ashore and smoke afterwards, or go to the movies with old Bentley Rogge, which one do you choose?
Only when you are alone do not have to be bound by worldly moral standards and value orientations, but without bondage, you will inevitably not enjoy the pleasure of instant liberation. It's cool to be alone for a while, but it's not feeling to be alone all the time
Why be alone, because now non-solitude is more forced to cater to. Young people don't have normal solitude. Who doesn't want to eat food and play games with friends, but friends are all over the world, and time will never match
I used to like to be busy, but when people reach middle age, they are stressed and have a lot of chores, so they become more quiet and alone
The relationships between people in daily life and work, interpersonal communication are enough to consume most of our energy, and the social circle is too complicated, so we cherish our time alone. Whether it's sleeping lazy, cooking a meal for yourself slowly, watching dramas, watching videos, listening to music and reading books, or going to spring and autumn alone, going to the crazy street to watch movies, in fact, you won't feel lonely, but more relaxed.
Rather than tired blind obedience, it is better to be reckless and real
Solitude is the last insistence that young people insist on being themselves
Netizens of the headlines, what do you think?
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