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Have you ever met someone who is always willing to give for a friend, family, or even a stranger, but it always feels a little wrong? Such people, have you ever wondered why they are like this?
First of all, let's be clear, a cheap person does not mean that they are inherently worthless, but that they behave in relationships that make people feel uncomfortable. They always seem to lack a "self" and always sacrifice their own feelings and needs in order to cater to others.
So why do some people become cheap people? One of the reasons may be that they lack self-confidence. They may think that they can only earn the recognition and respect of others by constantly giving for them. However, doing so will only make them cheap in their relationships because they are always in a passive state and cannot truly express their feelings and needs.
Another reason may be their lack of ability to think independently. They always seem to think that other people's opinions are more important than their own, so they always shape themselves according to other people's expectations. However, doing so will only make them lose their personality and characteristics and become like a "humanoid robot".
So, how do you avoid being a cheap person? First, we need to build self-confidence. We need to believe in our own worth and ability, and we don't need to constantly give to others in order to win the recognition and respect of others. Second, we need to learn to think for ourselves. We need to understand our needs and feelings, and be bold enough to express our thoughts and opinions. Only in this way can we remain independent and autonomous in our relationships and become a person with our own unique personality and characteristics.
In closing, I would like to say that never be a cheap person. We need to cherish our own worth and abilities and not sacrifice our own feelings and needs in order to cater to others. We need to maintain self-confidence and the ability to think independently, and to become a person with our own unique personality and characteristics. Only in this way can we remain independent and autonomous in our relationships and earn the respect and approval of others.