Top 3 tips to stay happy:
It doesn't matter, it's not necessary, it's not going to be!
The book is full of Liang Shiqiu's life wisdom essays, and the book consists of four chapters:
- A vivid man who has joy and sorrow
- To live is to live lively
- Life is lovely after all
- I have a lot of opinions about life
It includes famous articles such as "Leisure", "Travel", "The Art of Scolding", "Life and Medicine", as well as precious articles such as "Mosquitoes and Flies", "Lao Han Watching and Dancing", "It's Hot", "Parents' Love" and so on.
Liang Shiqiu, a generation of lifers, his spiritual world and life interests are like a bright starry sky, numerous and gorgeous.
His heart is like a profound poet, with unique brushstrokes, depicting delicate and poetic paintings.
In the process of reading this book, it is like watching an interesting person talk about his life experience.
This is a collection of essays that will make people have a lot of aftertaste after reading, I hope you will be enlightened after reading it!
Be an "idler"
"The highest ideal of human beings should be that everyone can have leisure, have leisure to be a human being in addition to the necessary work, have leisure to do human work, and enjoy human life."
Almost everyone will want to realize the desire to retire early, it is better to have a steady stream of income without working, of course, it is not impossible, hide under the covers, close your eyes, and you will soon realize this dream.
When people have a job, it does not mean part-time work, nor does it mean to work hard day and night, but more to work hard for their own career.
I realized that some people advanced their retirement dreams through their own efforts, a 35-year-old girl, who lived a retirement life.
With an eight-figure deposit, she said that she only needs to work two hours now, and the rest of the time is spent living, getting up early to practice Baduanjin and leaving time for herself and her family in the evening. She lived a life that many people yearn for.
Yes, nothing is impossible, the main thing is that you have to change and take action.
It's good to be an "idler", a thing you love, a good heart.
The art of swearing
"If you don't scold when you want to scold, you often get sick with your body, so when you want to scold, what's the point of scolding."
The book shares ten tips and scolding tips that will benefit you a lot!
1. To understand yourself, you also need to know each other.
For example, if someone scolds you for what you look like, do you think about what you have to do with it? You and I have a handle, know ourselves and know each other!
2. If you want to scold, you have to pick a more advanced character, so that it is not easy to suffer. Otherwise, quarrel with a nobody, and not make the other party proud.
3. Reserve time for yourself to scold the other party in moderation. Excessively appear to be vexatious.
4. Be clear and reasonable, but actually damage him. Come by surprise, it seems that we are more generous.
5. Be calm.
There is the beauty of "sound east and west". When ordinary people scold, their voices are very loud, and they feel that they are justified, and the momentum is getting stronger and stronger. But in fact, the really powerful person will let the other party initiate, and when he scolds angrily, you only need to sneer at him with disdain, and the other party will be even more angry and embarrassed.
6. Scolding people should be civilized and elegant. To quote this paragraph:
"Scolding should be subtle and subtle, you scold him to make him not feel that it is scolding, wait until you think about it again and slowly realize that this sentence is not a good word, let his smiling face from white to red, from red to purple, from purple to gray, this is the best of scolding."
7. The scolder himself should keep his voice down and advance by retreating.
8. When others scold you, you give him a trick back, preset an ambush, and catch the other party off guard.
9. Grasp the maximum value of the spit point and make the other party feel ashamed.
10. Don't injure others, otherwise the scolding echo will make you don't know how to deal with it.
Poor and money
"The so-called poor is also comparative. Some people shout poverty every day, either overdraft today or borrow tomorrow, and the amount is staggering, and then point to a patch on his clothes or a small crack in his leather shoes as ironclad proof that he is poor. ”
I have a little savings, but I am still poor.
People are born with nothing, from being raised by their parents to growing up to making money to support their own survival, this life has to revolve around money...
The book lists the typical poor people who should be Yan Hui.
Confucius said: "A spoonful of food, a scoop of drink, in the alleys, people are unbearable, and they will not change their pleasures"
It is to the effect that:
Yan Hui eats a small basket of rice, drinks a scoop of water, and lives in a poor house, and no one else can stand this kind of poverty, but still does not change the joy of the Tao.
If you are really poor and depend on the sky for food, you are afraid of drought and waterlogging, and you will have no food to eat or water to drink.
Although we are poor, we at least have a house to live in - Wi-Fi and mobile phones, something to eat - fried chicken and cola milk tea, enough nutrition, someone to rely on - rely on our father and lover to lay down.
You come to judge, we are not poor!
When will we shout poverty, that is, we can't get what we want, we can't reach the life we want to have, and we envy others when they are free in wealth and time.
In fact, we are already very happy, but our ability can't match our desires, and we can't keep up with the pace of our desires.
The most important thing is to make yourself valuable! Of course, the more money, the better, not too much, may we all have a lot of money, and good luck will always accompany you and me.
There are too many interesting things in the book, I would like to share them with you without reservation, but the author's literary talent is out of my reach, and I still need to improve myself.
You might as well take a deeper look and try to bring infinite power to your heart.
Finally, I would like to share with you a sentence from the book:
"Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be silly. Since there is nowhere to run, it is better to rejoice. ”
I'm happy with the girl who loves to read
An ordinary post-95 literary youth who loves to learn
Life is all about being lively and happy