Dong Qing said: "There is no man who doesn't understand romance, he is just too lazy to be romantic to you; There's no man who doesn't make people happy, he just doesn't want to coax you. When he meets someone he truly loves, he will coax him better than anyone else. ”
I've always believed that romance and coaxing people are abilities that not every man possesses. Some men may not know how to be romantic, and some men may not be good at making people happy, but that doesn't mean they don't value you and don't care about you.
On the contrary, if a man really loves you, he will naturally want to do something romantic for you and will naturally want to make you happy. He will use his heart to understand your preferences, will pay attention to your emotions, and will use his heart to create surprises and memories that belong to the two of you.
I remember one time, I went to the movies with a male friend. The movie is a romantic romance, but his performance disappointed me. Not only did he not prepare me snacks, he didn't bring me flowers, and he didn't even discuss the plot of the movie with me after the movie ended. I felt very lost, but then I realized that it wasn't that he didn't value me, he just didn't realize the importance of these little details.
On the contrary, my other male friend was always able to surprise and impress me when I needed it most. He would prepare breakfast for me on weekend mornings, throw a surprise party for my birthday, and write me a love letter for our anniversary. His romance and gentleness made me feel very happy, and also made me understand what true love is.
So, what I want to say is that if a guy really loves you, he will naturally want to do something romantic for you, and he will naturally want to make you happy. If he doesn't do this, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, maybe it's just because he doesn't realize the importance of these little details, or because he hasn't found the right way to express his feelings.
However, if you have tried to communicate with him and have tried to remind him, but he still hasn't changed his behavior, then you need to seriously think about whether his feelings for you are really as deep as you think.
Love is a process of mutual understanding and mutual tolerance. In love, we need to learn to express our feelings and we need to learn to listen to each other's feelings. Only in this way will we be able to build real trust and affection. If a man keeps you feeling disappointed and lost, then you need to think hard about whether he is really the right fit for you.
Some men may not know how to be romantic and make people happy, but that doesn't mean they don't value you and don't care about you. On the contrary, if a man really loves you, he will naturally want to do something romantic for you and will naturally want to make you happy. He will use his heart to understand your preferences, will pay attention to your emotions, and will use his heart to create surprises and memories that belong to the two of you.
In love, we need to learn to express our feelings and we need to learn to listen to each other's feelings. Only in this way will we be able to build real trust and affection. If we are always disappointed and lost in the other person, then we need to think hard about whether we are really a good fit together.
In the end, I would like to say that love is a beautiful feeling, but it needs to be managed and maintained with our hearts. We need to learn to understand and tolerate each other's imperfections, but we also need to learn to express our feelings and needs. Only in this way will we be able to build true trust and affection that will make our love more beautiful and lasting.