"Goodbye Lover": Chen Ming pierced Fu Seoul's disguise, she didn't want to change for Liu Yi, she just wanted to divorce

Even after watching the trailer last week, I still thought that Chen Ming had so much energy.

He only came for one day, saw the problem, the way he dealt with it, the point of view,

They are all more in-depth and valuable than a few so-called guests and experts in the studio.

In the third season of "Goodbye Lover", there were three waves of artist guests.

Li Jing and Dai Jun are purely here to join in the fun.

Although Li Songwei communicated with Fu Seoul and Liu Yi, his output did not let Fu Seoul see his true self.

Chen Ming laughed harmlessly, but his words were like a sharp knife, piercing everyone's disguises one by one.

In this issue, Fu Seoul's expression was solemn throughout the whole process, without the previous calm and breezy posture, and occasionally pointing at others.

Her hands kept making small movements, betraying her heart.

She can speak well, but she is pale in front of Liu Yi's sincere expression

01

The first question that Chen Ming brought was:

"Press the button to turn your other half into the most ideal lover in your heart, do you want to press it?"

Only Fu Seoul pressed the button.

Her reasoning was:

"The perfect partner is that all the problems you encounter now do not exist, why not shoot this button and let it all disappear, leaving only the days and months when you are still in love..."

Fu Seoul automatically brought into the thinking of a debater, and all her statements were insincere.

Lao Liu asked her, "Why are we together?" It's not because the other person is perfect, it's because you love each other. ”

"Do you know what imperfection is? Everything in the world has become so perfect, you have no comparison, you don't know what perfection is, and you may not feel happy at such moments. ”

"And everyone's personality and temperament are different, and they make up our three-dimensional person, if your partner becomes so perfect, don't you think it's very fake?"

"The so-called perfection only exists in the human imagination, and once it is realized, I think all beliefs about love will collapse."

It is rare to see Liu Yi have such a long output, and his sincerity and strength are impressive.

Fu Seoul apparently disagrees with Liu Yi's statement.

She asked Liu Yi rhetorically: "If we are so satisfied to fall in love with an imperfect person, why do we sit here, why do we discuss leaving?" ”

Liu Yi: "Is it because they are not separated because the other party is perfect?" I don't think so, it's still because of love, only love can make each other continue in each other's lives. ”

At this moment, the audience felt that Liu Yi and Fu Seoul were also evenly matched.

It's just that in daily life, he hides his sharp side and leaves all the shining moments to Fu Seoul.

02

In the discussion that followed, I always felt that Fu Seoul was sitting on the edge of his seat.

She wants to use her perfect partner as a mirror to make herself a more perfect person.

Even Zhang Shuo knew that it was a very selfish thing to change his partner at will, but Fu Seoul didn't notice it.

Chen Ming pointed out the problem with a sharp point:

"All his changes are decided by you, he has no choice, no space, his subjectivity, his free will, like a plasticine, you pinch him out ..."

"Plasticine can never decide what it looks like."

At this time, Liu Yi said:

"Whether it's changing others, or changing your own perception, I think this person is so miserable, you change others without asking for the other party's opinion, does he want to change?"

"You change yourself, you change your true feelings, it turns out that those unfortunate things still exist, but your self-hypnosis."

Fu Seoul is talking about reasoning and debate.

Liu Yi is talking about life, and it is the problem between them.

03

The perfect partner in Fu Seoul's eyes is Liu Yi, who has no shortcomings.

Liu Yi, who loves life, has things he wants to do very much, and is not so lazy.

The traits that Fu Seoul wants are all particularly obvious traits in her.

Chen Ming told her that she lacked empathy for Liu Yi's life form.

If Fu Seoul had a better understanding of Liu Yi's underlying motives, maybe Liu Yi would have become what Fu Seoul expected.

The meaning of this sentence is that if you want to change others, you must first change yourself.

It is obvious that Fu Seoul is unwilling, so divorce is the easiest and most efficient method for her.

Fu Seoul doesn't feel that she lacks empathy for Liu Yi, empathy will only make her more painful, and empathy will not solve any problems.

The reason why Liu Yi became so indifferent.

In fact, it comes from Fu Seoul's lack of empathy, she will only continue to give negative feedback to Liu Yi and constantly deny Liu Yi.

was much more negative, Liu Yi didn't change it even if he wanted to, and he began to defend himself.

In the end, he simply didn't even say anything, and he didn't pay attention to Fu Seoul.

To take my brother's simple example, on the night of the wedding anniversary, Lao Liu wanted to make some changes, so he prepared a surprise.

After being splashed with a basin of cold water by Fu Seoul, he returned to his indifferent and combing appearance.

04

Chen Ming also asked Liu Yi a soul question.

He asked Liu Yi, "Are you happy?" Why do you keep thinking about whether she's happy or not? Is it your mission to make her happy? ”

"What about your appeal? What will make you happy in your past 15 years? ”

Chen Ming originally wanted to know what caused Liu Yi's current state.

Fu Seoul took the opportunity to interject and changed the direction of the topic

Chen Ming guessed that Liu Yi lost himself because he was covered by something, and this thing should be inferior.

He felt that Liu Yi's mask was the thickest, and it could even be said that Liu Yi's self had merged with the mask.

In Chen Ming's view, there must be some deep reason why Liu Yi has become the state he is in today.

But Fu Seoul felt that there was no reason, he was that kind of person, so old, he could hum songs when he took a bath at home.

Usually very happy, no problem falling asleep, eating and sleeping soundly every day, without any worries.

To put it simply, Liu Yi has an empty head and is not self-motivated.

When Fu Seoul said these words, Liu Yi opened his mouth, but in the end he didn't speak.

See, this is another silence after negative feedback.

Of course, Liu Yi has a problem, but this does not mean that Fu Seoul is a good wife.

05

The arrival of Chen Ming made the audience's judgment of Liu Yi and Fu Seoul clearer.

And Huang Zhizhong and Li Songwei in the studio will only pick on the advantages of Fu Seoul.

It's like everyone is surprised that Liu Yi will also debate with Fu Seoul.

But Huang Zhizhong praised Fu Seoul as the first person to press the button, and she was very courageous.

In Xixi's view, that is not called courage, that makes her know how to handle the audience and show the audience.

She has been all the way from the strange story, and she is all too familiar with the button that represents the position.

That button is just a button, it doesn't work, so Fu Seoul can be fearless.

If she could really change, I don't think she would be able to do it as simply as she does today.

(Source: "Goodbye Lover", infringement can be deleted)