#记录头条生活日记#
#我的2023每日心情日记#
It is said that Li Lu went downstairs for a long time after dinner every day, and the phone calls were busy, I thought he was talking to his sister on the phone (this had happened before), so I asked him tentatively: "How is my sister's chemotherapy?" Is it getting better? ”
Li Lu said: "It's okay, she said it's a lot smaller." ”
I was concerned again: "How do you feel about her feeling when you call every day?" ”
"It's okay, she has cooperated with the treatment and is dedicated to recuperation."
The elder sister is Li Lu's former colleague, a few years older than Li Lu, Li Lu is respectful to her, there is only one possibility - that is, Li Lu had a crush on her, and then knew that he was not worthy, so he retreated to the second best thing and married me.
When I asked him, he frowned in annoyance and scolded me for talking nonsense.
I really don't care about this, I'm actually just eating melons, I don't sympathize with my sister - I'm not qualified to sympathize with her, and I don't speculate about what is wrong with Li Lu's relationship with her.
My sister has always existed in my life, but she is alienated from me.
I got married late, and I have been an accountant for many years, and I have read a lot of TV novels, so I always have a lot of worries about marriage, and Li Lu gives me the feeling that I can hold on! I know that my temper is quirky and not pleasant, I look at his small body, and feel that if there is a fight after marriage, I seem to be able to beat him, and I feel at ease at the moment!
Of course, it would be better not to fight, my requirements for the man - not to beat me, not to use my money; I tested him: "After marriage, are you willing to leave the money to me?"
He said: "That's certain, women can only feel safe when they are in charge of money, I understand this." ”
"Why do you understand?"
"Sister said it."
Facts have proved that Li Lu did not hand over the money to me after marriage, on the contrary, he guarded me like a thief.
He can know a woman's heart and is willing to follow the guidance of his sister, which should always be easier to communicate with than a straight man of steel, which is very good.
When I got married, because of social fear, and I felt that the form of etiquette was all about consuming money and useless, so I discussed with Li Lu: "I don't want rings, wedding photos, bride price, and wine, you calculate how much it costs in total, just convert it into grams of gold, and buy me a gold bar." ”
At that time, gold was only one or two hundred and one grams.
Li Lu acquiesced at the time, and the next day he changed his mind and came back and said-
"The elder sister said, women are fickle, now say this don't want that, in the future, you will say that you didn't give me this, that didn't give me either, the elder sister said, these can't listen to women."
So one day, he hid it from me, and ran with his sister to buy me a ring, but he didn't have a ring himself.
I was pleasantly surprised, it was an unexpected gift, and the gold bar did not arrive, so I gave up. But why don't rings buy gold? It turned out that Li Lu was worried that I would sell it for money when I got it, and I couldn't keep the evidence of marriage, so I obeyed my sister and bought a platinum ring - it looks beautiful, but it can't be recycled, how good!
I gladly accepted, happily blaming him: "Why didn't you take me with you when you bought me a ring?" How do you know how big my finger is? How do you know which style I'm going to look for? ”
Li Lu Zhengse said: "The old lady picked it, what are you not satisfied with?" ”
I was speechless, indeed, my sister is much more advanced than me.
I suspect that later on all kinds of things we did, he was asking the elder sister, so that when he saw the moves, it was like a three-foot wall of sweeping monks, and I was as brave as Qiao Feng, and I also turned into nothingness.
The elder sister is to Li Lu, that is the god he worships in his heart, when we get married, a quilt that she gives us that is not used is neither allowed to be given away nor thrown away.
My sister is only three years older than me (I am a few years older than Li Lu), she is gentle but cold, steady and old like a parent, when she looks at me, her eyes are soft but firm, she speaks slowly and softly, but she is a nail, I can't help but be submissive in front of her, like a pilgrimage.
There is nothing to talk about between her and me, and in the few times we meet, she and I just have a simple greeting or two, and then wave gently like a queen, I consciously retreat, she always has something important to talk to Li Lu about. The most depressing time, I waited downstairs for more than an hour with the boy Young, who was only a few years old at the time. Ziyang couldn't wait, and he had to sit on the ground several times...
If you question that there is a problem between them, it is simply thunder and thunder, and it is absolutely impossible - Li Lu is not worthy.
The elder sister's husband is burly and gentle, knowledgeable, humble and polite. The family's qin, chess, calligraphy and painting are arranged in a very scholarly style, and there are nannies to do housework, and they don't worry about firewood, rice, oil and salt.
If the old lady has any regrets, it is - she has been looking for medical advice and medicine, but she has been fruitless. There is really no way, after we have Ziyang, the old sister also raised a boy.
Why is the boy here, we don't want to go into detail here, what if the old lady also plays headlines? Wouldn't I be embarrassed then? Let's talk about how the old lady does her best, wants the stars to pick the stars, wants the moon to pick the moon, arranges the best life for the boy, the baby goes to the early education class, the eighteen interests are arranged, the nanny is waiting, and the world is traveling to various countries... Anyway, over the years, the old lady has devoted herself to this child,
Once, Ziyang played with him and released him a hydrogen balloon, he cried, and the old sister had to come over to reprimand Ziyang.
You must know that Ziyang is only a few months older than her son, and he is only a four or five-year-old child.
When she reached the age of sharp teeth, we sat down to eat together, she also opened the dishes and chopsticks brought out from home, special vegetable scissors, carefully selected every bite of food, picked fish bones, fried green vegetables and meat segments, put them in the bowl for him, and never drank a sip of water outside.
So much so that when we gave him a red envelope, we didn't dare to give it to her directly, for fear of dirty his hands.
There are too many verbosities, in short, her care for her son is meticulous, well-cared for, and completely rich and intensive!
Suddenly, during the summer vacation of this year, my sister felt an abnormal lump in her breast one day, and remembered that I seemed to have had a similar incident and had surgery, so she summoned Li Lu over, asked for details, and discussed the plan.
I went to several hospitals and checked all the items I checked back then, and the results were even more scary than mine - diagnosed, requiring 12 stages of chemotherapy.
Li Lu sighed for a long time, and when he saw Ziyang, he slapped the table and glared at him to scold.
"Inexplicably, your sister is sick, why are you scolding Ziyang?"
Li Lu said hatefully, because Ziyang is disobedient, just like the elder sister's son, if the elder sister is not worried about her son, how could she get this disease with her life of fine clothes and food?
When Li Lu saw the child, he thought of the old lady's heart for the child, but the old sister's illness could not remind him of the situation when I had operated alone in the hospital, nor could he think of the fact that I had not been re-examined for six years, would there be any changes?
The elder sister's family is prominent, and for a while, all the parents, brothers and sisters-in-law flew together to discuss the treatment plan.
Her son was taken away and transferred to another school, but she ignored everything and only took care of her illness.
I'm also confused ha-
> such a precious son, born and raised until now, he can let go if he lets go, he can really do it! Is it because it is not biological? Ziyang and I quarrel every day, and I am reluctant to let him go to others.
> why didn't Li Lu's brother-in-law be mentioned from beginning to end in Li Lu's narrative, they are a loving husband and wife, this kind of thing, why is there nothing wrong with him?
The 2023 year is really bad, Li Lu is extremely irritable, and I am also willing for Li Lu to go downstairs every night, everyone is relaxed. Ziyang entered junior high school, his grades couldn't even keep his original status, and he failed the small exams in various subjects.
I showed Ziyang a photo of me when I was young, showing off and saying, "Can you imagine - this is your mother, I only gained 30 pounds after giving birth to you." ”
"Then, Mom, you should lose weight."
Easier said than done.