Life into old age, it should be unattainable. Degenerative changes in signs of old age should be considered normal, so why should they be treated as lesions? Measure blood pressure and weight every day, forming a burden, so you can't eat and sleep, and you will have a big problem.
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A few important questions to be sober
1. Anti-aging
How can aging be resisted, how can there be a panacea for immortality in the world?
2. Truth, goodness and beauty
The first is truth, and only with truth can there be goodness and beauty. Plain face is the beauty of self-confidence; Thin powdered del is the beauty of self-esteem.
3. Reverence for life
The development of modern medical science and technology has given human beings the external force to prevent and treat diseases and relieve suffering. Excessive treatment results in a life without dignity and meaninglessness.
As the saying goes: there is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness. The word "filial piety" is really a harsh test for the younger generation.
4. Life is short
One short, no two short. Half a hundred is short, a hundred years old is still short. The comings and goings of life are nothing more than the back and forth of luck and regret, nothing more than the transformation of beauty and trouble.
the past, thanksgiving; Ahead, pray. In fact, there are only a lot of things that can be autonomous.
Think about it: How many great people from our forefathers, including those of the past and present, have they ever watched television? Do you have a mobile phone? Have you ever played WeChat? How lucky we are today, let's have fun!
There are so many good things in the world, who can enjoy the perfection? There are so many wonderful things in the future, who can enjoy forever...
The blessing of old age is no longer possession and greed; This blessing is not designed and planned by you subjectively. The blessing of old age lies in being at ease with what happens and having fun in time. Everything is just right, it is indispensable, and it is wrong to pass.
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5. Life is the unity of quality and quantity
Quality comes first, quantity is not the only pursuit of life.
The premise of longevity is to be able to take care of oneself, not to trouble, and to trouble others less. Otherwise, as Confucius said: longevity is humiliating. To be "humiliated" is to lose dignity.
6. What is Responsibility?
When you are old, you can still do it without dragging down your children, and you are doing your best to be responsible. As a child, there is no one who does not want their parents to be happy and healthy, and it is more important to let the children feel at ease than to give them any material conditions and financial help!
The Buddha said: The more parents give their children, the less good fortune they will have. I don't know how many parents are enlightened!
7. Grow old
Aging gracefully, that is the realm of culture; Aging with dignity is the support of materialization. The connotations of the two are too exquisite. I think it's better to age calmly.
There is a piece of data that you should know and suggest you can learn from, whether you are interested in it or not. That is: according to the authoritative organization: the average life expectancy in the world is 73.5 years, the average life expectancy of Chinese is about 80, and women are higher than men.
In other words, there are about 20 years to go. So, for us, the really interesting years are only about ten years.
Therefore, in order to really live a good life in the past few years, we must really think about it carefully, in order to leave as little regret as possible and regret less.
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There are several things that should be done
1. If you haven't been to a place you have ever been to but really want to see, you must go as soon as possible, and don't hesitate. The reason is very simple, not because the mountains are high and the water is long, but because of their inadequate, their legs and feet will soon stumble over themselves.
2. Things that should be done quickly, no matter how big or small, must not be delayed, and be done quickly. While we can still "whim", we have a little passion of "remembering that one is one play", and we will do it. If you don't do it, most of them won't be able to do it.
3. Tell the story that lies deep in your heart, no matter what is sweet or bad. Don't wait until your heart wants to speak but your mouth doesn't listen, because that day may come quickly.
4. Do things you think you should write down. Don't keep saying that you can't write, because words are nothing but the materialization of language, and the general rule is: speech itself is a sound article.
5. There must be a confession to the dream person who was in love with him in his youth but has not yet married, no matter what form it takes. Even if it's just a sentence.
6. The body organs should be used evenly where they should be saved. Especially if you have a hard injury on your arms and legs, you must learn to "use sparingly", and saving use is to prolong the shelf life of health.
7. Do whatever you want with pleasure as the standard. But the heart should not be too high, the desire should not be too strong, and it is necessary to combine doing what you want with the natural and being at peace with the situation.
8. We should not only be subjective for ourselves and objective for others, but also subjective for others and objective for ourselves. Because in the days to come, the proportion of subjectivity will inevitably become smaller and smaller, and in the end, even eating, drinking, and Lazar will have to be objectively manipulated by people.
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I say these words not negatively, but positively. Because, that's all it takes. Although he is an old man, he is still determined to be in a hundred miles, but he looks far away, and he always wants to go to the east of the big river, and the golden black falls in the west. What's more, there are many unpredictable situations that will come unexpectedly, and most of these conditions will reduce our happiness index.
So, that's it. To make less regrets and more satisfied in your heart is a beautiful life. While there's still some time, hurry up.
Source: New Old Man
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