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My wife Xiaofang and I met in college, when I was an information engineering student and she majored in Chinese. The first time I met Xiao Fang was in the study hall at school. She sat across from me, looking down at a thick book of literature, very intent. I couldn't help but look at her a few more times until she sensed my gaze and looked up and smiled sweetly at me. My heart was pounding, and I've been seeing her all the time since then.
Later, I mustered up the courage to pursue her, and we slowly turned from nodding friends to lovers. After graduating from university, I found a job as a programmer, and Xiaofang also worked as an editor at a publishing house. We moved into the same apartment building, and every day when we passed by each other's doors on our commute to work, we would knock on each other's doors and say, "I'm back." This kind of life should have been smooth sailing, until one day-
"Ding Dong", the doorbell rang, I opened the door, and it was Xiaofang who came back.
"I'm back!" She said with a smile.
As soon as I tried to reply to her, I saw her take out an envelope from her bag, tear open the cover, and pull out two bills from it, one hundred yuan and one ten thousand yuan.
"Here's the cost of living for the month." She handed me the money.
I was a little surprised: "Why did you suddenly start giving me living expenses?"
Xiaofang smiled and said: "I have been working more overtime recently, so I want to leave you a share, you don't have to mind, just when I earn a little more, I want to share the beauty of life with you."
I hurriedly thanked him, but I still felt a little confused in my heart. But I didn't think much of it and took the money.
After that, Xiaofang would give me 10,000 and 100 yuan every month. At first, I was impressed by her kindness, but after this "splitting" lasted for a while, I couldn't help but start to doubt it. I thought to myself, normal overtime pay won't give me 10,000 yuan a month, right? Is the origin of this money really reliable?
One day, Xiaofang went home as usual and handed me 11,000 yuan: "Husband, this month's living expenses are for you!"
I blurted out, "Xiaofang, seriously, where do you get this 10,000 yuan for me every month?" Your job doesn't really give you such a high overtime pay, does it?"
Xiao Fang's smile froze, and her face was a little ugly: "You... What are you questioning? Can there be a problem with my money?"
When I saw her react so much, my heart suddenly had mixed feelings. Where did this 10,000 yuan come from? Should I ask directly, or should I press the table first? I looked at Xiaofang's slightly cramped appearance and decided not to press her for the time being.
"It's nothing, maybe I've been stressed too much lately and a little suspicious. Don't care, I took the money, thank you. I tried to lighten the mood.
Xiao Fang's face has only improved, but the doubts in my heart have been planted. After that, I often wondered where Xiaofang's money came from, and I even wondered if Xiaofang had done some shady part-time jobs outside the company. I couldn't help but fall into painful self-doubt and felt that I didn't trust Xiaofang enough.
"Husband, have you been thinking about it lately? Why are you always in a daze?" One day at dinner, Xiaofang asked me with concern.
I snapped back to my senses and managed to squeeze out a smile: "It's okay, maybe I've been under a lot of pressure at work lately."
"Then you can rest for a while, and I'll wash the dishes." Xiao Fang thoughtfully patted me on the shoulder and got up to clean up the dishes and chopsticks.
My heart sank. Is it really the possibility that scares me the most? Xiaofang found a lover outside, and then gave me half of the resources every month? This conjecture made my heart cut like a knife, and I decided to have a serious conversation with Xiaofang to figure this matter out.
After dinner, I solemnly stopped Xiao Fang, who was about to wash the dishes: "Xiao Fang, we need to have a good chat." Where did you get your 10,000 yuan a month? Stop hiding it from me, okay?"
Xiao Fang's body stiffened obviously, and her face became ugly. She took a deep breath and said in a deep voice, "What's so suspicious about my money?" Isn't it possible that I still can't use my discretionary income?"
"You!" Xiao Fang's eyes widened and she slammed her fist on the dining table, "Wang Ming! How can you doubt me so much!"
I looked at her angry face, and my heart was filled with despair. All this shows that what I feared most has become a reality...
"Wang Ming, what are you thinking about?" Xiao Fang roared with red eyes, "How can I do such a thing to be sorry for you?"
I was speechless, I just felt like I was burning. "But the billing records clearly state that your income is not high, and this money cannot be earned by yourself." I said tiredly.
Xiao Fang took a few deep breaths, as if trying to calm her emotions. She looked at me, and her tone finally softened: "Husband, don't be angry first, let me explain clearly." It's true that I didn't earn this money myself, but it's definitely not what you think. ”
I looked at her in surprise, and Xiao Fang continued, "To tell you the truth, I took this money from my mother. Recently, she fought several lawsuits and received a large amount of compensation, so she agreed to subsidize a part of our living expenses every month. I wanted to surprise you, so I didn't tell you beforehand... It seems that this has caused a misunderstanding between us, and I really didn't think it through, I should have made it clear to you earlier. ”
After listening to Xiao Fang's explanation, complicated feelings suddenly rose in my heart. I felt ashamed of my inexplicable suspicions, and I was also touched by Xiaofang's thoughtfulness. "Xiaofang, I'm sorry, I was too worried." I walked over to her and took her hand, "I shouldn't have doubted you casually, please forgive me for my mistake this time." ”
Xiao Fang looked at me with teary eyes and clenched my hand. "Husband, I understand your doubts and anxieties. It's just that in the future, we must learn to trust, tolerate and understand each other. Are you right?"
I nodded heavily and hugged Xiaofang into my arms. "I promise you, I will learn to trust you more in the future. We can't be easily swayed by the slightest misunderstanding, and that's the secret to a happy marriage. ”
Since that dispute, my relationship with Xiaofang has become closer and more trusting. I no longer care too much about the origin of that money, and I no longer casually look at Xiaofang's phone or bills. I put all my energy into getting along with Xiaofang, and we often go out for walks, cook together, and talk about each other's interesting things at work.
Once, Xiaofang excitedly said to me: "Husband, my mother has a big lawsuit, and the compensation amount is higher!" She said that we could increase the amount of money we would have to go to more romantic places, such as Bali, as a honeymoon!"
I gave her a big hug: "Great! We haven't traveled for several years, so this time we have to have a good time and relax!"
Xiaofang and I began to plan our trip to Bali with great interest. As we sat side by side on the plane, I gently shook Xiaofang's hand and said, "My dear, after all those ups and downs, I have better understood that mutual understanding, trust and tolerance are the keys to a long-term relationship. Our future will be brighter. ”
Xiao Fang smiled and nodded, her eyes full of tears of happiness. At this moment, I deeply felt that establishing a sincere and trusting marriage with my lover is the most precious treasure in my life.
With the Balinese sea breeze blowing in our faces, Xiaofang and I strolled along Merlion Beach. The sun shines down on the sea, and the water takes on a jewel-like blue. Xiaofang excitedly took my hand and said, "Husband, the scenery here is really beautiful!" The line to the sea and sky is a merlion statue, which is also rare in the world. ”
I nodded, put my arm around Xiaofang's shoulders and said, "Yes, your mother has prepared enough money for us for this trip, and we must enjoy this resort to the fullest."
We walked on the beach for a while and then came to rest under the coconut trees by the sea. I bought freshly made coconut water for Xiaofang, and we drank it while enjoying the beautiful view of the sea.
"Husband, thank you for what you said on the plane." Xiao Fang suddenly spoke, "After experiencing those misunderstandings, I also know better how to maintain our marriage. ”
I held her hand: "The past is gone, and we will get better and better in the future."
"Hmm!" Xiao Fang smiled happily, "I promise that all the income and sources in the future will be told to you as soon as possible, and I will never hide it from you again." ”
"Okay, and I'll learn to trust you more and not be cranky for any reason." I said solemnly.
We looked at each other and smiled, and touched the coconut cups with a sense of heart.
After a while, Xiao Fang leaned her head on my shoulder and said with some hesitation: "Actually, this time I came to Bali for a very important purpose."
I looked at her in surprise: "What purpose?"
"I want to have a new wedding ceremony with you." Xiao Fang said shyly, "The church here can have a beach wedding, and the scene must be very romantic and moving." I hope that through this ceremony, we can reaffirm our love and commitment to each other. ”
I was so excited that I immediately hugged Xiaofang: "Great! I'm super supportive of this idea. Let's renew our love on this beautiful island!"
So the next day, Xiaofang and I had a simple but grand wedding at the beach church in Bali. Xiao Fang put on a white wedding dress, I wore a formal dress, and we exchanged rings in the presence of pastors and guests, once again declaring our eternal love for each other.
"I do." Xiao Fang said to me with tears in her eyes.
"I do, too." My eyes were red with the same unfazedness.
We kissed in the warm sea breeze and our guests applauded and cheered. The happiness of this moment came spontaneously, and I knew that the ship of our marriage would sail forward forever.
After the wedding, Xiaofang and I walked along the beach. She said calmly: "Husband, after all those storms, I am now more convinced that we are a match made in heaven. As long as we love each other consistently, no difficulty can knock us down. ”
I nodded heavily, squeezed Xiaofang's hand and said, "Yes, we will spend the rest of our lives perfecting each other and making every day vivid and beautiful."
We looked up at the clouds in the sky, looked at each other and smiled. This trip to Bali made our marriage tree full of bright flowers.
After returning to Beijing, Xiaofang's life and I returned to their former normality. It's just that after going through those ups and downs, our relationship is obviously stronger and deeper than before.
One day, I worked late and came home exhausted to find that Xiaofang had prepared a sumptuous dinner waiting for me.
"My husband has worked hard, let's sit down and eat. Today I made you a few of your favorite dishes. "Xiao Fang thoughtfully added food for me.
I shook her hand movingly: "Thank you, dear. I'm super looking forward to tonight's meal!"
Eating the food prepared by Xiaofang, I felt that the fatigue of the day was gone. We chatted about interesting things that happened recently, and the atmosphere was warm and welcoming.
After dinner, Xiaofang suddenly smiled mysteriously and said that she had a surprise for me. She took out a gift box from the room and handed it to me.
"What is this?" Curious, I opened the box, and there were two tickets lying inside.
"These are two tickets to Hakone, Japan!" Xiaofang said happily, "Hakone is a super famous hot spring resort, and the scenery is also very beautiful."
"Oh my God, this is amazing!" I hugged Xiaofang excitedly, "Is your mother preparing it for us again this time?"
Xiao Fang blushed and shook her head: "No, this time I saved my own money to buy a plane ticket, and I want to take you to a romantic place again."
I was pleasantly surprised: "So touched dear! The gift you saved for your own money is the most heartfelt. We will definitely create many more wonderful memories in Hakone!"
And just like that, we embarked on our trip to Hakone. I was enchanted by the beautiful scenery of the lake and mountains, and each of them exudes the elegance and beauty that is unique to Japan. Xiaofang also enjoyed it, she said that this time she stayed in the hot spring hotel, and she could enjoy the fun of bathing in the hot spring every day.
"Husband, after soaking in the hot springs, we can visit the temple in Hakone." "The buildings there are all very quaint and very Japanese-like. ”
"Okay!" I say with approval.
After visiting the temple, we went to the famous Gora Park. On the way, we encountered a romantic "lover's rain", so when we were sheltering from the rain under the tree, I hugged Xiaofang into my arms and kissed her. "I love you." I whispered in her ear. Xiaofang smiled shyly and responded, "I love you too."
In this way, we made sweet memories in every corner of Hakone. Before leaving, Xiaofang talked about a dream.
"Husband, I've been thinking lately, after working for so many years and saving a little money, maybe we can start planning our own business, such as opening a small shop and living a more free life. Do you think this idea is feasible?" Xiao Fang's eyes lit up.
I pondered for a moment, then nodded solemnly, "What you say makes a lot of sense. I fully support your proposal, let's work together to make this dream come true!"
Xiaofang happily hugged me. That night, we lay on the tatami mats of the hot spring inn, holding hands, and making our own new dreams. At this moment, I felt extremely happy and satisfied.
After returning to Beijing, Xiaofang and I began to carefully plan our small business dreams. We decided to start with a petty bourgeoisie, and with Xiaofang's literary literacy, we chose to open a "cat's bookstore", which not only sells books, but also takes in a few delicate and cute cats.
In terms of the location of the store, we decided to rent an old house with a patio in an old neighborhood in Beijing for renovation. The rent there is relatively favorable, and it retains a strong historical charm, which is very in line with the literary and artistic atmosphere of our bookstore.
"Honey, our bookstore is called 'Cat Bookstore', okay?" Xiaofang suggested, "I have already thought of the design style of the store logo, which will be very distinctive. ”
"yes, yes, that's a lovely name!" I smiled and nodded.
As a result, under our joint careful decoration, a bookish "cat book house" was born. On the opening day, Xiaofang and I excitedly stood at the door of the store to welcome customers. When the first customers came in, they couldn't help but marvel at how comfortable and elegant the environment is.
"The little couple has worked hard, and the bookstore is really cozy and warm." An aunt said to us with a smile.
"Thank you for the compliment." Xiaofang and I looked at each other happily.
In this way, under the reputation of customers and our careful management, the cat bookstore gradually became a small fame. Not only do they sell all kinds of books, but they are also loved by a few chubby shop cats who have become the stars of the bookstore. Fang and I take them regularly for health check-ups to ensure the environment, and the customers are happy to interact with these mischievous creatures.
"Xiaofang, our bookstore is finally getting a little better!" One day after work, I said happily to Xiaofang.
Xiao Fang smiled and nodded: "Yes, this is also thanks to the close cooperation between the two of us." In the future, I will work harder in the affairs of the store, and I hope that the performance will increase month by month. ”
"Come on! I will also give you my full support. "I hugged her.
In this way, with our joint efforts, the cat bookstore gradually has a group of regular customers. We also began to plan cultural and artistic activities in the store, such as inviting writers to give lectures here, holding special exhibitions, etc., these colorful activities have added infinite vitality to the cat bookstore.
One night, when there were no customers in the store, I suddenly knelt down on one knee and said solemnly to Xiaofang: "My dear, in the past year, I have watched how you have run the bookstore with your heart, and I sincerely feel that it is the luckiest thing in my life to be able to start a business with you." I hope that no matter what the future holds, you will continue to be my strong support. I love you. ”
Xiaofang was shocked by my sudden confession, but soon showed a bright smile and said to me gently: "Husband, I am also super lucky to realize my dream of a bookstore with you." No matter how the years change, my heart will always be by your side. I love you!"
I stood up and we kissed selflessly. The afterglow of the setting sun shines on us, and in the bookstore, the cats purr and purr cutely. At this moment, I am extremely grateful that I have such an ordinary and happy life.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, our "Cat Book House" has been in operation for more than two years. The bits and pieces of these two years are undoubtedly the sweetest time I have spent with Xiaofang.
We regularly take a few cats to the vet hospital for check-ups to make sure they are in good health. Once, a fat orange cat named Dudu had a bad stomach, and Xiaofang took care of it overnight until it got better.
"Xiaofang, it's hard for you to stay up all night last night and keep Dudu. Is it better now?" The next day I asked with concern.
"It's much better, it's alive again this morning!" Xiaofang said, "I have taken care of this little thing as a family member, and I am more anxious than myself when it is sick." ”
I put my arm around Xiaofang's shoulders and said movingly: "You are really a competent 'cat mother', let me also learn from your gentleness in caring for your little life."
The bookstore's business is also booming. In order to tap more literary and artistic resources, Xiaofang will visit publishing houses and strive to get popular new books at preferential prices. Every time she happily returns to the store with a new box of books, I am genuinely pleased with her drive.
"Husband, look, there are a lot of best-selling new books coming into the store this time!" Xiao Fang wiped the new books one by one shiny, "I believe that they will be sold soon and generate income for the store!"
"You've worked hard, dear." I gently patted her on the back.
Our teamwork is also becoming more and more cohesive. Xiao Fang will be responsible for the selection of books and store layout, while I will strengthen online marketing and also take care of the accounts. The two of us are good at each other, like a pair of tacit understanding.
"Husband, why don't we hand over the bookstore's and Weibo accounts to you to operate? This is more in line with your expertise. One day Xiaofang said to me.
I gladly accepted the offer. Soon, under my management, the bookstore's social media accounts increased dramatically, and orders increased. Looking at the crowd of orders in the account, Xiao Fangle and I blossomed and danced hand in hand to celebrate.
In this way, with mutual trust and support, our small store has become more and more perfect. Whenever a customer praises "This is the warmest bookstore I've ever seen", Xiaofang and I can't help but sigh that all this is the result of our step-by-step creation.
One day, I said to Xiaofang: "My dear, I will never forget the bits and pieces of these two years. Do you think we can expand our business and open a branch or online store in the next step?"
Xiaofang smiled and nodded: "Okay, with you by my side, I will definitely be able to reach new heights!" Our dreams are still far away..."
I hugged Xiaofang tightly and kissed her affectionately. The setting sun spills into the bookstore, and the cats purr. At this moment, I am extremely grateful that I have such a simple and fulfilling life.