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Sentence | Impossible Meaning
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Preface
On December 12, 2023, Zhou Haimei's studio released a shocking news that the famous Hong Kong actress Zhou Haimei passed away due to a sudden illness, which is regrettable.
Presumably many people are no stranger to the name Zhou Haimei, after all, who has not read Mr. Jin Yong's novel at that time, and later after the novel was remade into a TV series, Zhou Haimei starred in the role of Zhou Zhiruo, which is very impressive.
So Zhou Haimei is more like a memory and feelings for most people, after all, Zhou Haimei is the most beautiful Zhou Zhiruo in the hearts of the majority of netizens, and when this news came out, many people were very heartbroken and reluctant.
Oolong incident
After Zhou Haimei's death, her family and netizens were grief-stricken, and many celebrities posted their condolences.
As Zhou Haimei's ex-husband, Lu Liangwei also posted a message on social media to mourn Zhou Haimei, but there were some problems in between, and Lu Liangwei was directly scolded on the hot search because of a title issue.
According to the understanding, Zhou Haimei's emotional experience in this life is very bumpy, although she has met many lovers in her life, but in the end, Lu Liangwei is the only one who enters the marriage hall hand in hand.
Although the marriage between the two did not last long at that time, at least the two had loved each other, so it was reasonable for Lu Liangwei to stand up and express his condolences at this time.
It stands to reason that Lu Liangwei's actions can be regarded as affectionate and righteous, but he was still scolded by netizens on the hot search, and this is just because of a title.
From this photo, we can see that Lu Liangwei wrote the title of Zhou Haimei as seafood, and many netizens who didn't know the inside story directly began to spray Lu Liangwei angrily.
Although the two have been separated for many years now, at least they were once husband and wife, and now they can even get their names wrong, isn't this a bit outrageous.
However, in addition to the abuse of some unknown netizens, there are still many sensible netizens who stand up to support Lu Liangwei, they said that Lu Liangwei did not make a typo, because Zhou Haimei also has another name called seafood, but this title is not known to ordinary people.
And generally people who call this name are very intimate, ordinary people will definitely not call this name when they see her, Lu Liangwei can say this nickname, which just proves from the side that the relationship between the two is actually very good.
Now we open Baidu to search, and we can see that it shows that Zhou Haimei does have another name called Haiwei, so there is nothing wrong with Lu Liangwei's name, and netizens misunderstood him.
But some netizens who are still stubborn about Lu Liangwei, in this serious occasion, they should give their names all the names, not other names, in fact, netizens are now picking on Lu Liangwei so much, maybe it's because it's difficult to calm down.
Old things
As early as 1985, the two met during the filming of "Little Island Storm", and later publicly admitted their relationship after a while, and they were a match made in heaven at that time.
Later, in 1989, the two registered their marriage abroad, at this time Lu Liangwei was 33 years old, and Zhou Haimei was only 23 years old, but this marriage only lasted 8 months and ended in a hurry.
According to Lu Liangwei's statement later, the main reason why the two separated at that time was because their concepts were not very different.
At that time, Lu Liangwei wanted to get married and have children as soon as possible, after all, his age was here, and Lu Liangwei's father also needed to be taken care of, but Zhou Haimei, who was young at the time, did not want to give up her career and teach her husband and children at home, so the conflict between the two became more and more intense.
Later, it came to the point of divorce, but it is also very bizarre to talk about divorce, because their marriage at that time was an invalid marriage.
The reason is that they registered their marriage abroad at that time, and according to Hong Kong's procedures, in addition to the need to register their marriage abroad, they also need to register again in Hong Kong, otherwise it will not count.
So from a legal point of view, Zhou Haimei has never been married in her life, but things are wrong, and it's too late to say anything now.
Zhou Haimei also fell in love several times later, and chose to give up her acting career in 2004 and chose to live in Beijing, just to accompany her boyfriend.
However, although the two have been together for 12 years, they still did not enter the palace of marriage in the end, and after the two separated, Zhou Haimei did not choose to return to Hong Kong, but continued to live in Beijing.
If Lu Liangwei and Zhou Haimei were not separated at that time, but were together well and had children, would this not be the case now?
Because it is said that Zhou Haimei had one person in the family when she became ill, and when she was later discovered by the staff, it had been several hours since the onset of the disease, so if someone was by her side at that time, would the outcome be different?
Compared with Zhou Haimei, Lu Liangwei has had a total of three marriages, the first two were with Kuang Meiyun and Zhou Haimei, and the third time he chose an outsider named Yang Xiaojuan.
Although she is an outsider, but the strength of the family should not be underestimated, Yang Xiaojuan has been doing business in Chinese mainland for many years, has already accumulated a deep family foundation, and has also served as the president of the Shenzhen Chamber of Commerce.
After the two got married, Yang Xiaojuan began the life of husband and child, after being married for so many years, Lu Liangwei's marriage is still very stable, the two also have their own sons, and Lu Liangwei will often post photos of himself and his wife on Weibo, looking very happy.
epilogue
In fact, judging from this oolong incident, although the relationship between Lu Liangwei and Zhou Haimei has passed, their friendship has not dissipated.
This affection transcends marriage, and it does not slowly disappear with the passage of time, but only grows deeper over time.
Now that Zhou Haimei has passed away, netizens' fantasies and accusations against Lu Liangwei actually don't have much significance, everything will dissipate with the wind, and finally I hope that Zhou Haimei will go all the way, and relatives and friends can get out of grief as soon as possible.