Older leftover women are a special group, they are beautiful and have good figures, education and ability, in the eyes of ordinary people, they should have a happy family and a happy marriage, but this is not the case.
Some women are busy with work and studies and have no time to fall in love, some women are too afraid to fall in love after experiencing emotional damage, and some women have high vision and just want to marry a rich man, they all yearn for romantic love and a happy life, and this simple wish is out of reach for them.
Being old is the shortcoming of older leftover women, but they can change their thinking in time, adjust their mentality, and take the initiative to lower their standards, maybe they can find a man who is satisfactory, so as to live a good life, if they are obsessed, maybe what awaits her is loneliness.
The 34-year-old beauty couldn't get married, so in desperation, she went back to the countryside to build a house to recruit a son-in-law, and frankly said that she wanted to find an honest person to live a simple and happy life, and many men flattered her, but she rejected her.
Born in a rural area to honest farmers, Miss Li grew up in a poor and backward family, she was optimistic and cheerful, and had a happy childhood.
After graduating from high school, Miss Li went to work in the city, she had no education and no ability, she could only engage in manual labor, worked as a waiter, worked as a salesperson, and also worked in a hotel.
Miss Li has a limited income and can't afford to buy a house or a car, she is beautiful and in good shape, which is her biggest advantage, Miss Li plans to change her fate by "marrying well" and marrying someone in the city to live the life she dreams of.
Miss Li has been in love several times, those men have a good family background and high income, they are moved by Miss Li's beauty and lively and cheerful personality, it is not that they are just playing casually, and they have no intention of getting married at all, because Miss Li's conditions are not good and do not meet their criteria for choosing a mate.
After experiencing the pain of love, Miss Li was sad and sad, but she was not discouraged and firmly believed that there was always a good man waiting for her, and she would definitely have a happy marriage. With this thought, Miss Li waited hard, but her age was not small, and when she reached the age of 34, no man fell in love with her, and no man was willing to marry her, and Miss Li's dream of marrying someone in the city was shattered.
After thinking about it again and again, Miss Li came up with the idea of returning to the countryside, but her parents did not accept Miss Li, thinking that it was a shame that Miss Li could not get married, and they could not raise their heads in the village, and their parents turned Miss Li away. Miss Li is a strong person, she uses her savings to build a house, and plans to find a man to be her son-in-law, and they live happily in this house until they are old.
Miss Li moves bricks, builds walls, transports stones, and does what she can do herself, Miss Li's idea is very simple, the house is built as soon as possible, she gets married and has children early, and lives a happy life.
Many men come here, they like Miss Li like a flower, they want to marry Miss Li, they don't care how old Miss Li is, they promise that they are willing to be rich, and they are willing to spoil Miss Li and love Miss Li, so that Miss Li can become a happy woman.
Miss Li has a different opinion, she has high requirements for appearance, she thinks that she is beautiful and very young, a man can be honest without money, he must be handsome and handsome, and the body is strong, Miss Li believes that this is the source of security and happiness. For this reason, Miss Li rejected many men, and she never found a satisfactory marriage partner, which made her parents even more annoyed.
This incident has attracted widespread attention from netizens, and some people agree with Miss Li's idea, thinking that women should have clear criteria for choosing a mate, and women can require men to have a house and money, good economic conditions, good looks, good figures, and a man with a successful career and a large space for development, so that a man can provide material security for women and let women have a happy family.
Some people think that Miss Li's idea is unrealistic, she has no education and no ability, she is an ordinary rural woman, and it is good for a man to marry her. Moreover, Miss Li is 34 years old, past the best age for marriage and childbirth, she picks and chooses, and she has to find a man with good conditions in all aspects.
Some people also ridiculed: "Miss Li has a house, beauty and ability, she will definitely be able to find a man she likes, but it depends on how quickly she finds it or how fast she ages!" ”
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