01.
Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng divorced and were on the hot search. Some people say that it was Wang Feng's last consumption of Zhang Ziyi.
I also saw a famous psychological counselor post an evaluation on her personal media account:
"Wang Feng's divorce is not beneficial to Wang Feng himself, and children are the biggest losers."
Today, some netizens have whitewashed Wang Feng, saying that Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi divorced, suspected that Zhang Ziyi and Monday Wei filming kissing scenes are too fake scenes, "Any man who watches the scene of their kissing scene, will divorce."
Some people also say that some paparazzi broke the news:
Zhang Ziyi divorced Wang Feng, and could not bear Wang Feng's gambling addiction.
Of course, some people say that Wang and Zhang divorced because Wang Feng did something indescribable with a young model...
In short, Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng officially announced their divorce, and the melon-eating masses only knew that they were really divorced. As for the reasons for the divorce, it is still a mystery.
However, then again, Zhang Ziyi, who is just 42 years old, is not like Pan Hong and a certain 900 million, unmarried and infertile, and has no baby. Instead, they choose to marry and have children at a marriageable age.
Although she is divorced now, she has both children and daughters, and she is the mother of the two children, and this fact cannot be changed.
In this sense, Zhang Ziyi's identity as a woman, her gender role, is complete and worthwhile.
02.
Although marriage is free, divorce is also free. In today's society, divorce is not a heinous thing, people have become accustomed to it, but not all women are suitable for divorce.
So, what kinds of women are not suitable for divorce?
The first: a woman who does not have the power to divorce.
The so-called divorce power, as the name implies, means that after a person leaves a marriage, the standard of living will not decline, but can be improved, which is the divorce (real) power.
After the divorce, is your house, car, tickets (i.e. your income), your spiritual life independent and strong enough? Do you have enough experience and ability to deal with all the problems that may arise after divorce?
If you can't, don't get a divorce first.
Second, have you found the crux of your marital problems?
That is, before thinking about (or intending to) divorce, you have not found the true source of the dissolution of your marriage.
As the saying goes, if a slap doesn't make a sound, two people fight, and it's not just one of them.
If it is because you do not know people, do not know yourself, did not choose the right partner, or did not communicate with each other in time, day after day, year after year, the conflict intensified.
That is to say, you will not manage the marriage, then, even if you divorce, who you change, if you do not adjust in this regard, who to marry, the final result will be divorce.
Third, the partner also has a salvage value.
If the other party has been ape-like, but is willing to return to the family, you are also willing to accept his return to the family, do not lightly divorce.
Written at the end:
Life is not as good as it should be.
No one is perfect, gold is incomplete, and there will be no perfect marriage in the world.
If the other party is not involved in pornography, gambling, drugs, domestic violence and other principled issues, especially after having children, do not lightly divorce.
Parental divorce, harm and negative impact on children, is invisible.
Parental affection and companionship is the best love for children.
I wish the husband and wife of the world a good union for a hundred years, and grow old together.
Home and all things prosperous.