She is from Wuhan, everyone calls him Sister Yan, she has just been retired for 2 years, and her pension is about 3,000, and her husband is 3 years older than him, he is a workshop worker, and his monthly salary is 5,500.
Before retirement, Sister Yan and his husband were from a factory, he was a warehouse keeper, and the salary was almost in the early 4,000s at that time. Because the pension payment time is not long, the pension is not high.
Two jobs after retirement
After retirement, Sister Yan was also idle at home, so she found a job as a community cleaner under the introduction of the neighborhood, also from 9 to 5, and she could get more than 2,000 a month, and there was usually a sister to talk to. In the evening, I went to a supper shop opened by a relative's house with my husband to help, and the two of them could almost get an income of more than 3,000.
Calculated that the salary of the two people is almost 13,500 yuan, and you can feel how tired you are from the tiredness on Sister Yan's face. The friends around her persuaded her not to exhaust herself and not to be young.
Sister Yan saw in the circle of friends that the retired ladies were showing themselves to travel and play everywhere, she was still very envious in her heart, but she was helpless. Many people ask Sister Yan, after working hard for so many years, she is finally retired, why is she still working so hard?
Sister Yan generally says to outsiders that she has worked hard all her life and is Xi to it, and she can't stop. Those who know her know that she does all this because of the pearl in the palm of his family.
Apple of my eye
Sister Yan happened to implement family planning at that time, and her family only gave birth to such a girl under the policy. The girls of Sister Yan's family are competitive, they have been very good in Xi since elementary school, they have been top students in the class since they were children, generally in the top three, and they have never let Sister Yan worry about it.
At that time, the people around her were very envious of Sister Yan, saying that she was lucky to give birth to such a competitive daughter, who was not only good at Xi learning, but also sensible. In the future, her daughter will be admitted to a good university, and she will definitely make a big difference, and the old couple will enjoy Qingfu when the time comes. The people around him all taught their children to take Sister Yan's daughter as a benchmark example, and for a while, Sister Yan became the object of envy of everyone. Every time Sister Yan hears such words, a proud expression appears on her face, and I am afraid that ordinary people can't enjoy this feeling.
And later, Sister Yan's daughter did not disappoint her, whether it was taking the junior high school or high school entrance examination, she almost never let the old couple worry about it, and they were the best schools in the city. And the university entrance examination is also very smooth, and I was admitted to a 985 school in Wuhan as I wished, and I have always been very good in college, I get scholarships every year, and I was admitted to the graduate school after graduating from the bachelor's degree.
After graduating, my daughter also found a job by herself, traveled to several major cities in China, and finally stayed in Beijing and worked for three years, with a salary of more than 20,000, which is not bad.
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In the second year of working in Beijing, my daughter met a boyfriend, the boy's hometown is in rural Henan, and he has been working hard in Beijing for more than 5 years, but the salary is slightly worse, only in his early 10,000s.
The two young people have been together for more than a year, and their daughter proposed to get married, and later learned that her daughter was pregnant. At that time, the young couple was still crammed into a small dilapidated house of dozens of square meters, for the sake of the child's future study or development, the daughter still hoped to buy a house in Beijing, and the daughter had never made any requests to Sister Yan before, and Sister Yan had no way to refuse.
It stands to reason that the man usually buys a house, but the man's hometown is rural, and the old family has spent all the family's savings to let him come to Beijing to study, and he also has a younger brother who is also in college, and the family still needs to subsidize it from time to time, thinking that it is impossible to take out the extra money.
Sister Yan actually prepared a dowry of almost 300,000 yuan for her daughter at the beginning, thinking that she could go back to her hometown after graduation to introduce her to a good in-law's family, and her mother's dowry, a car and 100,000 cash were also very good.
But it backfired, and her daughter insisted on staying in Beijing to buy a house, so Sister Yan and her husband scraped together all their savings, and then added up to more than 700,000 yuan with the money that their daughter had saved over the years, and then borrowed 400,000 yuan from relatives and made up 1.1 million yuan.
The daughter has always been the pride of the old couple's hearts, and the previous college entrance banquet made the old couple also beautiful once, thinking that getting married could also make the old couple proud again, but the daughter said that in order to save money, the ceremony will not be held, and the two will find a place to spend their honeymoon. In fact, the old couple still has some regrets and regrets in their hearts, why is this so?
The house in Beijing is done, but the remaining mortgage is also a big mountain, and the daughter's family almost barely pays off the loan, and the hundreds of thousands of old couples who borrowed still have to bear it.
But according to Sister Yan's current pension and her husband's income, she has to pay it back until the Year of the Monkey without eating or drinking, so she can only say that she has to pay back the money by taking a few more part-time jobs. Sister Yan said that it would be over in a few years anyway, and it would be over when the time came, and it would not be too late to travel everywhere and enjoy life.
Sister Yan also said later, in fact, in retrospect, if her daughter was not so good, she would not have gone to Beijing, she might still stay by her side, and the pressure to buy a house would not be so great, and she can see it every day, don't worry, you can take care of the old couple. Who would have thought that excellent would be such a luxury.
PEEKER COMMENTS: Many people around me hope that their children can get ahead and be promising. But in fact, in today's society, the pressure of excellent people is greater than that of ordinary people, and their pressure will also be passed on to their parents. And it seems that it is more about taking, and less giving, and less energy and time to think about parents. This is a question that needs to be thought about by everyone!?