I am a gentle person and have always been friendly and enthusiastic to my colleagues. It wasn't until that summer afternoon that I had an experience that I will never forget.
That day, I happened to be back from work in the parking lot to drive home. At this moment, my female colleague Xiao Wang suddenly stepped forward and enthusiastically asked me a question.
Unexpectedly, from that day on, she began to rub my car frequently.
At first, I didn't pay much attention to it, after all, we are all colleagues, and the relationship should be maintained well. However, it didn't take long for Xiao Wang's frequent car rubbing to start making me feel impatient.
And every time I politely asked her if she needed help, she always shook her head and followed me right behind my car.
This went on for more than a month, and finally one day, I couldn't help but ask about her car rubbing behavior.
My heart softened after I heard that she had been busy with things at home for so long, but she didn't tell me. I decided to help her through this difficult time instead of complaining about her frequent car rubbing.
It turned out that when Xiao Wang rubbed my car last night, he accidentally scratched a motorcycle on the side of the road, and still called the police.
I looked at Xiao Wang and the police with a confused expression, not expecting such a situation at all. Xiao Wang quickly apologized to the police, and his voice was a little trembling.
After some explanation, the police finally believed my words and reminded Xiao Wang to pay attention to the impact of his actions on others.
I saw off the policeman and went back inside to reorganize my emotions.
To calm Xiao Wang's nervousness, I asked her to sit down and decided to ask her about what was happening in her house in detail.
It turned out that her father was injured by an accident, and the family's financial situation suddenly became very difficult. She was the only breadwinner in the family, and in order to pay for her father's medical expenses, she had to quit her old job to find better opportunities here.
Hearing this, I was shocked and admired Xiao Wang very much. I really admire the strength and responsibility of a young girl who works hard against all odds for the difficulties of her family.
I decided to do my best to help her through this. I first asked a friend of mine about a job that was suitable for Xiao Wang and promised her some financial assistance to help her through this difficult period.
Since then, the friendship between Xiao Wang and me has deepened. Despite her busy schedule, we still communicate and see each other regularly.
Xiao Wang also began to reveal some family problems to me. Her father's injuries are gradually improving, but there are still many conflicts in the family.
For the sake of family harmony, Xiao Wang often plays the role of reconciling family conflicts.
I felt the pressure and helplessness inside her and decided to give her more care and help. We often take walks together in the evening, listen to her and give her the right advice and encouragement.
Despite more understanding and support between us, one day, Xiao Wang suddenly told me that she was planning to leave the city.
Xiao Wang hesitated for a moment and said softly: "I feel that I have done what I can, and I need to start over."
Hearing this, I fell silent. Although I understood her thoughts, I still felt a little sad. We've been through so much and built a deep friendship that I can't bear to see her leave.
However, I know that the final decision is still in her hands. I encourage her to think about herself and support her decision if she feels the right choice to leave.
I helped Xiao Wang find his dream job. After a period of hard work, she successfully entered a large enterprise and got the corresponding promotion opportunities.
At the same time, my friendship with Xiao Wang has become closer and closer. We often eat and chat together after work, sharing each other's joys, sorrows and sorrows.
Although Xiao Wang found a job, her family problems were not completely solved. She told me that her mother was sick and needed regular treatment and care.
I couldn't bear to see her embarrassed, so I offered to help her solve the problem. I suggested that she hire a professional caregiver who would take turns taking care of her mother's daily life.
She was grateful for my suggestion and immediately took it.
However, just when we thought everything was going well, a new contradiction emerged. Xiao Wang told me that her brother lost his job unexpectedly and needed a sum of money to cover family expenses and find a job.
I understood her difficulties, but I couldn't say yes easily. Economic issues are a sensitive and complex topic, and I don't want to damage our friendship because of it.
However, Xiao Wang did not accept my advice, and she showed some dissatisfaction and disappointment. She felt that I had not fulfilled my responsibilities as a friend and did not put myself in her shoes.
This situation confused me and made me reflect on my approach. I began to wonder if I had really understood Xiao Wang's suffering.
I decided to take the initiative to find Xiao Wang to solve the misunderstanding and rebuild the trust between us.
I decided to help Xiao Wang find her dream job, hoping to help her get through the difficulties and pursue her dream again.
After some hard work, a company was finally interested in Xiao Wang's excellent performance and invited her to participate in the interview.
On the day of the interview, Xiao Wang dressed appropriately and walked into the company building full of confidence. I stood at the door and silently blessed her, expecting her to pass the interview and start a new job.
However, what happened next was unexpected. Xiao Wang's interview did not go as smoothly as expected. She didn't know what was going on, just silently packed up her things and left the company expressionlessly.
That night, Xiao Wang came to my home, her eyes full of disappointment and confusion. She didn't understand why her efforts were always not rewarded and began to doubt her abilities.
I comforted her and told her that everyone has setbacks and that it's important not to give up. I encouraged her to resubmit her resume and look for other opportunities.
I felt the change in her speech and expression, and she seemed to be rejuvenated and confident.
We celebrate this good news together, turn this joy into strength, and move on. Xiao Wang told me that without my help and support, it was hard for her to imagine that she would have such an opportunity.
After a while, Xiao Wang gradually adapted to the new working environment, she showed her talent and ability in the workplace, and was recognized by her colleagues.
However, just as we were enjoying this friendship and growth together, one day, Xiao Wang suddenly found me, she looked hesitant, and seemed to have something to say to me.
I helped Wang find her dream job, and she is very grateful and our friendship has been strengthened as a result.
However, just when everything seems harmonious, a new paradoxical event suddenly befalls us.
One day, Xiao Wang told me worriedly that she found that the relationship between her father and mother had become tense, and there was a serious family dispute in the family.
I comforted her and encouraged her to communicate well with her family and find solutions to her problems. However, as time went on, Xiao Wang told me that the family conflicts became deeper and deeper, and she felt hesitant and painful.
I decided to help her solve this problem, and I invited Xiao Wang and her family to have dinner together, hoping that through communication and tolerance, the conflict could be alleviated.
I was confused and helpless, but I decided to continue to persuade, believing that as long as both sides can communicate openly, the problem will be solved.
I was struck by his attitude, and I tried to explain that I was intervening out of concern, but he ignored it.
This sudden conflict hit me hard, and at the same time gave me a deeper understanding of family disputes and the complexity of family relationships.