Family is the cradle of children's growth, however, in this fast-paced era, a vivid rehabilitation vortex is quietly devouring the children's growth environment, this vortex, is called "pick-up tide". Will excessive intervention and spoiling by parents really ruin children?
It is undeniable that modern families have become the main drivers of the "pick-up tide", and parents are working hard for the growth of their children at all costs, even surpassing the tycoon of the century. However, an unprecedented wave of skepticism is spreading, with experts from various fields speaking out angrily criticizing the craze for parent pick-up.
What's going on?
Since the advent of the Internet era, we have gradually entered an era where everything can be enjoyed. In the past, children spent most of their time walking to school with their feet on their feet, but nowadays, in the face of convenient transportation and excessive care from parents, children's sense of resistance is becoming weaker and weaker.
Of course, there's nothing wrong with picking up and dropping off kids, especially in areas where there are more hazards. However, many parents regard picking up and dropping off their children as a means of excessive intervention, so that children lose even the most basic ability to be independent.
As some netizens said: "Today's children have become a kind of 'lazy babies', and they don't even dare to walk a few steps alone." ”
Childhood is the most important stage in a child's life, it is the golden period for them to develop basic abilities and explore independence. However, the excessive care of parents caused by the pick-up boom has caused children to lose their courage and adventurous spirit on the way to growth.
The "pick-up and drop-off tide" not only destroys children's ability to be independent, but also affects their exercise and learning opportunities. In order to create a better environment for their children, parents try their best to prevent their children from suffering, however, this practice is against the law of children's growth.
Pessimistically, more and more parents are lost in their children's growth and become very confused about education. And the "pick-up tide" is a common manifestation of this phenomenon. As a result, experts have expressed anger at parents' pick-up bias, which they believe ruin children.
Expert: Won't the pick-up boom ruin children?
Parents think that excessive love is a kind of love for their children, but can this love bring the growth that children want?
Psychologist Wang Jie has found that excessive care can damage children's self-esteem, lack confidence in their own abilities, and have lost their sense of independence. The absence of these frustrations can lead to children facing more serious problems in adulthood, such as emotional instability, relationship problems, etc.
In addition, over-affection can also lead to a child's lack of gratitude. In a laissez-faire and doting environment, children take everything for granted, and do not know how to cherish and reciprocate.
What parents ignore is that their children are independent and self-reliant, and they have the ability to face difficulties and challenges. We can't afford to give our children opportunities to grow for the sake of a parent's sense of security.
However, at the same time that experts questioned the craze for parent pick-up, there was also a storm of heated discussions on the Internet. Netizens generally think that experts are too harsh on parents, and they will do whatever it takes to care for their children, is this wrong?
"Don't knock over a boat with a stick, we have our own problems behind the pick-up boom. A netizen said.
Indeed, there is no single reason behind why pick-up and drop-off has become the craze of this era. Inconvenient transportation, poor environment, safety issues, etc. are all reasons why parents choose to pick up and drop. Parents are not unreasonable, they are not willing to let their children be harmed out of love and a sense of responsibility for their children.
Therefore, we should not blindly question parents, let alone deny parents' efforts because of some phenomena.
Reflections brought by the "pick-up tide".
However, we can't ignore the problems behind the "pick-up and drop-off tide". Parents over-pick up their children, not so much out of love as out of distrust of the world. They do not believe that children are capable enough to cope with difficulties, and they do not believe in the kindness and mutual assistance of society. This kind of wrong concept of education will make children prejudiced and isolated from society.
Therefore, we need to think deeply about the pick-up boom. We want to help children develop their independence and face challenges and dilemmas bravely. At the same time, parents should also give their children a certain amount of autonomy so that they can learn to think independently and solve problems.
Finally, it is only through the joint efforts of parents and children that we can create a truly suitable environment for children to grow up.
Parents picking up and dropping off their children have sparked heated discussions, focusing on the problems behind the "pick-up and drop-off tide", which is a discussion of the current situation of family education. Whether it is support or questioning, we should empathize, think from the perspective of children, and give them a suitable environment for growth.
Let's work together to create a challenging and passionate tomorrow for the growth of children!