Today, education has become a pain in every parent's heart, and they can't swallow it.
Everywhere you hear, "Parents don't roll up".
What is a volume? It's the same thing that I do more and better.
But most of our parents probably understood the wrong meaning of the word, so that "volume" carried a lot of black pots.
First of all, the "volume" should know oneself and the other, in the education link, what is needed is that parents are more familiar with the law of children's growth, and give favorable support at each important node of growth, so that children can grow up at the same time, but also force themselves to learn Xi and grow.
Second, "how to roll"? "The method of rolling" is very important, not to blindly force children to learn to Xi is to roll, let alone let children desperately brush the questions is to roll, these "papers" are ineffective and have great side effects.
Third, especially important, countless parents think that the "roll" is to learn in advance, kindergarten to learn things in the lower grades, first and second grades to learn the things of the third and fourth grades in advance, and the third and fourth grades to learn the things of the fifth and sixth grades in advance.
Speaking of which, I am still complacent, and I feel that I have made a wise decision, because the report card handed in by the child looks really good!
These children are lucky, and many of the children I know are in the "early rush" of their parents, and they have a strong sense of boredom from elementary school, and when they reach junior high school, when their parents can no longer control them, they begin to rot. Because each of these children is scarred, but there is no one to repair them, they suffer from school weakness.
Originally, the six years of primary school were used to cultivate children's interest in learning Xi and learning XiXi, but in the current education orientation, the continuous superposition of the theater effect makes many parents feel that they should take advantage of the time they have in primary school to learn more!
But the child is a living person!
They think, they get tired, they have preferences.
Every day at 8 o'clock in the morning, to 5 o'clock in the afternoon, 9 hours in school, most of the time is sitting in the classroom constantly learning, Xi writing, many schools are afraid of problems, do not allow children to run and jump.
When I got home, I didn't have to eat for an hour, that is, I wrote my homework, plus the extra homework and Xi assigned by the "chicken blood" parents, and I couldn't go to bed until 11 o'clock at night later, and I continued Xi to study for almost 5 hours.
On such days, there are 5 days a week, and on weekends there are various training courses.
Day after day, year after year.
If you change to an adult, you probably won't be able to stand it for a year!
But they are children, and they can't resist.
Therefore, as a parent, you can roll, the place you need to roll is to accompany the child, let the child regularly Xi life, let the child fix physical exercise, lay a good physical foundation, you need to accompany the child in the early grades to make good use of the time, these are a lot of rolls that need "time".
You can "roll", you can understand the current difficulty of the textbooks of the three subjects other than language and mathematics, assist the child from the side, you can read more books on adolescent growth psychology, and you can read the book next to the child when he is writing homework.
You can "roll", you can "roll" to find out the child's problems through the child's homework mistakes and omissions, and remind the child to pay attention in time, you can "roll" to let the child tell you about the knowledge and content of today's Xi every day.
These are the real "volumes"!
And the rush, maybe it works for a short time, but it definitely won't really work (the kind of kids who don't learn by themselves are not in the scope of this discussion)!
Because learning Xi thing, it should be lifelong. Our exam-oriented education is originally a round of long-distance running, and you have exhausted all your strength and spirit at the beginning, how can you run later?
The truth is very simple, but many people don't believe it.