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"Change people after becoming famous", this kind of thing can be said to be common in the entertainment industry!
But in the opinion of actor Ren Chengwei, "no matter how poor you are, you can't sell watchdogs, and no matter how rich you are, you can't abandon your wife."
Maybe you are not familiar with the name "Ren Chengwei", but when it comes to "Fang Yulin" in "Snow Without a Trace" and the funny village chief "Ren Sanbao" in "County Party Committee Compound", you must have some impressions.
On the screen, he always looks like an iron-clad man, but in real life, he is even more of a man.
In the past 30 years, there have been no scandals, and he has been married to his first wife for 27 years, and he once said in an interview that his wife is the person he has to thank for all his life.
Back then, he had no money, no car and no house, Huang Lei and his family never looked down on him, even if he lived in the basement, Huang Lei insisted on marrying him, a poor boy.
In this way, with only 9 yuan, Ren Chengwei married Huang Lei back home, and now the two have been working together for 27 years.
Before meeting his wife Huang Lei, Ren Chengwei's concept was that he had to start a business first and then start a family, but Huang Lei's appearance made him understand that starting a family and starting a business are not conflicting!
1. When his father died at the age of 12, his mother pulled his four sons to grow up
If you have to sum up Ren Chengwei's childhood in one word, it is "bitter".
In 1970, he was born in Heilongjiang, although his ancestral home is in Henan, but his parents were working in Heilongjiang at that time, so he grew up in the northeast.
At that time, my parents were both workers, and it was said that the treatment of being a worker in that era was very good, not to mention that my father was also the director of a machinery factory.
But in fact, they are not doing well, their father is as diligent as Secretary Jiao Yulu in his hometown, and he suffers from a serious illness after working for a long time.
When Ren Chengwei was 12 years old, he had no father, and at that time, there were 4 sons in the family, and Ren Chengwei was the second.
After the father left, the mother became stronger, relying on a salary of 40 yuan a month to ensure that the children had a bite to eat.
Some people feel sorry for her and want her to remarry with her children, but Ren Chengwei's mother is afraid that others will treat her children badly, so she is stunned to bring up her 4 children little by little.
Ren Chengwei saw these in his eyes at that time, and from that time on, he made up his mind that he must work hard to make his mother not work so hard!
After graduating from high school, he was admitted to the play, and it was in that place that he met the girl who wanted to protect his life - Huang Lei.
2. A poor guy met a rich girl, married a wife for 9 yuan, and lived in the basement for 7 years
"When will you marry me?" In 1996, Huang Lei couldn't hold back anymore and said the doubts in her heart.
Since she started falling in love in college, this is the 6th year she has been with Ren Chengwei, but she has never waited for Ren Chengwei to say the sentence "Marry me." ”
But in fact, it was not that Ren Chengwei was unwilling to marry her, but that Ren Chengwei had no money, no house, and no car at that time, so what would he marry?
Ren Chengwei patiently explained to Huang Lei opposite: "I also want to get married, but now I have nothing, I can't even give you a wedding, I can't let you live a hard life with me!"
In Huang Lei's view, material things are not important, she only values Ren Chengwei.
still remembers that when they first entered college, the two were classmates in the play, and the play was also the beginning of their fate.
In Huang Lei's words, Ren Chengwei in her impression is always silly, but very cute.
Compared with Ren Chengwei, who came to Shanghai from a small county town to go to school, Huang Lei has lived in a big city since she was a child, and her parents are intellectuals and local cadres in Harbin.
However, in the class, because the two are from the Northeast, they naturally got closer at the beginning.
At that time, due to family reasons, Ren Chengwei's monthly living expenses were only 50 yuan, and he was 1.85 meters tall and couldn't eat at all, but Huang Lei always helped him in her own way.
But she's smart and it's a different way each time because she doesn't want to hurt the big boy's self-esteem.
In Ren Chengwei's eyes, he was attracted to Huang Lei when he saw him in the class for the first time, with big eyes and long black hair that was very charming, it can be said that Ren Chengwei fell in love with Huang Lei at first sight.
However, at the beginning, the two were not in a hurry to fall in love, but started as friends, and when they were fine, the two would chat together, talk about the world, talk about their dreams, and recall their lives when they were children.
There are many beautiful girls in the class, and Huang Lei attracts Ren Chengwei not only beautifully, but also her simplicity and kindness.
In 1990, the two officially confirmed their relationship, but none of the people around them were optimistic about the two of them, "The gap between you is too big, let's divide it!"
But in the face of love, these gossips are nothing, and the two studied Xi together in 4 years of college and made progress together.
When it comes to holidays or each other's birthdays, they will be very serious about preparing birthday gifts for each other, which are not particularly expensive, but they are attentive enough.
After graduating from university, both of them were assigned to work in Beijing, but in the first few years, Ren Chengwei's work did not go well, and even fell to no filming.
But even so, Huang Lei still chose not to give up, and even at that time she offered to get married.
After meeting each other's parents, the two registered their marriage in May 1996, and except for the marriage certificate obtained for 9 yuan, the two had no wedding, no wedding photos, and not even a decent piece of furniture.
The father-in-law and mother-in-law are very open-minded people, and they do not dislike Ren Chengwei's family background, they believe that Ren Chengwei will definitely get ahead.
In this way, after getting married, the two lived in a basement that was too small to be smaller, Huang Lei did not complain, and this stay was 7 years.
3, became famous with "Snow Without a Trace", and has been married for 27 years
After just one year of marriage, their daughter was also born, but at that time, his career development was still not very good, and the family still lived in the basement of Beijing.
In order to better grow up the child, after the child was 6 months old, the couple sent the child to live with his grandparents who had better conditions.
At that time, most of the lives of the two relied on Huang Lei's salary to maintain.
After several years of hard life, Ren Chengwei finally saw his hope on the road of being an actor.
In 2001, he was appreciated by the director and starred in the actor Fang Yulin in "Snow Without a Trace", perhaps God also saw Ren Chengwei's efforts.
As soon as this drama was broadcast, the name Ren Chengwei became popular, and with this drama, he directly won the audience's favorite actor award that year.
It was also from this year that his acting career improved, but he was still very cautious about the choice of scripts, and would rather not make dramas than take on bad dramas.
Finally, in 2003, he had some savings and his daughter was due to go to primary school, so the couple took out a mortgage to buy a house in Beijing.
After the child came back, his wife Huang Lei asked him to develop his career well, and he put more energy into the family, which became his strong backing.
And he also handed over all his salary to his wife, just to reassure her that he would always love her.
A few years later, his wife gave birth to a daughter for him, and he had two small padded jackets at once, and he was still the same for his wife.
Ren Chengwei looks very handsome, and after he became popular, he began to act with many beautiful female stars, and of course his wife would be worried.
But after so many years of marriage, he would always prepare surprises for his wife from time to time, and later felt that he had less and less time to spend with his family, and he also slowed down his work pace and spent more time with his wife and children.
He often thinks about what acting is for? It is nothing more than wanting to make his family happier with his own efforts, but happiness seems to have little to do with the amount of money.
After slowing down his pace, he traveled with his wife, sang and painted with his children, and took his mother to Beijing to enjoy his old age.
And he is most grateful to his father-in-law's family, if there was no recognition from them back then, how could Ren Chengwei have everything now?
Write at the end
In today's materialistic entertainment industry, Ren Chengwei may not be conspicuous, but he is one of the few clear streams in the entertainment industry.
In terms of career, he is serious and conscientious, bringing one impressive role after another to the audience; in the family, he and his wife are as loving as ever, caring for the elderly on both sides, and educating their children.
Ren Chengwei's appearance may be what an actor should look like now!
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