This is my 507th/700th day of continuous writing
Hello everyone, I'm Da Mingzi.
I asked the teacher before why I am not motivated to do anything now.
I understand that the teacher told me sharply that your expenses are not high, even if you earn less money, your current standard of living will not decline.
If I think about it carefully, it's true, what I really think in my heart is that it's okay now, I'm happy, and it's okay if I don't change.
And in "The Courage to Be Disciplined", it says:
The reason why you are unfortunate is not because of the past or circumstances, and it is not because of lack of ability, you are just a lack of "courage". It can be said that he lacks "the courage to achieve happiness".
In other words, I didn't have the courage to take that step and change my current situation.
I have thoughts about wanting to change, but I always use various excuses not to do it.
If I just think there and don't do it, then I'll never gain anything, not even the experience of failure.
For example, I want to monetize my writing, but I just complete the daily task every day.
I rarely think about how to write and how to monetize my writing.
Because being able to write does not mean that they can be monetized, and there is no logical relationship between them.
If we want to monetize, we need to learn a lot of knowledge and master a lot of skills to achieve it.
Writing is just one of the most important parts of the story, and it's a basic skill that will help you make a lot of money.
Rather than the method that can finally achieve the goal, there are other ways that need to be done to achieve it.
It's like the moment I buy a book and pay for it, it seems that I have all the knowledge in the book.
But the book was really in his hands, but he didn't read a few pages at all, didn't learn a few knowledge, and put it on the bookshelf to "eat ashes".
I only want to buy a book and imagine it there, as if I have actually read the book and have been able to obtain it.
But this is just a false impression that I give myself, as if I can definitely do it if I do.
But in fact, he didn't take action, and just used this possibility as an excuse to let himself live a stable life with peace of mind.
In fact, in essence, I don't have the courage to take this step, so that I can really change through action.
I used to think that this was good, living in this fantasy every day, thinking that I was also trying, but my growth and progress were slow.
But sooner or later, one day, I will break through the inflection point of accumulation, let myself really change, and get the results I want.
When will that day come?
I don't know it, I just think that I can do it.
I was just growing up in a "vague" way, and I didn't really think about whether I was doing the right thing.
In other words, I don't have the courage to face it, and the behavior I insist on is a wrong way in the end.
Then you have to look for it again and do it again, and you may have to go through a lot of difficulties and problems.
This will make you very tired and end up in a situation where you have nothing to gain.
Therefore, the reason why we can't get the happiness we want is that we lack the courage to cross our comfort zone to pursue happiness.
If we have the courage to cross this hurdle and keep moving forward, then happiness may come to you.
After the full text, it is another day of growth, and I hope this article can also bring you some food for thought and help.