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The variety show "Wife 6" has always been loved by the audience, and what attracts special attention is the married life of several of the guests, which has become the focus of heated discussions. Some marriages are enviable, while others are devastated. Among them, the couple Miao Miao and Zheng Kai have attracted widespread attention, some people think that the two of them are not very compatible, there is a huge gap, and Miao Miao shows too low self-esteem and insecurity, so it has been criticized and questioned a lot.
In the latest episode of the show, Miao Miao and Zheng Kai once again became the focus of the topic, and they exposed the emotional contradictions between the husband and wife. In a husband and wife game session, Zheng Kai behaved very reluctantly and seemed unwilling to cooperate, and he was unhappy throughout the whole process, leaving Miao Miao alone to explain the rules and play games.
Miao Miao noticed Zheng Kai's emotions and wanted to ask him for help, but the other party didn't pay attention to her at all, only seeing his angry and unhappy expression, Miao Miao couldn't help but collapse again, crying uncontrollably on the show, telling her grievances, and also making the couple quarrel and contradict in public.
Miao Miao began to complain about Zheng Kai's various problems and his personality, thinking that he was too selfish, never considered her feelings, liked to immerse himself in his own world, and always lived alone. even filed for divorce in public, which caused a lot of controversy.
In Miao Miao's view, husband and wife should do everything together, instead of taking care of themselves like Zheng Kai, which made her feel insecure. It can be seen that Miao Miao regards Zheng Kai as her all, and Zheng Kai still has his own career and social circle, all of which makes Miao Miao feel broken.
In fact, this type of relationship is not uncommon in life, and many people want to be comforted and submissive by their husbands, which can seem a little clingy, but it is not about being completely attached to each other, let alone being vulnerable. However, Miao Miao exhibits dependent behaviors that are beyond the normal range, she needs a great sense of security, always hoping that others will let her, but in the end she is disappointed.
Miao Miao has always had a withdrawn, inferior, and unsociable character, always living in her own world, very emotionally sensitive, and the slightest disturbance will be affected, which makes people dare not easily touch her sensitive points, which leads to her alienation from others, and further deepens her loneliness.
According to her account, the reason why she became so closed and inferior was because she had experienced the quarrels of her parents since she was a child, and no matter when and where, her parents did not care about the occasion and the presence of others, even in front of their children. This kind of scene is common in her life, causing her to feel insecure and planting the seeds of low self-esteem. She grew up away from crowds, a trait that became more severe as she got older.
However, the outside world couldn't understand Miao Miao's remarks, thinking that she was dumping the pot. After all, everyone's focus should have been on the quarrel and divorce between her and Zheng Kai, but her speech pushed her parents to the forefront, which did not arouse sympathy, but made people think that she was a little scheming.
If it is true that as Miao Miao said, her relationship with her parents is not good and her feelings are not deep, then after she married Zheng Kai, she moved everyone in her mother's family, including herself, her parents, her sister and a dog, to Zheng Kai's home to live with them. This situation is quite rare among modern young people, most of whom tend to live alone, but Miao Miao chose to move into her husband's house with the whole family, which seems a little puzzling, as if Zheng Kai was feeding the whole family and became a host of parasites.
Perhaps all this is also related to Miao Miao's inferiority complex. It can be seen that the marriage between her and Zheng Kai needs more run-in and understanding, and she can't pin all the shadows of her childhood on her husband. As Yi Nengjing said,
As Yi Nengjing said, your husband is not a doctor and cannot heal your inner wounds. Marriage needs to be based on mutual understanding and respect between both parties, and should not become a relationship of dependence and parasiticism.
Miao Miao's actions also sparked a reflection on modern marital relationships. In modern society, many couples seek independence and freedom, and they want to maintain their social circles and personal space. However, some people may be overly dependent on their spouse and want the other person to be all they have, which can cause stress and conflict in the marriage.
To build a healthy marital relationship, both parties need to maintain balance. Marriage should not be the whole of each other, but should be a partnership for two independent individuals to grow together and build the future. Both parties should support each other, but should also maintain their own interests and social lives. Such relationships are more likely to achieve long-term happiness and stability.
The examples of Miao Miao and Zheng Kai remind us that marriage requires both parties to work together to understand and respect each other's needs and spaces. Only in this way can a healthy, stable and happy family be built. I hope that they will be able to overcome difficulties, grow together and live happily together. At the same time, I hope that more people can draw inspiration from their stories and build stronger marriage relationships.
I have some opinions on the emotional problems between Miao Miao and Zheng Kai in the variety show "Wife 6". First of all, I believe that every couple's marriage is unique and not easy to be simply evaluated as a "good match" or "not a good match" by the outside world. Miao Miao and Zheng Kai's relationship problems were exposed in front of the public, which caused widespread controversy and concern, but we can't judge the entire marriage simply by the clips presented by the media. Marriage is complex and takes time and effort to adapt to each other's needs and personalities.
Secondly, regarding Miao Miao's inferiority complex, I think this is an issue that needs to be paid attention to and understood. She mentioned in the show that her inferiority complex came from the quarrels of her parents in her childhood, as well as her withdrawn personality. These factors may indeed have affected her emotional well-being and sense of self-worth. However, I also believe that everyone has their own upbringing and psychological problems, and that marriage partners should support and understand each other, but it should not be the only way to solve all problems. If Miao Miao's low self-esteem is too severe, she may need professional psychological help to deal with these problems, rather than relying on her husband to solve them.
In addition, Miao Miao's move of her family to Zheng Kai's house did cause some controversy. In modern society, most young couples prefer to live independently rather than with both families. However, each family has its own unique culture and traditions, and perhaps Miao Miao's family has special reasons or needs that led them to make this decision. We cannot simply judge this behavior on the basis of traditional ideas, as every marriage has its own unique context and situation.
Finally, marriage is a complex relationship that requires effort and understanding from both parties. Miao Miao and Zheng Kai exposed some contradictions and problems in public, but this does not mean that their marriage is doomed. Problems in marriage can be resolved through communication, compromise, and hard work. Regarding Miao Miao's low self-esteem, she can consider seeking professional psychological help to help her deal with these problems. As for the arrangement of family life, they can discuss it together and find a solution that works for both parties.
In general, we should be cautious about this type of marital issue, not judge lightly, and encourage understanding and support between couples. Every marriage is unique, and problems do not necessarily represent the failure of a marriage, but rather require both parties to work together to solve them. Hopefully, Miao Miao and Zheng Kai can overcome the difficulties they face and find the path to a happy marriage.
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