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Text: South Lane Layman
Editor|South Lane Resident
On December 12, Zhou Haimei's studio and her mother issued a statement.
In the statement, Zhou Haimei's mother informed everyone that her daughter had passed away due to illness on December 11.
Zhou Haimei's death came true after going round and round, and at the age of 57, she passed away forever on the day of the first snow in Beijing.
Zhou Haimei's sudden death made countless people feel sad, and many friends in the circle also posted condolences.
On the evening of the 12th, actor Lu Liangwei also posted a message to mourn Zhou Haimei, which caused everyone's discussion.
Few people know that Lu Liangwei is actually Zhou Haimei's ex-husband.
The two got married many years ago because of the drama and fell in love and got married.
Although this marriage was very short, their love was also vigorous.
To this day, people still talk about it.
The two people who used to love each other, after they separated, their life circumstances were different.
So, what kind of story happened to this pair of former golden boys and girls?
Love is not the same as marriage
1990 was a bumper year for 24-year-old Zhou Haimei.
This year, because she starred in the two dramas "Rogue Tycoon" and "Intolerable Love", she became popular in Hong Kong, Taiwan and Southeast Asia.
Not only did she set a record for ratings, but she also bagged the title of the most popular actress in the region for 3 years.
In terms of career, Zhou Haimei is in full bloom and is one of the leading flowers of wireless.
But one of the main reasons for her achievements is emotional failure.
In 1990, Zhou Haimei and her husband Lu Liangwei, who had been in love for many years and had been married for a few months, officially separated.
It brought an end to their years of relationship.
The relationship between Zhou Haimei and Lu Liangwei began in 1985 when they filmed the TV series "Island Fengyun".
At that time, Zhou Haimei had just graduated from TVB's actor training class, and her acting experience was limited to the previous filming of "Yang Jiajiang".
And Lu Liangwei is not only 11 years older than Zhou Haimei, at this time he has already filmed dramas such as "Shanghai Tang" and "Snow Mountain Flying Fox".
The two of them quickly sparked different sparks in the crew.
The two who are attracted to each other quickly fall in love, but just for work, they choose underground love.
Media reporters have photographed the two in the same frame many times, but neither of them has made it public.
It wasn't until 1989, when the two had been in love for more than 4 years, that Lu Liangwei made public the news that they had registered their marriage.
At that time, they chose to secretly register their marriage in the United States because they fell in love, and there was no wedding and banquet.
Lu Liangwei felt sorry for Zhou Haimei, so he chose to make the marriage public.
For this sudden news, after everyone was surprised, they still chose to bless.
At that time, although Zhou Haimei and Lu Liangwei were 11 years apart, they loved each other enough.
It's a pity that no matter how beautiful love is, it hasn't withstood the test of marriage, and Lu Liangwei's family is more traditional.
Especially his father, he hopes that after his daughter-in-law Zhou Haimei gets married, she can put down her work and concentrate on her husband and children at home.
Zhou Haimei, who was only 23 years old at the time, was still a little princess herself, how could she be willing to be broken off her wings and become a housewife?
The contradiction between the daughter-in-law and the father-in-law became irreconcilable.
Looking at Zhou Haimei, who went out to film every day, her father-in-law felt very unpleasant, and poured out all his dissatisfaction to his son.
Lu Liangwei also hopes that Zhou Haimei can obey her father's arrangement.
After communicating with her several times to no avail, the two broke up unhappily with the crew filming in Zhou Haimei, and then there was a long cold war.
The result of this is that the relationship between the two is directly exhausted, and finally they choose to divorce.
The ending of this marriage made many people sigh.
In fact, Zhou Haimei's personality is already very aggressive, a bit like a boy.
Falling in love doesn't have to be married
Zhou Haimei was born in Hong Kong in 1966, and she was originally a descendant of the Manchu aristocratic Guerjia clan.
Zhou Haimei's grandmother's home is on a small island in Hong Kong, where she spent her childhood.
The growth environment of climbing mountains and catching birds and fishing in the sea has also created her naughty and lively character.
Because of her high myopia, Zhou Haimei had to be accompanied by glasses all day long when she was a child, which covered up her beauty to a certain extent.
When she grew up, her father took her to have myopia correction surgery, which allowed her to successfully get out of her glasses.
Only then did the family find out that Zhou Haimei was born so beautiful.
In 1985, the Miss Hong Kong selection was in full swing.
The family hid from her and signed her up for the competition.
On the day of the competition, Zhou Haimei participated in the competition with a confused face.
Because she has two teeth that look more like rabbit teeth, she is affectionately known as Miss Rabbit.
During the competition, she was lively and jumped on the stage, bouncing to introduce herself, and then bouncing to compete and get off the stage.
In the end, because her temperament was too out-of-the-box, there was a gap between her and the selection criteria of Miss Hong Kong, and she stopped in the finals.
Zhou Haimei, who was defeated, was not sad, and happily encouraged others to play hard.
Her lively and agile appearance fell into the eyes of the leaders of TVB, and they sent her an invitation.
19-year-old Zhou Haimei thought acting was very interesting, so she participated in TVB's actor training class.
In the first drama "Yang Jiajiang" after graduation, there were powerful actors like Andy Lau, Tony Leung, and other powerful actors to bring Zhou Haimei.
Zhou Haimei's subsequent development path also illustrates this point from the side.
After divorcing her ex-husband Lu Liangwei, Zhou Haimei focused more on her career.
In the 1994 remake of "Heaven and Dragon Slayer".
The Zhou Zhiruo she played has become the memory of a generation, and she has become popular all over the Taiwan Strait.
Compared with her career, Zhou Haimei's emotional path seems to have come to a standstill after the divorce.
Although there are scandal targets, there is no actual progress.
Until 1998, Zhou Haimei met Wu Shirong, a wealthy businessman, at a dinner party.
The other party fell in love with her at first sight and launched a pursuit offensive.
Zhou Haimei, who was emotionally injured, finally couldn't resist Wu Shirong's attack and became his girlfriend.
During that time, the two openly went into pairs, and there was a tendency to achieve positive results.
But in 1999, Zhou Haimei's illness made her see Wu Shirong's face clearly.
The menacing illness not only made Zhou Haimei suspend her work, but also made her lose her love. 、
During her illness, Wu Shirong ostensibly played the image of a good boyfriend who was very caring.
But behind the scenes, he has already been ambiguous with other actresses.
Zhou Haimei, who has a clear love-hate relationship, disclosed the reason why the two broke up, and ended the relationship neatly.
Then choose to go north to develop.
Zhou Haimei, who came to Beijing, fell in love with this place and decided to start a new life here.
By chance, Zhou Haimei met an architect who was 7 years younger than herself.
The two talked happily and had a sense of déjà vu.
Zhou Haimei was alone in Beijing, and he accompanied Zhou Haimei to visit the streets and alleys of Beijing and eat all the food in Beijing.
In 2003, Zhou Haimei made a bold decision to move to Beijing because the person she loved was here.
Zhou Haimei has a good relationship with her little boyfriend, and her boyfriend has proposed to her many times.
But she had lingering palpitations about marriage, and she didn't want to be imprisoned anymore, so she repeatedly refused, which led to the end of their relationship.
After breaking up with her little boyfriend who had been in love for 15 years, Zhou Haimei, who was no longer young, chose to live alone, grow flowers, and raise cats and dogs.
Compared with Zhou Haimei, after the divorce, Lu Liangwei not only developed in many aspects of his career.
He began to get involved in business, and he was still emotionally obsessed with marriage.
Multiple marriages have come to fruition
After leaving Zhou Haimei, Lu Liangwei met Kwong Meiyun at work.
The two were attracted by each other's talents, fell in love, fell in love and got married in 1996.
It's just that the situation that Kwong Meiyun has to face after marriage is surprisingly consistent with Zhou Haimei.
As a workaholic, Kwong Meiyun can't accept being a housewife, and Lu Liangwei refuses to give in, so quarrels are inevitable.
The marriage didn't last long in constant quarrels and ended in divorce.
After that, Lu Liangwei, like Zhou Haimei, also came to the mainland to develop his acting career.
It's just that the effect is not ideal, Lu Liangwei partnered with a friend to do business, but he didn't expect to be betrayed by his friend.
Not only did he lose all his money, but he also owed a huge amount of debt.
Seeing his friend leave his helpless girlfriend, Lu Liangwei couldn't bear it and decided to help her pay off her debts together.
It was at this time that Lu Liangwei met Yang Xiaojuan, a strong woman, and Lu Liangwei's sense of responsibility impressed her.
not only helped him, but also became his virtuous helper.
With Yang Xiaojuan's guidance, Lu Liangwei is also handy in doing business and makes a lot of money.
The relationship between him and Yang Xiaojuan is also very stable, and the two ushered in the birth of their son in 2001.
46-year-old Lu Liangwei finally became a father.
Today, Lu Liangwei and his wife Yang Xiaojuan have been married for more than 20 years and are still in love.
And Zhou Haimei went around but was alone and left this world alone.
Zhou Haimei's death, in addition to making everyone sigh, also triggered everyone's thinking about marriage.
Some people say that if Zhou Haimei chooses to get married, she will be accompanied by her family.
When she was sick, she could be detected in time and sent to the hospital, and the outcome would not be different.
Of course, all this is just hypothetical, and the outcome can never be predicted.
Now, Yiren has passed away, and I only hope that Zhou Haimei, who is in another place, will not be tortured by illness and can live a relaxed life.
Just 3 days before Zhou Haimei's death, that is, on December 8, Zhou Haimei also posted a video on social software.
counted his classic roles, and gave the audience a wave of memory killing.
Unexpectedly, watching this video now, it seems to be saying goodbye.
epilogue
Zhou Haimei's life is just like the Zhou Zhiruo she plays.
When I was young, I loved it unforgettablely, but because of the wrong choice, I missed it for life, and finally grew old alone.
Now that Siren is gone, the character she created will remain in people's hearts for a long time.
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