Text | Mi Li's mother
Recently, I have eaten a few melons in a row, and I feel that the breaking news industry is getting more and more involved.
The small essay with emotion is no longer enough to express anger, and the sufferers have started a hundred pages of PPT, from the character relationship analysis map to the screenshots of various evidence, which is called a well-organized, knife-up, and all-round social death.
Among the various miscellaneous melons, Mi Li's mother saw a familiar name, Ma nuo.
Back then, in a phenomenal national blind date program "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", the female guest's shocking statement "I would rather cry on a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" quickly pushed her to the forefront.
After all these years, has her wish come true?
Hurry up and move the small bench, and listen to Mi Li's mother give everyone this melon!
13 years have passed since "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" was born.
In the past 13 years, many people have enjoyed the dividends of the show, from unknown amateurs to Internet celebrities and starlets.
Among them, the one who impressed Mi Li's mother the most was Ma nuo.
You may not remember what she looked like, and you may not remember her arguing with the male guests on stage, but you must remember this sentence.
"I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle," she said when she rejected a male guest.
It is precisely this sentence that gives the word "money worshipper" a concrete image from then on.
Such distorted remarks caused an uproar, and even the official media went down to ask the program team to rectify.
But for people who chase traffic, as long as they can be famous, black and red are also red.
Ma nuo naturally took advantage of this wave of attention to take on commercial performances and various programs, and swiped a sense of existence.
But people didn't buy it.
Because the impact was too bad, the movie clips she participated in were also reduced, and the programs she participated in were also scolded. Over time, there are no more job opportunities.
After being silent for many years, unexpectedly, a person who claimed to be her husband posted a long breaking post on social platforms, which once again pushed her to the commanding heights of public opinion.
He first posted the marriage certificates of the two people to increase the credibility of the revelations.
In this long article, in addition to telling the process of the two of them cheating and getting to know each other, as well as a large amount of emotional catharsis, the contradictions between the two people mainly arise in these aspects.
1. Gather for profit, each with a ghost
In order to be familiar with Ma Nuo in front of him, this brother gave her a gift worth more than 200,000 yuan for her live broadcast, and finally became the first brother on the list, and the two got acquainted.
A month later, Ma Nuo began dating the big brother on the list.
But note that Ma Nuo at this time has a boyfriend who has been dating for 8 years, and the eldest brother on the list has a family and children.
However, the two people who each have ghosts choose to keep it secret from each other.
2. Abandon your family and children and start living together
The paper can't contain the fire, and it doesn't take long for them to discover the secret that they have a partner for each other.
As a result, the two began to quarrel frequently.
But after arguing, they even decided to break up/divorce their respective partners, and the two left home together to live in Shanghai.
Emmmm...... I really can't think of anything else to say other than respect and blessings.
And in the description of the big brother on the list, from the day they lived together, his nightmare began.
As the two get along day and night, Ma nuo's series of vices begin to be exposed.
For example, foul language, scolding when the mouth is open and closed, chaotic private life, and even taking drugs, etc.
But to be honest, in the eyes of outsiders, neither of these two people is much higher than the other when it comes to character and morality.
3. Pregnancy threatens the disappearance of the money
The eldest brother on the list described Ma Nuo as so unbearable, but he still got married to her, and Mi Li's mother really couldn't understand such a confusing operation.
A few months after receiving the certificate, Ma Nuo became pregnant, and now she seemed to have a bargaining chip, and she had more confidence to ask for property from the big brother on the list.
She said that she felt insecure, so she asked the man to transfer the property in Shanghai to her name, and all the income had to go into her account.
Moreover, as long as the big brother on the list showed a little reluctance, she moved out of the conditions of her previous dating partners to PUA him, so the big brother on the list had to "make up for it with all his energy, money, and assets." For Miss Ma, I give it all. ”
This wave of operations, how do you look like it came out of a training class with Zhai Xinxin.
Do you remember Zhai Xinxin's story?
At the beginning of her acquaintance with Su Xiangmao, Zhai Xinxin set up a white rich beauty in Kochi, Beijing: Beijing nationality + Kochi family + master's degree + civil servant;
Su Xiangmao hurriedly sent screenshots of stocks and assets to Zhai Xinxin, trying his best to prove that he was worthy of her, and also opened the road of no return to spend money for Zhai Xinxin without a bottom line.
As soon as she and Su Xiangmao met, she said "I want to have a child with you", "You are my child's father", "love at first sight", and tried every means to ask Su Xiangmao for money.
For example, if you quarrel and get angry, you want Su Xiangmao to give her tens of thousands of yuan every day until she is happy; Su Xiangmao was also asked to sell his property in Beijing in an attempt to launder his premarital property into joint property.
At this time, Su Xiangmao gradually felt that something was wrong, and questioned that Zhai Xinxin was coming for his own money, but Zhai Xinxin's high-spirited PUA made Su Xiangmao feel like a deflated ball.
This marriage lasted only 40 days, Zhai Xinxin was ready to collect the net and catch fish, she anonymously hyped up Su Xiangmao's cheating on the blind date website, constantly looking for someone to harass Su Xiangmao, and even pulled Zhai's mother to block him in the elevator and beat him, demanding 50 million in compensation, so scared that Su only dared to stay in a hotel for refuge, and finally signed the divorce agreement that squeezed his last drop of blood:
Compensated Zhai Xinxin 10 million yuan in cash, and the properties in Hainan and Beijing also belonged to her.
And Ma nuo's sassy operation is not far behind.
Two months after being pregnant, the fetus was unfortunately miscarried, but she intensified her efforts to get money from the big brother on the list.
She forced the eldest brother on the list to get back part of the divorce compensation he gave to his ex-wife, and asked him to reduce the child support, and the two had a quarrel because of these trivial things.
There was even a physical altercation, and the two beat each other into the police station.
After the accident, Ma nuo walked away directly, and blocked all the man's contact information, and let it out, if he wanted to meet and talk, he had to show enough "sincerity".
What this so-called "sincerity" is, I think everyone can understand.
So the big brother on the list couldn't bear it anymore, and chose to break the news on the Internet, saying that he wanted to expose Ma Nuo's true face and expose the woman's privacy, but his information was hidden as much as he could.
portrayed himself as a poor victim, I don't know, I thought it was an innocent guy who was cheated by a scumbag, but when he was crazy about spending money on Ma Nuo to make the list, didn't he think that he still had a wife and children?
Now he looks like he has been deceived and regrets it, and he is still a scumbag in essence, but he has never played with another scumbag.
Mi Li's mother just wants to say that the way of heaven is good for reincarnation, and the wicked have their own wicked grinding, so the two of them should be locked up, and stop harming others.
It's hard to say whether Ma Nuo can sit in the BMW, but the dissatisfaction and anger of the whole network at what she did is enough to scold her and cry.
After all, such distorted values should never be in the public eye in the first place.
This kind of vain value of worshipping money reminds me of an incident that made people very angry a while ago.
"Do you have any money?"
"My dad has!"
Can you believe it? This conversation was actually taught to the children by a kindergarten teacher himself.
In order to celebrate Father's Day, a kindergarten teacher in Suining, Sichuan Province recorded a short video for the class.
In the video, the children in the class are separated from each other and sit upright.
The girls asked in unison:
"Do you have a room?"
"Do you have a car?"
"Do you have any deposits?"
The boys said in unison:
"My dad has!"
The girls followed up and asked:
"And what do you have?"
The boys crossed their legs and replied proudly:
"I've got my dad!"
A video of more than ten seconds made Mi Li's mother angry from her heart.
What kind of values is this promoting in the name of celebrating Father's Day? Worship money and fight dad from the doll to catch? Xuan's father is not lost at the starting line?
It is really inappropriate for a group of children who are as simple as a blank sheet of paper to talk about "money garage" so bluntly, and take pride in "my dad has a house and a car".
According to this statement, if you don't have money, a car or a house, are you not worthy of being a father?
Besides, most families nowadays are husband and wife working together to make money, how come it comes to the mouth of this kindergarten teacher, and the mother's contribution and value are wiped out?
What makes me most angry is that the teacher keeps guiding the girl to ask the boy "Do you have a house" and "Do you have a car"?
What kind of toxic values are these that make girls materialistic and money-worshippers, and boys show off their wealth and gnaw at old age?
Do girls have to reach out to boys if they want a car and a house? And then the boy went to search for his parents?
Mi Li's mother sincerely hopes that these concepts of treating vulgarity as funny and using rotten stalks to make games are far away from children!
I just want to tell the children, whether boys or girls, at any time, not to put their hopes in others.
You don't have to be affiliated with anyone, instead of pinning your hopes on others, you should be firm in your heart and self-reliant.
You don't have to cry in anyone's BMW, because you can sit in your own car and laugh confidently with your own efforts.
Your confidence comes from yourself doing your best!
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