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The one-child policy has been implemented in the mainland for a long time, and under the guidance of this policy, the first batch of only children who have grown up have begun to become parents, and now there are more and more one-child families, which have slowly evolved into a huge group.
The implementation of the one-child policy is aimed at changing the problem of poor quality of childbirth caused by the inability of the mainland to give birth to children, and also to slow down the growth rate of the mainland's population.
This policy had a strong sense of advanced consciousness at that time and solved many difficult problems at that time. Now that this group of children has grown up, they are facing a situation that has never been seen before or since.
Ancient China was a society that advocated more children and more blessings, and the number of only children was extremely rare, and it was almost impossible for people to study and deal with it as a problem, but after entering the new era, the only child will be a problem that Chinese society must pay attention to.
These large number of only children will face the most severe pension problem in history. With the improvement of people's living standards and the improvement of medical technology, people's general life expectancy is much longer than in the past.
Today's only children are often still alive after their grandparents and grandparents get married, and this is also the time when their parents begin to grow old, and their parents are getting old and need to be taken care of by their children.
And the parents of their parents also need to be taken care of, and their parents are old and powerless. The responsibility for this care falls on the only child of this generation. Usually, the old man is fine if there is no problem with his health.
Once the elderly have physical problems, they need to be hospitalized or taken care of by their families. The responsibility for these only children is heavier. I have to take care of several elderly people, and I also have to work to support my family. One person has to do a lot of things, and he is really unskilled.
Especially when your own children are also born, you have to take care of the young and the old, and you have to support the family. There are no brothers and sisters to share the heavy burden on their bodies, so they can only insist on carrying it themselves.
The above issue has been a hot issue that has been concerned by the society in the past few years, and the government is also trying to reduce the burden of family life on this part of the population, but the next issue is a new hot topic of discussion in recent years.
In various news in the past few years, we often see a post-90s and post-00s firefighter who died heroically, and at the same time, young people who died suddenly at the workstation emerged one after another.
The life of young people who are now very easy to lose and the life span of their parents' generation because of better living conditions has formed a human tragedy of white-haired people sending black-haired people.
When these only children lose their lives because of work and because of their faith, there are often young, strong and still alive parents in the family. They poured out a child with all their energy and love, and poured all their efforts into this child.
But a sudden disaster took the life of his only child. Since then, the children I have worked hard to raise for more than 20 years have disappeared from this world, and I have really become a loner.
Seeing the harmony of other people's families, on the one hand, they have to endure the pain of losing a child, and on the other hand, they have to face the situation of no one to support their old age, and it has become the common wish of these families who have lost their children to spend time and energy hoping to have another child.
When the group of only children gradually grows, it means that there will be more and more families, as long as the children do not grow up safely, they will face the situation of becoming lonely and widowed elderly, psychologically frustrated, and physically unbearable.
And there is a more realistic problem in front of these only children who have grown up with love, they generally bear heavier psychological pressure than families with many children, and their requirements for themselves are generally higher, because they know in their hearts that their parents will have to rely on themselves when they are old.
They often think very clearly that they enjoy the love of their parents alone, and naturally have to bear the responsibility of raising their parents when they are old. Therefore, when they think about career development and planning, they may think more about their future prospects than other families with many children.
They must take responsibility for the continued development of their families. However, many families with many children do not have such a heavy psychological baggage, because their perception of family is somewhat different from that of an only child.
Only children are often deeply tied to their own family and parents. When he thinks about problems, he often starts not from his own point of view, but from the perspective of his own family.
For children, children in families often form a sense of independence because of early competition. Realize that you and your parents are different individuals, and sooner or later you will form a family of your own, but you will have a little more sense of boundaries with the family.
Therefore, when the only child is considering the problem, the teacher starts from the family, and invisibly carries a very heavy burden on himself. On the contrary, I will be a little timid on many issues.
For example, if you want to go to a farther place to develop, but you are worried that your parents will be inseparable from you. So in order not to worry his parents, he gave up his plan to leave his parents first.
When an only child enjoys the exclusive favor of his parents, he has to face the status quo of his own heavy burden, which is also a problem that nearly 200 million only children need to consider now.
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