Have you ever borrowed money but delayed paying it back? This kind of helplessness and loss is understandable to everyone who has experienced it. Borrowing money is not only the tilt of money, but also the mutual trust and friendship between friends. Unfortunately, many times, good brothers and friends go further and further away because of money problems, and even cut off all contact. It can be seen that it is necessary to act cautiously when borrowing money, otherwise there will inevitably be various contradictions between the two sides because of money.
Just a few days ago, such a very entangled thing happened. A pair of brothers who have played from childhood to adulthood, their friendship is very deep, and they have always been the best friends. They go to school together, play together, and have always had a good relationship. Even after work, they still keep in touch and usually eat and drink together. In the eyes of others, they are the most envious friends.
But recently, the brother borrowed 3,000 yuan from the man. Although no specific repayment time was agreed, the man still lent it to him without hesitation. However, some time passed, and the brother never mentioned the matter of repaying the money. The man has a family to support, and he hopes to get back the money he borrowed as soon as possible, so he reminds his brother several times that he has been perfunctory.
Recently, when the man reminded his brother to pay back the money again, the brother actually carried an unhappy tone, thinking that this was only 3,000 yuan, why remind him over and over again? Perhaps out of a momentary anger, the brother sent the money not long after.
However, when the man opened it, he found that the brother sent change, ten, five, twenty, and more excessively, most of them were coins, mostly one yuan and five dimes. Before the brother left in a hurry, he even said that if he did not clearly state how much money on the spot, it would have nothing to do with him in the future.
The man felt very helpless, he had to find two people, plus a total of three of himself to count the pile of coins, I don't know how long it took to finally finish the calculation. But he had nowhere to put so much change, so he had to deposit them in the bank the next day.
The brother's practice made the man's wife angry, cursed the brother, and insisted that the man cut off such a friend. She thinks that true friends don't do things like this, so stingy. Years of brotherhood have become estranged because of this incident, and men also understand that the feelings between brothers and the friendship between friends can only be seen at critical moments.
In fact, no matter what kind of relationship, once it involves money, it will often cause conflicts. Sometimes small conflicts can be ignored, but sometimes, people's nature can be difficult to accept.
When others are willing to lend us money, that is recognition and trust in us. We all know the importance of money, so if others are not sincere and affectionate, who will easily give their hard-earned money to others?
We should be more cautious when lending money to others. Try to avoid situations like those described in this article. And when we owe money to others, we must remember the trust they place in us. Returning the loaned property as soon as possible demonstrates our responsibility and responsibility for honesty and trustworthiness.
Only when our credibility is good can we continue to get the interaction and trust of friends. After all, treating people with sincerity and sincerity is the way to eternal friendship.
I hope that everyone can find a balance between money and friendship, maintain good interpersonal relationships, and live a good life together.
"Such friends should be cut off", when money becomes a barrier between friends, can friendship still be supported? Borrowing money once and repaying it once revealed the secret knot between brothers. How do you feel after reading this story? Come and leave a message to share with us!