The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.
Many times, many things, I really can't think about it, and even make myself depressed, many times, only when you lie on the hospital bed, you will be enlightened, and even at that moment, you are really awake in the world.
At this time, you will understand that it is not your wife who can really rely on your own children, nor your own children, but these three things, after reading, you will definitely be inspired, if you are in the last years of your life at the moment, then these three things must resonate with you.
So what are the three things? Friends who attach more importance to life and family happiness must take a look, maybe you are experiencing it now, especially the third one, I believe many people want to use it.
First, a good attitude.
As the saying goes, if the mentality is good, people are young.
A good mindset can really change a person's physical health, and some studies have found that a negative mindset may lead to the occurrence of physical diseases, such as heart disease, diabetes, etc. A positive mindset helps to maintain good health and improve the body's immunity. Especially for people who are suffering from physical diseases, how important it is to maintain a good attitude.
Once my hometown Grandma Wang, after a lifetime of hard work, she raised her son and daughter with hard work, the family conditions were not very rich, and her wife left early, she left her hometown with her children to work in other places, fortunately, she has strong perseverance.
The children are also more filial, and they take her for a physical examination every year, but they were found to have lung cancer during a physical examination a few years ago. However, because of Grandma Wang's good attitude, the doctors originally said that there were still 2 years left, because the cancer had already spread when the test was detected.
However, when I went back for a check-up a year later, I was told that the cancer cells were gone.
In the past year, after Grandma Wang experienced a short period of mood swings, she stabilized herself as quickly as possible, and after actively cooperating with the treatment, she went to bed at 8:30 every day and went to bed at 10 o'clock, even if she couldn't sleep.
She usually goes to the park for a walk, walks and plays in beautiful places with everyone, and talks and laughs with everyone, in her own words, "better than taking medicine".
Grandma Wang is 82 years old this year, she said, don't just because you are a patient, you want people around you to revolve around you, it is not that the mentality can overcome everything, you must actively cooperate with the treatment, adjust your mentality and life rhythm, so that you can defeat the disease in a high chance.
Therefore, it is really important to have a good attitude, whether we are healthy or not, we must maintain a positive and optimistic attitude.
Second, a healthy body.
As the saying goes, there is no disease.
In this life, it cannot be smooth sailing, everyone will encounter some problems, some problems can be solved, but once the body encounters problems, there is nothing wrong with minor illnesses, it will pass very well, and major illnesses will be troublesome, and when the time comes, lying on the hospital bed, all the pain will only be borne by themselves.
Especially on the day when people are old, when they are sick in bed and can't take care of themselves, how many people are still miserable even if they have children around them.
That's when you see how important health is. Our neighbor, Uncle Zhang, is an example.
It is said that raising children to prevent old age, but when it comes to the day he is sick, his son can't count on it. Uncle Zhang is a good man in our village, and when someone is in trouble, he is the first to rush to the front to help.
After his wife died, Uncle Zhang never married, just for the sake of the child, and he didn't want to remarry because of himself, for fear that the child would be wronged.
But suddenly one day, Uncle Zhang fainted while working outside, and was sent to the hospital by a neighbor to pick up a life, and it was found to be a cerebral hemorrhage.
Since he got sick, Uncle Zhang's son has come back several times a year, and the people in our village have said, why is Uncle Zhang's life so bitter, it's really a good person who has no good reward, he is sick, and he doesn't even want to see his son.
Therefore, your physical health is more important than anything else, even if it is your own child, don't expect it. Then when you are young, you should exercise more to enhance your immunity, and if you feel uncomfortable at all, go and check it quickly, don't feel that there is nothing wrong, once it happens, it is irreversible.
Third, money
I just said that there is something else to be sick with, and here is the next sentence, nothing else and no money. I dare say there's no one who doesn't love money.
Why do we need money, we have earned money all our lives, don't we just want to make our lives well, and we can be able to use money urgently, without begging people everywhere and being inferior in front of others.
When the children at home encounter difficulties, we can also help the children in time, especially when we are old and sick and have no one to take care of them.
Therefore, while you are young now, you must work hard to earn money, save money, make a savings plan for yourself, plan your monthly expenses well, be diligent and thrifty, save excess money, and take out the money whenever you use it, and give yourself a confidence.
When I lay on the hospital bed one day, thinking back on the road I have traveled, I really know that the most reliable thing is not that my wife is not my son, but that I have a good attitude, a healthy body, no illness or disaster, and more importantly, money. Only with these three things can you better spend your later life.