Child:
First of all, congratulations on starting a brand new high school life, which will be a very important stage in your life, it is the foundation for us to move into the future, and it is also full of new opportunities and challenges.
From junior high school to high school, the difficulty gap in learning has increased, even if you have been mentally prepared before, but after several exams, you are not conspicuous in the class of masters, and you have not met your expectations, I understand that you may feel lost and frustrated, and I can also hear your anxiety and pressure on the phone.
However, I hope you can understand that winning and losing is the norm of life, and you can only win if you can afford to lose. Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is the fear of failure, failure is not the end, but a new starting point, it provides us with the opportunity to learn and grow, let us understand our weaknesses and shortcomings more deeply, and then strive to improve, for the next challenge to lay an extra cornerstone, I believe you have enough courage and determination to face the challenge.
You remember that learning and growing is a long-term process that requires constant effort and accumulation, and there is no overnight success, only accumulation. Exams are only a small part of life, neither important nor important, a mistake, no need to be arrogant, slumped, always have the courage to start over. Learning this, no matter what, you need to go through a boring, arduous process, pay and gain is not proportional is the norm, you have requirements for yourself, in the face of test scores again and again, it is impossible not to be anxious, but don't rush to self-denial, give yourself some time, face pressure, need to find a way to relieve pressure, adjust yourself, these are part of growth.
Finally, I want to tell you where the road leads in the future, where you can go, depends on your exploration and persistence, no matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter, we will always support you, accompany you, and hope that you can enjoy this wonderful time, in the future you will definitely be nostalgic for yourself who are fighting for now!
All the family who cares about you!
November 25, 2023