Everyone is looking forward to finding a partner who truly loves each other, a lover who can hold hands and spend a lifetime together. However, the process is full of twists and turns and challenges, and it requires discernment to avoid getting caught up in the wrong relationship. Ms. Tang, 31, a 31-year-old employee of a company, is a vivid example of this.
Ms. Tang's love story began at a blind date party, when she was 29 years old and had reached the age of marriage. The reason why she went was because she was encouraged by her best friend. Her best friend is married and has children, and seeing that Ms. Tang is still single, she encourages Ms. Tang to actively participate in social activities, hoping that she can also find a partner who loves her. Ms. Tang was a little shy when she attended such a party for the first time, but she mustered up the courage to walk into the party.
The atmosphere at the party was lively, with young singles mingling with each other and looking for potential partners. Ms. Tang chose to sit in a relatively remote corner, a little overwhelmed. However, she quickly fell in love with a man. The man was confident and polite, and introduced himself as Li Deguang, a 32-year-old sales manager for a real estate company. His appearance, although ordinary, makes a good impression.
At the party, Ms. Tang and Li Deguang began to talk, and she was deeply attracted by his demeanor and manners. The two chatted happily and exchanged contact information, and then Ms. Tang left the party. A few days later, Ms. Tang was a little surprised that Li Deguang did not contact her. She volunteered to send him a message and got a reply from his business trip. There was some surprise, but she understood. Two days later, Li Deguang returned to the city, invited her to dinner in the evening, and prepared a set of cosmetics for her to like. Ms. Tang was so impressed by his carefulness that she felt that she might have finally met someone special.
Their date went well, and Li Deguang shared his interesting story at the dinner table, which made Ms. Tang laugh. Gradually, she began to get her heart moving. Li Deguang was attracted to her, he behaved like a warm man and was very considerate to her. Ms. Tang enjoyed this nuanced care and was touched by the sweet words. One night he took her to the rooftop, took her by the hand and told a romantic wish that he had dreamed of looking up at the stars with a girl and plucking the stars she wanted. Finally, he affectionately asked her if she would like to be the girl he was, and Ms. Tang shed tears of emotion and nodded firmly in agreement.
After half a year of dating, Ms. Tang found out that she was pregnant. She consulted with Li Deguang, and he expressed a certain amount of surprise, but finally agreed to give birth to the child. However, he did not mention his intention to marry. The wedding never took place, despite Ms. Tang's urging several times. She began to hold back, believing that marriage was not the most important thing. She was gradually bewitched by Li Deguang's sweet words and carefulness.
However, as time passed, she gradually discovered that Li Deguang was not so perfect. Not only did he not mention the marriage certificate, but he also did not provide financial support. After the birth of the child, she fell into financial difficulties, and Li Deguang became impatient with her request and even cursed her. Her friends began to worry about her, but she kept looking forward to it. However, when Li Deguang did not return home for several days in a row, Ms. Tang was forced to face reality.
Her friend investigates Li Deguang's whereabouts for her and discovers that he is mingling with an older woman. The woman drove a Mercedes-Benz, lived in a villa, and often took Li Deguang to her home. The news shocked Ms. Tang, who realized that Li Deguang was not being honest with her. Although he used to be a warm man, now he has abandoned her and the children and gone to a richer woman.
Ms. Tang decided to hold Li Deguang responsible, but it was not an easy task. Legally, they weren't married, she was just his live-in girlfriend. However, her friends were adamantly supportive and helped her find evidence to deal with legal challenges. Ms. Tang was deeply hurt, but she decided to face it strongly and take legal action to protect her rights and the rights of her children.
Her story teaches us that we need to be cautious in love and not be deceived by appearances and sweet words. At the same time, both men and women should take responsibility for their relationship and marriage, and should not easily turn their backs on the family. Ms. Tang eventually understood this lesson, and despite the heavy cost, she was determined to defend her rights and the rights of her children through legal rights.
In a relationship, you need to be discerning and discerning, not to blindly fall into love, but also to insist on protecting your own rights and interests, whether legally or morally. Ms. Tang's story is a profound reminder that we should cherish our happiness and not be deceived by superficial sweet words.