After the university professor's social investigation: a set of data was exposed, revealing the most absurd truth of the current society!
Country Fengge 2023-10-30 07:08 Posted in Henan
In the minds of many people, the development of the rural areas has become better and better in recent years, and the economic level has been markedly improved. As a result, the old man's life has become happier. But have you ever thought that this idea is actually one-sided?
Many old people are not happy at all in their old age, and can even be described as miserable, and they will even choose to end themselves when they are desperate.
A university professor has also investigated this before, and various data results have revealed to us many unknown truths in the current rural areas.
A university professor encountered an incident of an elderly man committing suicide while researching in a rural area, and he felt very sorry at the time, but he didn't think much about it.
Later, he found out that this was not the first time that an old man had committed suicide in his county, and he was very curious about it, why did these old people choose the same ending? Why do the children of the old man do nothing?
With these questions in mind, the university professor decided to investigate it carefully.
During the visit, the university professor learned the story of an old man, so let's use the pseudonym "Lao Wang".
Lao Wang did a lot of hard work when he was young, but when he was young, he didn't feel that his physical condition was very poor when he was old.
Lao Wang's wife has passed away, and the children are all in the city, and Lao Wang is usually the only one living in the countryside.
One day, Lao Wang fell and couldn't get up directly, and his body was also very weak, and the neighbor saw that this posture was very wrong, so he told Lao Wang's children in the city that his father was seriously ill.
When the child heard this, he felt that his father would soon be gone, and hurried back with the whole family.
When I got home, I found that my father was not bad but couldn't move, and my son even said a little angrily, why do you tell me if you live well?
The son and daughter-in-law also told their neighbors that they didn't need to go to the hospital, and they couldn't live long after being cured when they were older, so there was no need to spend money.
These words were heard by Lao Wang, he didn't actually blame his son and daughter-in-law for being ruthless, but he just felt that he had dragged the child down.
Later, when the son was about to go back to the city, he bought a bottle of pesticide and put it in front of his father before leaving, and told his father not to drag himself down anymore, your life will affect my life.
Lao Wang, who was already dead-hearted, was completely desperate and firmly drank the pesticide...
Some villagers told the professor that Wang's situation was not unique in their village, and that other elderly people who were in poor physical condition and could not move finally chose to drink pesticides to end their lives.
And where the pesticides drunk by these old people have also become a tacit secret.
In addition, the old man personally told the professor that he can still move now, and when his health is too bad to work, he will also choose to drink pesticides.
In addition to Lao Wang, Mrs. Sun's case also left a deep impression on the professor.
Aunt Sun's son is doing a one-stop business in the village, although he is usually busy, but fortunately, he has a considerable income, and he can afford the life of a family.
Aunt Sun, who is in her 70s, has some savings in her hands, and she doesn't want to burden her son too much.
She usually picks up some waste to increase her income, and she feels that she basically doesn't need her son to support her in her old age.
didn't think that Aunt Sun would finally embark on the road of self-end, so why is this?
It turned out that the daughter-in-law bought a few fish and prepared to stew them, and Aunt Sun hadn't eaten fish for a long time, so she told her daughter-in-law to give her a taste.
The daughter-in-law not only didn't give it, but also abused Aunt Sun with dirty words, saying that Aunt Sun's pigs and dogs might as well know what the meaning of eating is alive.
This made Aunt Sun feel insulted, and she obviously paid for her son and daughter-in-law wholeheartedly, but in the end she ended up like this.
Not to mention how much love she received from them, she couldn't even get the least respect, and Aunt Sun, who couldn't let go of it, took the pesticide to the river in the village...
The professor was shocked by the cases of these old people, and she also realized that the happiness and support of the elderly that we have been advocating for them may be just empty talk.
And the counties he investigated are just a microcosm, how many elderly people in China are still on the road to despair because of a series of reasons such as hunger, poverty, and loneliness?
Therefore, this must arouse the full attention of the state and society, otherwise the so-called pension can not be implemented in actual life, and the problem of the elderly will never be solved.
According to the data, there are about 120 million elderly people in rural areas in China, and the scale is relatively large, and the state is indeed trying to find ways to help them.
For example, building day care centers and increasing pension income for the elderly... But have you ever thought that these policies can really make up for the lack of love in the hearts of the elderly?
Of course not. It is the children and family members of the elderly who play a major role in the happiness of their later years.
Having something to rely on and providing for the old should not be something that is said verbally, but something that everyone is engraved in their bones.
Those who think that the elderly are dragging down their children when they live, have they considered the problem from the perspective of the elderly? Did your parents think you were a burden when you were younger?
Thank you!