There is a parent in Hebei who connected to Zhang Xuefeng, and his child chose physical and chemical biology, a boy, can probably take the test of about 550. Then the parents said that his uncle's younger brother learned dentistry, so he also wanted his own child to learn dentistry.
However, the child said that he was not very careful. Then parents want to consult Zhang Xuefeng, can you learn oral cavity in such a situation? Zhang Xuefeng listened to it and said with a smile, I don't think every dentist is very careful.
Then he jokingly laughed and said, "I'm not careful, does he want to put something in my mouth." The parent also replied with a smile, as if he meant that. Zhang Xuefeng listened to it and said, No, parents, because the oral cavity is not as complicated as the clinic.
And everyone who usually does this business knows that when you are doing surgery, what you are doing is a process, and he is doing it as a team, not you alone. After hearing this, the parent replied, "Well, I understand."
Then the parents said, his uncle's younger brother, his postdoctoral fellow in dentistry, I think if I let my child learn dentistry, then his uncle will help my child in the future, as well as employment?
After hearing this, Zhang Xuefeng replied, Yes, it will help. Then the parents said that because his younger brother does not come back often, he has not communicated with him in this regard for the time being. Zhang Xuefeng listened to it and reminded the parents. Then you will take advantage of the Chinese New Year to communicate with him.
Finally, the parents asked, in this case, is it okay for the child to report the oral cavity? Zhang Xuefeng replied, yes, no problem, I personally think that not being so careful and careless are two concepts. Then the parents thanked Zhang Xuefeng and broke the microphone.
Originally, everyone thought that this matter had been turned over, but they didn't expect that after the parents broke off the microphone, Zhang Xuefeng suddenly said, this parent, the following sentence is when the microphone was connected just now, I am not too embarrassed to tell you, but after your microphone is broken, I want to say a word to you: "Why does he want to help you?" "Please think about this before you talk to your brother a year ago.
Zhang Xuefeng's sudden soul torture made netizens in the live broadcast room suddenly feel their scalps numb, and they exclaimed: "Why does he want to help you?" "It seems that many people now think that others should help you, but in fact, this is not the case, Zhang Xuefeng said the next thing, let everyone know the importance of considering this matter.
Zhang Xuefeng said, why should he help you? This is good, including the so-called relatives. So what do I want to remind you of? What I want to remind you is: "There are some things that you must not think of until you are ready to do them, you must do them in advance!" "Don't do anything about the New Year, start now.
Dealing with people and dealing with people does not mean that you are looking for someone to do things when you encounter something, but you must do things in advance and do the foreshadowing in advance, I remind you. Then Zhang Xuefeng said that he learned this truth through a book, Feng Lun's "Savage Growth".
Then Zhang Xuefeng told a story in the book, Yuan Shikai gave Li Lianying a gift. Yuan Shikai gave gifts to Li Lianying at every turn, and gave gifts to Li Lianying when there was nothing to do. Because there were many people who gave gifts to Li Lianying at that time, Li Lianying asked, who gave this? The housekeeper said that Yuan Shikai sent it.
Li Lianying asked again, what is he doing? The steward replied, "No." After Li Lianying heard this, she was very curious, ah, why do you give gifts if you don't do anything? The butler replied, "I don't know, and he doesn't do anything." As a result, two days later, he sent it again. Who sent it? It's still Yuan Shikai, and he won't do anything this time.
And then the gift gets bigger and bigger, and the gift gets bigger and bigger. After sending it away, what kind of expression did Li Lianying have, every time he received it, he was worried about it, the more he sent it, the bigger it was, the bigger it was, what did he want to do? If you ask me to do something, I guess it will have to do a big thing! As a result, Yuan Shikai did find him to do a big thing.
Zhang Xuefeng sighed, it's true, only receiving gifts and not doing things, this thing is a very scary thing, that is, what are you going to do after sending it? Don't do anything, honor you! This one is scary!
So I just watched Mr. Feng Lun's "Savage Growth" and knew this truth, and I thought it was too powerful. Therefore, to maintain relationships and people, don't wait until you do things to do things, you must do it in advance. These words were sent to the parent just now.
总结：
So don't wait until the Chinese New Year to say, usually don't move around, don't be like this, think about what intersection you may have with your relative recently, and then you find a way to communicate with him on this intersection.