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My name is Zhang Xiaofen, I am 45 years old this year, and I have been single for many years. Over the years, he has achieved certain achievements in his career and lived a very fulfilling life. But as I got older, I also started to think about the other half of my life. I hope to find someone who is like-minded and understands each other to spend the second half of my life with.
I frowned, a little hesitant. Drinking alcohol was a warning sign to me, and my father was hurting his body because of alcoholism. But Liu Qiang's answer was also more frank, rather than saying yes. It doesn't make me feel bad, at least he's like a man who keeps his word.
Liu Qiang continued: "I understand your concerns, in fact, I am not in favor of excessive drinking. I promise that it is just some necessary social socialization and will not affect the body and family. I will put your feelings first and will never do anything that bothers you. ”
I looked into his eyes and felt that he was telling the truth. He asked me what I liked to read, and we talked about literature. He was a well-read man and had a good opinion. He also expressed affirmation and respect for my work, which made me feel comfortable.
After the blind date, Liu Qiang took the initiative to ask for my contact information. After that, he would send me messages from time to time, telling me some details of his life, and occasionally recommending some good books and movies. I really appreciate his meticulous and considerate personality.
After some time, he suggested that we go for a walk in the park, and I readily agreed. The air in the park was good that day, we walked and chatted, and the atmosphere was very harmonious. Liu Qiang dressed simply and plainly, which made me feel very modest. We found a bench and sat down, looked at the children playing on the lawn, and said that if we got married, we could have a lovely baby. I smiled and didn't answer, but my heart was beating.
On the way home, we passed by a café. Liu Qiang suggested a drink, but I noticed that there were a variety of expensive drinks on the store's wine menu. I frowned and said that the drinks here are too extravagant, let's change the store another day. Liu Qiang smiled and didn't insist, showing respect for my choice.
After that, Liu Qiang took me to eat at a simple restaurant that he frequented a few times, and also chose some light dishes. He was attentive to my preferences and knew that I didn't like food that was too greasy. These little details became more appreciative of him.
One day, Liu Qiang asked me to go to the suburbs. On the way up the mountain, we had a good chat and walked side by side. Arriving at the top of the hill with a pleasant view, we rested in the shade of the trees. Liu Qiang took out the prepared juice and sandwiches, and we ate while enjoying the scenery, and the wind was very comfortable. It was a romantic and healthy date, and I was in a good mood.
On the bus back, Liu Qiang leaned on my shoulder and took a nap. Watching him sleep peacefully, I couldn't help but wonder if this was the other half of my dreams. He is rational and steady, lives a simple life, and matches my ideals very well. Although I still need to learn more, I have gradually become attracted to him. I smiled secretly and leaned on his shoulder to close my eyes.
In this way, Liu Qiang and I began to date frequently, and the relationship became warmer and warmer. One day, he invited me to his house. When I opened the door, I was pleasantly surprised to find that the home was neat and bright, full of the smell of books. There are also several calligraphy and paintings hanging on the wall, which looks elegant and generous. It's very different from the middle-aged man in my house.
Seeing my admiring gaze, Liu Qiang said shyly: "I usually read books, practice calligraphy, and graffiti casually in my spare time, don't laugh at me." I hurriedly said, "I think this place is very warm and exquisite, full of culture, I like it so much!" Liu Qiang smiled shyly.
We chatted over tea, and Liu Qiang showed me his study, movie collection, and photos of his youth. In the photo, he was in good spirits, and I laughed at him and said that he looked like a sunny boy. We're all so happy.
When it comes to favorite movies, I say that I especially like literary films. Liu Qiang said that he has many discs of classic literary movies, and he will definitely find a chance to enjoy them with me next time. I'm happy to say yes.
We chatted as it got late. Liu Qiang sent me to the door to take the car home, and asked me if I was free on the weekend when he left, and wanted to ask me to try the newly opened Sichuan restaurant. I thought about it and said okay, I like the taste of Sichuan food very much. We happily agreed to meet at a time, and Liu Qiangmu saw me get in the car and leave.
On the weekend, Liu Qiang appeared at the door of the Sichuan restaurant on time. When I ordered, I noticed that he ordered all the light, home-style dishes. During the meal, he also paid attention to my reaction, and from time to time advised me to eat more vegetables and less spicy food. I was both touched and a little ashamed to see him take care of me meticulously, because I still wonder if he will hide other bad habits outside.
At the end of the meal, Liu Qiang proposed to go for a walk in the riverside park to eat. I hesitated, but agreed. Because apart from drinking, he still doesn't have any other grievances for me so far. We can't take away the fun of the other person just because of suspicion.
In the riverside park, we walked in the shade of the trees, and the river reflected the glow of the setting sun. Liu Qiang walked side by side with me, and I saw full of tenderness in his eyes. At this moment, a breeze blew, and he reflexively protected me, for fear that I would catch a cold. This little gesture warms my heart.
We stopped by a bench and noticed a beer stand not far away. Liu Qiang followed my gaze and saw it, he turned his head, looked into my eyes seriously and said, "Xiaofen, I know you are still worried about whether I will drink too much. Please trust me, I will take your feelings first and will not do anything to disappoint you. Our future has just begun, and it deserves all my sincerity. ”
Touched by his eyes and words, I nodded and said, "Then let's change directions, and don't let the wine disturb the mood every time." Liu Qiang immediately smiled in agreement, took my hand and turned to the other side of the park.
We walked in the park until it was getting dark, and Liu Qiang took me to my doorstep. He asked me if I wouldn't go to the new exhibition next week. I thought about it for a moment and asked him, "Isn't it too noisy?" Liu Qiang said: "After the exhibition, we can go to the café by the river to have a leisurely tea and chat, what do you think?" I was so impressed by this suggestion that I gladly agreed.
On the day of the exhibition, Liu Qiang came to pick me up early. He wore a clean sweatshirt and slacks today and looked very energetic. I'm also dressed up fresh and pleasant. During the exhibition, Liu Qiang patiently accompanied me from room to room, expressing his views in support of my opinions, and he was not at all bored. When looking at the paintings, he supported my elbows from time to time, which was considerate and natural.
We had a great chat, from work to living habits, from the past to plans for the future. I find Liu Qiang very comfortable with him, he is gentle and has his own opinions, which is the quality of my ideal other half.
After three cups of tea, we talked until dark. Liu Qiang offered to send me home after checking out. On the way, he has been carefully supporting me, for fear that I will accidentally slip and fall. When he got home, he watched me go upstairs to the door and agreed to meet tomorrow.
After a few days, we resumed regular contact again. In one conversation, Liu Qiang mentioned that some of his old friends often asked him to go to the bar with him, but he politely declined because he knew I didn't like the environment. I smiled and expressed my understanding and gratitude.
And just like that, we dated for a month. Liu Qiang has always been considerate and thoughtful to me and has never broken any promises, which makes my impression of him better and better. I thought it was time to express my inner thoughts and talk to him about the next steps.
One day, we met at a café. I spoke directly what I thought and asked for his opinion. Liu Qiang was ecstatic, he said that he was also planning to propose to me, and my initiative made him happy. He immediately made a formal confession to me and said that he would definitely make me happy. I accepted him with a red face.
In this way, we established the relationship and began to date. At first, we only told this news to a few close friends, and the others did not know about it for the time being. During this time, I feel that life is full of sweetness, and I have redoubled my efforts at work, thinking of contributing more to our future. I believe that as long as two hearts love each other sincerely, they will be able to overcome all difficulties.
First of all, we made an appointment to have dinner together, but Liu Qiang was 40 minutes late and arrived in a hurry. He explained that the company had a temporary meeting that was delayed. Although I was dissatisfied that he didn't tell me in advance, I still understood his busy work situation.
A few days later, I called Liu Qiang again, and it rang several times before it was deducted, and it took a while to call back, saying that he had just been taking a shower and didn't hear it. I was a little confused, but I didn't think much of it.
However, then, he frequently shirked our dates. Sometimes it's overtime, sometimes it's a gathering of friends, and every reason sounds reasonable. I began to feel a little uneasy, wondering if he was losing interest in me.
One day, Liu Qiang asked me to go to a newly opened restaurant for dinner. When I arrived at the restaurant, I noticed that his face was a little wrong and his spirit was not good. I asked him with concern what was wrong. Liu Qiang flickered, only saying that maybe he didn't rest well because of the pressure at work. I don't think he wants to talk about it, and he doesn't force it.
During the meal, the waiter recommended a certain wine to accompany the meal, Liu Qiang's eyes lit up, and he immediately said a bottle. I was slightly surprised and reminded him that I didn't like to drink during meals. Liu Qiang suddenly remembered and said to the waiter that there was no need to drink. I saw a flash of loss on his face.
After eating, Liu Qiang was not in high spirits, and did not take the initiative to send me home as usual, but hurriedly said goodbye to me and left. This unusual behavior made me even more apprehensive.
In the following week, Liu Qiang did not contact me. I couldn't get through when I called him, and I couldn't get through to the mess. Finally, one day, I couldn't help it and went to his company to look for him. The front desk said he had taken a week of sick leave. I took the elevator straight to his house, but no one answered. I couldn't figure out what was going on.
Just as I was about to call the police, Liu Qiang's call finally came again. He said he suddenly became unwell and went to the hospital for a few days for a check-up. I listened to his weak voice, let go of my doubts, and said that I would go to see him. But Liu Qiang politely refused my visit, saying that he didn't want me to see him like this. I'm sad, but I don't want to force it.
This state lasted for a while, and Liu Qiang often had sick leave and rarely contacted me. I feel that the distance between us is getting farther and farther away. Finally one day, I couldn't hold back the uneasiness in my heart and went directly to Liu Qiang's house.
I rang the doorbell several times without answering, and was about to leave when the door suddenly opened. Liu Qiang looked at me with a stunned face, looking tired and smelling of alcohol. I was shocked and immediately asked him what he had been up to lately and what was wrong with his body.
Liu Qiang was silent for a long time, and finally broke down and cried. He confessed that he had fallen into a state of alcoholism during this time, due to the huge setbacks and blows he had suffered at work. He didn't want me to worry, so he kept avoiding me. He knew it was against our agreement, but he couldn't help himself, so he could only avoid me for the time being.
I listened to him choke up and explain, and my heart was mixed. I was sad that he didn't dare to ask me for help, and I was angry that he broke his promise and didn't keep his promise. But seeing him so remorseful and painful, I couldn't help but soften my heart. I quietly cleaned his messy home, made a clean bed, and let him get a good night's sleep.
After a period of time, I always took care of Liu Qiang and didn't let him have a chance to touch the wine again. Through various activities, I also tried to distract him, but I was still nervous. I know that it has only been a little over a month, and I have encountered such a big problem, and it will take a long time to rebuild trust.
Just when I thought we were getting back on track, a friend suddenly called and said that he had seen Liu Qiang drunk alone in a bar yesterday. I couldn't believe my ears. Anger took over my heart, and I immediately rushed to Liu Qiang's company to find out the truth.
Liu Qiang appeared in front of me with a flushed face and apologized incoherently. He said that at the company's annual meeting, his colleagues advised him to drink, but he really couldn't hold back. Holding back tears, I asked him why he had broken his promise again, and if he didn't care about my feelings. Liu Qiang could only keep saying sorry, please give him one last chance.