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Parents want their children to grow up to be successful, so each pair of parents has a very different way of educating their children.
There are many parents who hope that their children can grow up in adversity, after all, goshawks who have not experienced wind and rain cannot soar in the sky.
In 2012, there was a video that went viral. In the video, a four-year-old boy is wearing only underwear, crying and running in the vast snow, and the sky is still covered with goose feathers.
The little boy was red from the cold, and the person who took the video was his father, the little boy curled up and shivered as he ran, and he begged not to run anymore.
His father scolded him harshly and kept running, not stopping. The little boy cried harder, but his footsteps did not stop.
As soon as this video came out, it immediately caused controversy on the Internet. There are many netizens who believe that the father in the video is obviously abusing children. Some netizens also questioned that the child was not biological.
In the face of the huge controversy, the father who shot the video did not respond clearly, and people do not know what kind of secret is hidden behind this.
Now, 11 years have passed since that "snow run", how is the little boy crying and running in the vast snow? Why did his father so cruelly let his four-year-old son be tortured almost naked in the cold?
Suffering at birth
The father in the video is named He Liesheng, and the four-year-old child running in the snow is named He Yide. He Liesheng and his wife have a very good relationship, and their lives have become sweeter after his wife is pregnant.
At that time, He Liesheng's career was on the rise, and although his wife was pregnant, He Liesheng was still busy with work, which was also a helpless thing.
He Liesheng always hurried home to take care of his wife after finishing work. I'm afraid that my wife will give birth suddenly, but I'm afraid of what will come.
One day, when He Liesheng was working, he suddenly received a call from home. The wife anxiously said that she was about to give birth.
After hearing the news, He Liesheng hurried home and sent his wife to the hospital, He Liesheng's heart rose to his throat.
According to the original date of delivery, the wife still has some time before she signs of going into labor, and the current situation is undoubtedly premature.
He Liesheng was very afraid that something would happen to his wife and children, and outside the delivery room, He Liesheng kept praying, hoping that the mother and son would be safe.
After the doctor came out of the delivery room, he told He Liesheng with a solemn face that the child's condition was not optimistic because he was less than a month, and he should be urgently sent to the intensive care unit for monitoring.
The implication is to let He Liesheng be mentally prepared, because the body of the premature child is very weak and it is very likely that he will not survive.
The doctor's words dealt a heavy blow to He Liesheng, and without thinking about it, He Liesheng immediately asked the doctor to save the child.
You must know that He Liesheng's wife suffered a lot in order to give birth to this child. If the child has something long and short, He Liesheng can't imagine how broken his wife will be.
After a few days in the intensive care unit, Ho's condition stabilized. But the bad news came.
The doctor told He Liesheng that because He Yide was born two months prematurely, all the development of his body was incomplete in the mother's body.
After examination, He Yide's brain volume was significantly smaller than that of full-term infants. This means that He Yide is likely to become a child with cerebral palsy in the future, commonly known as mental retardation.
He Liesheng and his wife were very heavy when they learned the news that was like a bolt from the blue. But the two quickly adjusted their emotions, after all, it is the greatest luck for the child to survive.
"Eagle Dad" education
After returning home from the hospital, He Liesheng focused all his energy on the child.
He Liesheng and his wife have a middle-aged child, and they care about this child very much. He Liesheng said that no matter what happens to this child, he must be raised well.
He Liesheng and his wife took He Yide to many authoritative children's hospitals, but after examination, the doctors all said that He Yide was born prematurely for too many days, and if he became cerebral palsy, it would be incurable for life.
The doctors all cast sympathetic glances at He and his wife, but He Liesheng did not believe that his child would be a child with cerebral palsy.
He began to consult a large number of medical materials and found many cases of treating children with cerebral palsy through non-medical means.
In many cases, it has been said that cerebral palsy occurs in children with cerebral palsy because of their weak constitution, which can be changed by artificial physical enhancement.
So He Liesheng made an exercise plan at home He Yide, although he is only a toddler, but He Liesheng believes that if you want to cure this disease, you must start from early childhood, otherwise it will be too late when the child grows a few years old.
He Liesheng placed a children's bathtub at home, and it is natural for children to play with water. He Liesheng filled the bathtub with warm water and let the child splash in it, which can also play a role in moving the limbs to achieve the effect of exercise.
He Liesheng put a lot of brightly colored toys in the water, so that He Yide could enjoy his activities in the water. But it backfired. He Yide's physique was too weak, he caught a cold in the warm water, and after a night of fever, He Liesheng decided to change to a new way of exercising.
He Liansheng began to put He Yide into the bathtub infused with hot water, slowly adapting to the water temperature.
After staying in the hot water for a few days, and then gradually lowering the water temperature, He Yide gradually adapted to the change in water temperature and would no longer have a fever because of the water temperature.
persisted for about a few months, and He Liesheng took He Yide to the hospital for a reexamination. The doctor was surprised to find that He Yide's physique had improved significantly, because of a lot of exercise, He Yide's brain volume development gradually became normal.
He Liesheng finally let go of his hanging heart, but He Yide's body was still very weak.
So He Liesheng decided that exercise could not be stopped, and He Liesheng hung a lot of bright cards with words at home, so that He Yide, who was just six or seven months old, could learn to read and write, so as to strengthen brain exercise.
After the daily literacy time, He Liesheng would take He Yide outside for a walk. He Yide couldn't leave yet, so He Liesheng put him in a special stroller and let him slowly move outdoors.
He Yide walks a few hundred meters every day, which is a very large amount of exercise for a toddler. Sometimes his wife feels sorry for her children, and He Liesheng will patiently give his wife the stakes.
When He Yide was two years old, He Liesheng took him to climb some hills and let him walk independently. Some of the mountain roads were so steep that even adults had to walk out of breath, but He Yide insisted on completing them under He Liesheng's supervision.
Under the careful cultivation of his father, when He Yide was three years old, his literacy and exercise far exceeded that of children of the same age.
In order to allow He Yide to receive a better education, He Liesheng decided to take his wife and children abroad, and found an aristocratic kindergarten in New York, USA.
The curriculum in this kindergarten is all customized, and He Liesheng's purpose is to let He Yide learn English from an early age, so that he can learn more adaptable in the future.
"Crying" became famous in the heavy snow
In the winter of 2012, it snowed heavily in New York, USA, and the weather was very cold. Many people choose to stay at home and not come out in this bad weather.
He Liesheng looked at the weather outside but was very happy, because he had long wanted He Yide to hone his physique in bad weather.
He Yide's physique is still relatively weak, and He Liesheng feels that letting He Yide exercise in the cold weather against the wind and snow is more conducive to improving the body's immunity.
So He Liesheng took He Yide to the snow outside, He Yide was reluctant at first, after all, he was a child, and it was his nature to be afraid of the cold.
But he couldn't stand his father's deterrence, so he could only obediently follow He Liesheng to the ice and snow.
He Liesheng ordered his son to take off all the thick clothes he was wrapping in. He Yide didn't understand why his father was doing this, because he was too cold, and under his father's scolding, He Yide still stripped off all the clothes on his body and only wore a pair of thin underwear.
For a child, in such extreme weather, it is undoubtedly a kind of torture. Next, He Liesheng took a sports video for He Yide, who was running in the ice and snow.
This made four-year-old He Yide suddenly popular on the Internet. At the same time, it also attracted a lot of criticism to He Liesheng, netizens thought that He Liesheng, as a father, was too inhumane, and a four-year-old child could bear to be tortured like this.
Most netizens have extremely sharp criticism of He Liesheng, but He Liesheng doesn't care about it, because he knows what he does.
He Liesheng often told He Yide that if he suffered more when he was a child, he would not get sick because of his physique when he grew up.
Something extraordinary
As he grew up, He Yide also understood his father He Liesheng's good intentions.
He is very grateful to his father for being strict with him since he was a child, and when he grew up, He Yide's physique was stronger than his peers, and he never got sick, not even a cold or fever.
Many people are very envious of He Yide's physique, and He Yide always smiled and said that this is all the credit of his father He Liesheng.
When He Yide was five or six years old, he could sail alone in a sailboat on the lake, something that most children of his age could never have imagined.
At the age of eight, He Yide passed more than 20 university courses on his own with excellent grades. At the age of 13, He Yide was admitted to the University of Wukang in Spain and studied at the university as a graduate student.
At the age of 13, other children have just graduated from primary school, and He Liesheng has reached heights that many people cannot reach in their lives.
But this is far from the end of the road, as at the age of 15, the University of São Paulo threw an olive branch to Ho, becoming the youngest PhD student at the University of São Paulo since its founding.
Not only that, he has also won a number of international awards, he has been proficient in chess, taekwondo, computer programming, etc., since he was a child, and has achieved outstanding results in each of them.
His achievements are a dream that many people yearn for but cannot reach, and now He Yide is active in many fields and has done outstanding results in different fields.
When he was diagnosed with cerebral palsy by doctors, he became a genius boy in people's mouths under the careful cultivation of his father He Liesheng. It's a miracle, and the name of this miracle is Great Fatherly Love.
When every child is born, it is like a seedling, and what it grows into depends on the cultivation of parents and their own abilities from an early age. Under the education of his father He Liesheng, He Yide has a strong physique and extraordinary achievements.
Behind He Yide's success, his father He Liesheng is still suffering from many people's criticism, but He Liesheng doesn't care about it at all.
He and his son He Yide both know how difficult the road their father and son have gone through to get back on the right track in life.
Life has many tribulations, but if you have enough faith, you will be able to overcome it! After all, how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?