After watching "Mansion Gate" 20 years later, I understood Bai Jingqi's true purpose of marrying Xiangxiu, which is too heart-wrenching!

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Bai Jingqi has four wives in his life.

Huang Chun was the first love when he was a teenager, and Huaihua was entrusted by his mother before she died, these two died early, and only Yang Jiuhong and Xiangxiu were by Bai Jingqi's side for the longest time.

Since the death of the second grandmother and Huang Chun, Yang Jiuhong's ambition has been stimulated again.

At this time, Yang Jiuhong was thinking about making her identity right.

She has been an aunt wife by Bai Jingqi's side for many years, and she finally has the opportunity to raise her eyebrows.

Therefore, Yang Jiuhong seized the opportunity to gain Bai Jingqi's attention, and going to the Northeast to return to the Bai family's medicinal materials was a rare opportunity to prove himself.

Yang Jiuhong knew that if she didn't enter the tiger's den, she would have to sacrifice her life to the Bai family in order to pave the way for her life in the Bai family.

Sure enough, after breaking through the Kanto, Yang Jiuhong was indeed looked at differently by Bai Jingqi.

However, soon Bai Jingqi was disgusted with Yang Jiuhong.

That's because at the celebration banquet, Yang Jiuhong faced so many people who openly provoked the conflict between her and Huaihua, and even slandered Huaihua and Huang Li for having an affair.

Huang Li is the most trusted person in Bai Jingqi, he knows Huang Li's character too well, even if he doesn't believe in Yang Jiuhong, he has to believe in Huang Li.

Just when Yang Jiuhong talked about Huaihua and Huang Li's affair, Bai Jingqi already had an opinion on Yang Jiuhong.

Yang Jiuhong was anxious for quick success, she wanted to suppress the acacia flowers as soon as possible, and because of the two pots of flowers, she forced the acacia flowers to apologize to herself, and even forced Bai Jingqi to fight the acacia flowers.

In the end, Huaihua hanged herself in a fit of rage, and Yang Jiuhong also made Bai Jingqi even more disgusted.

The things Yang Jiuhong did made middle-aged Bai Jingqi see her true face clearly.

This also shows one thing, that is, even without the hindrance of the second grandmother, it is impossible for Yang Jiuhong to "turn positive".

02 Xiangxiu's personal charm

Compared with Yang Jiuhong, Xiangxiu was loved by her parents since she was a child, and later was spoiled by her second grandmother, so she naturally has more self-esteem and personality.

She will do what she wants to do, and if she doesn't want to do it, no matter how much others force her, she won't do it.

In addition to personality, Xiangxiu is also very smart.

She has been nurtured by her second grandmother since she was a teenager, so she has a bigger picture and a more long-term vision.

Since seeing Huaihua being bullied by Yang Jiuhong, Xiangxiu decided to be Bai Jingqi's main wife, if she can't be the main wife, she won't be small even if she goes home to farm.

In the face of Bai Jingqi's show of love, the biggest difference between her and Yang Jiuhong is that Xiangxiu uses the method of wanting to capture and indulge, while Yang Jiuhong uses the method of upside down.

For this alone, Xiangxiu took Bai Jingqi to death.

From the perspective of human nature, the more active the relationship between the sexes, the more they give, and the less they are cherished.

Although Xiangxiu is young, because of the guidance of the second grandmother, she understands this truth.

She cleverly used means and scheming to pinch Bai Jingqi, which was many times more clever than Yang Jiuhong's scheming.

In addition to personality and intelligence, Xiangxiu's execution ability is also leveraged.

Huaihua's death brought Bai Jingqi to prison, and Xiangxiu not only took care of Bai Jingqi's eating, drinking, and Lazar in prison, but also played Wang Xiguang, who was troublesome to Bai Jingqi.

The secret recipe that Bai Jingqi researched during that time was handed to the Baicao Hall by Xiangxiu, whether it was inside and out, up and down, Xiangxiu was always loyal to Bai Jingqi, and stood firmly by his side to support him.

For Bai Jingqi, who is over sixty years old, he is very aware of the virtues of the children of the Bai family, and he also understands Xiangxiu's ability.

He needs Xiangxiu, a virtuous helper, to be his soul mate.

03 The second grandmother's deathbed confession

There is also a reason why the second grandmother likes Xiangxiu.

Xiangxiu has a personality, not as shy and frightened as other girls when they see her, and even whispers.

In the eyes of the second grandmother, this means that she is an assertive girl.

The second grandmother's life was married to a second master who had no opinions, she was an assertive person, and even had a pattern and foresight, and she was the head of the Bai family for half her life.

She has requirements for her daughter-in-law's behavior.

It's just that Bai Jingqi is capricious and not very easy to manage, she married Huang Chun first and then Yang Jiuhong, and none of them satisfied her.

And cultivating Huaihua and Xiangxiu is the second grandmother paving the way for her son Bai Jingqi.

Huaihua's gentleness and carefulness, Xiangxiu's outstanding ability, are all the right-hand men that Bai Jingqi needs in his later years.

Before the second grandmother died, she said to Bai Jingqi: "Sooner or later, someone must accompany you." ”

At that time, the reason why the second grandmother entrusted Huaihua to Bai Jingqi was to let Huaihua take good care of Bai Jingqi, because people like Yang Jiuhong were unreliable.

As for Xiangxiu, the second grandmother has long known that Bai Jingqi has a heart for Xiangxiu, even if she doesn't arrange it, and her son, who must get what he wants, will definitely have an arrangement.

So the second grandmother only arranged acacia flowers, not Xiangxiu.

At this time, although Bai Jingqi was still willful, he had already understood his mother's good intentions.

He knew that Xiangxiu was a talent cultivated by his mother, and she had the shadow of her mother, and without his mother's reminder, he needed Xiangxiu's help.

Moreover, Xiangxiu is loyal, not only able to manage the Bai family well, but also to take care of herself, more reliable than the descendants of the Bai family, and far surpasses Yang Jiuhong.

For Bai Jingqi, whether it is from the family business, or from the management ability, and the foresight of the pattern, Xiangxiu has surpassed Yang Jiuhong.

Bai Jingqi has never made a loss-making business in his life, and this is even more true in marriage.

Bai Jingqi, who is over sixty years old, has long seen the ugliness, hypocrisy and calculation of human nature in entrepreneurship, and understands the future difficulties and crises of the family.

At this time, when he chooses a woman again, what he values is no longer his appearance, but a woman who treats him sincerely, looks up to him and worships him, and can help him stabilize the rear.

He needs this woman to be able to turn the tide and save him when he is in crisis, and to accompany him to spend his old age when the years are quiet and become his soul mate.

Some people say that Xiangxiu's marriage to Bai Jingqi is based on his family background, and Bai Jingqi's marriage to Xiangxiu may not just be a simple liking, he also has his calculations.

In this way, whether it is a man or a woman, only ability can make you climb higher, and only ability can be relied on in this life.