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My name is Li Mei, I am 43 years old and I am a secondary school Chinese teacher. I've always been single, mainly because I'm shy and introverted, not socially friendly, and not good at getting along with the opposite sex.
When I was in my 30s, my parents began to worry about my marriage. They contacted me left and right and introduced me to a lot of blind dates. But after I met those boys once or twice, either it was not suitable, or the other party's conditions were unacceptable to me, so I put it off again and again. Now that I'm 43, my parents have given up on finding me a partner again.
A few days ago, an aunt suddenly introduced me to a blind date, Brother Wang. She said that Brother Wang has a successful career, looks handsome, and the most important thing is that he is in his 40s and has always been single, so it should be easier for him to accept being with a girl of my age. I didn't want to go, but under the repeated persuasion of my family, I still made an appointment with Brother Wang on a blind date.
At 12 noon on Saturday, I came to the teahouse where I had a blind date with Brother Wang 15 minutes early. After choosing a window seat and sitting down, I nervously rubbed my hands together and tidied up my hair and clothes from time to time.
At 12 o'clock, a tall and handsome boy pushed the door in. He looked around and quickly fixed his gaze on me. I got up and greeted him with a smile: "Hello, I'm Li Mei." He also smiled and shook hands with me: "Hello, hello, I'm Wang Hong, please sit down." ”
After starting to chat, I found that Brother Wang was handsome and spoke humorously, which made me feel very comfortable.
I heard him say this, and I gradually developed a good impression of him. Brother Wang looks very good, and he also has plans to get married, which makes me very happy.
Brother Wang took the initiative to ask me, "Meizi, do you usually like to read books and listen to music?"
Me: "Well, I prefer language and literature books, such as Yu Qiuyu's works. Music, light music or classical music. What about you?"
Brother Wang: "Oh, I also like to read Yu Qiuyu's essay collection the most. His writing is beautiful, and it allows people to appreciate the true meaning of life. I also have a wide range of tastes in music, from pop to classical. We really taste the same. ”
It seems that Brother Wang's cultural attainment is very high, and he is also very close to me. It made me even more optimistic about him.
After more than an hour, Brother Wang looked at his watch and said, "It's not early, why don't we change to a quiet place and continue chatting?"
After arriving at the teahouse, the waiter chose a secluded location for us. Brother Wang ordered my favorite Longjing tea for me, and I felt that he was very considerate of me. Just as we were chatting happily, Brother Wang's expression suddenly changed, and his tone became much more serious. He looked me in the eye and said, "Meizi, we are both this age, and we all want to get married and have children, so I will get straight to the point about some questions." I hope you answer me honestly as well. ”
Brother Wang frowned, and said in an affirmative tone: "Meizi, I'm at this age, how can I have time to slowly develop my relationship? You're 43 too, and that's all the way around, do you have a better choice?"
I was dumbfounded by what he said. Also, for a girl of my age, it is a blessing to be able to find such a good boy. But the relationship seemed to me to be too quick and too hasty.
"To tell you the truth, I'm still satisfied with your conditions, you are beautiful and have a good figure. There is one point, if you agree to have a relationship with me, my bride price can be increased to 300,000. If you don't agree, 100,000 should be enough. Brother Wang looked like he took it for granted.
With that, wiping away my tears, I hurried out of the teahouse. As I walked to the door of the teahouse, I called my mother and told her about the ridiculous things that had just happened.
My mother picked up the phone and asked me anxiously, "Meizi, how are you getting along with Brother Wang?"
My mother didn't think so: "Silly girl, the conditions of the people are so good, and it was introduced by your aunt, can't you make some concessions? I think you should go and apologize to Brother Wang again, cherish this family business!"
Maybe it was too much wine, and before I knew it, I was drunk and fell on the table. After a while, a waiter finally woke me up: "This young lady, you have been asleep for an hour, it's time to check out and leave!"
I staggered to my feet, pulled out my wallet, and saw that I only had a few dozen dollars left, which was far from enough to pay for the restaurant.
I was at a loss to explain my situation to the waiter, hoping for understanding. At this time, a warm male voice came from not far away: "This young lady is in a special situation, I think let me pay for it." ”
I hurriedly turned my head to look, only to see a boy in a white shirt walking over, wearing black-rimmed glasses, looking sven.
The boy smiled and said, "My name is Stephen Chow, and I am a lecturer in the Chinese department of a nearby university. Actually, I didn't pay for nothing, I just saw that you were so sad to drink alone, and I couldn't help but care, would you like to talk to me?"
Maybe it's the effect of alcohol, I really told Stephen Chow all about the previous blind date with Brother Wang.
Stephen Chow held my hand in the palm of his hand, looked me in the eyes gently, and said, "I am also 43 years old, and it is very boring to live alone. Let's try to get to know each other, and then I'll formally propose to you. I will also take full responsibility for your mother's body, and I will not let her suffer any grievances, so you don't have to worry about this. ”
I was so excited that my eyes moistened: "Thank you so much! I thought I was going to be alone, and I didn't expect to meet you today." I'm so lucky!"
Just a month later, Stephen Chow and I had a grand wedding. My mother saw me put on my wedding dress, shed tears of excitement, hugged me tightly and said, "Meizi, Mom is proud of you! Thank you very much for being so considerate to my son-in-law." ”
I feel extremely happy and happy in my married life, and Stephen Chow takes care of me and my mother in every possible way. It didn't take long for me to finally conceive my baby, and my mother was smiling as she hugged her grandson. I am grateful to Stephen Chow for giving me a new life, and I am grateful to God for letting me meet him. On the road of life, it is most valuable to treat each other sincerely. I sincerely wish you who are still waiting for true love, happiness will come knocking on the door inadvertently!
After I became pregnant, I decided to quit teaching and take care of my frail mom full-time. Although Stephen Chow is very busy at work, he never stops coming home to accompany me.
One night, I suddenly began to have severe abdominal pain, and Stephen Chow rushed me to the hospital when he saw this. When I arrived at the hospital, the doctor diagnosed me with symptoms of threatened miscarriage and had to be hospitalized for observation. Stephen Chow and I are very worried about losing our baby.
When my mother heard the news, she insisted on coming to the hospital to take care of me. Although she was already very weak, she managed to get to my hospital room. She shook my hand and said, "Meizi, no matter what the result is, you have to be strong." Mom will always be there for you. ”
I nodded with tears in my eyes, determined to save the baby in my belly. Under the careful care of my mother and Stephen Chow, I finally got through the dangerous period, the symptoms of abdominal pain disappeared, and the child was safe.
Shortly after being discharged from the hospital, on a sunny morning, my mother suddenly fell to the ground unwell while cleaning her room. Stephen Chow and I rushed her to the hospital, but because her condition was too serious, her life could not be saved after all.
The death of my mother hit me hard and made me confused about life. Stephen Chow comforted me gently: "Although my mother is gone, she will definitely look at you with relief and bless you in the spirit of heaven." We want to live better and live up to her affection and blessings for us. ”
With Stephen Chow's company and encouragement, I gradually walked out of the pain of my mother's death. Just some time ago, I successfully gave birth to a big fat boy weighing 8 pounds. Holding the cute baby, I felt like my mother was right next to me, and she must have been happy for us.
Over the years, Stephen Chow has been simply meticulous to me. He was not only a caring husband, but also a loving father. He often finds time to learn Xi play with his children, teach him to read and tell stories, and it can be seen that he loves him very much.
Our family of three often goes on weekend outings to enjoy the joy of family in nature. Every time I see the child's innocent smiling face, I sincerely thank God for letting me meet Stephen Chow and create such a happy family with him.
I have experienced too many bumps in the road in life, but in the end, it has been a good result. I could have chosen to compromise with reality, but I chose to follow my heart and found true love. I sincerely wish all of you who are confused, follow your heart bravely, and you will definitely find true love and live a happy life!
As the children grew up, Xingchi's life and I gradually stabilized. We often go out for walks, watch movies, and do sports together, and life is still sweet.
One night, we suddenly received a strange phone call, and the woman on the other end of the phone claimed to be Ruan Xiaoli, a high school classmate of Xingchi. She said that she returned from abroad and wanted to catch up with Xingchi. I thought it was a little weird, but I still gave the phone to Xingchi.
I noticed that Stephen's face changed slightly, but it quickly returned to normal. He chatted with the woman perfunctorily and then hung up the phone in a hurry. I couldn't help but ask him, "Is this your acquaintance? What is she calling for?"
I still had doubts, but I didn't ask any more questions. In the days that followed, Xingchi seemed to be a little absent-minded and often thoughtful. I didn't know what he was thinking, and he didn't offer to tell me.