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A female netizen asked a question that many girls are curious about:
"Do boys really mind how girls look?"
Every time I saw this question, Xiao Zhou wanted to answer, but did not dare to answer, for fear that the girls would not believe it, but this time a male netizen said what I had in my heart!
Don't mind! I really don't care much, as long as we don't act as a partner to be chosen, we men are even willing to be friends with the opposite sex who doesn't look good.
Of course, both men and women will love good-looking people, but you just ask whether you care or not, you really don't care.
Whether male or female, we only care about the people we care about, and as men we don't like gossip about the opposite sex very much, so we won't judge the opposite sex who doesn't look good, and we won't even mention each other.
Compared to asking men whether they care about women's appearance, Xiao Zhou I feel that women have great appearance anxiety, and even value their looks more than men.
Sometimes we men really don't mind the looks of our friends, but many people of the opposite sex always belittle themselves for being ugly, I don't know if there are such girls with low self-esteem around male colleagues?
This male netizen's answer is more gentle and true, to be honest, as long as the girl is not ugly, there is no way to look at it. As a man, I still care about the fit between women and my soul.
If it is not for face control, men feel that temperament is greater than appearance, so girls must believe that they are unique, and only by loving themselves can others love you.
Appearance is only the first impression, and can determine whether two people can become friends, and even have a deeper intimate relationship, and companionship, relying on the core of the person, the soul of the person, the personality in life.
Maybe "face born from the heart" is this truth, some people are very stunning at the first time, see a few more times, understand more, suddenly not so beautiful, a person's behavior can determine the evaluation and impression of others, a person's impression 30% from their own views and fantasies.
So this is why many netizens say that the more good-looking people look, the less good they are, and the more they look at the average, the more enduring.
Some netizens also shared their experiences:
Maybe because of the looks, there are no boys to help pull the luggage, this is the reality.
But the boy in the comment area came out and said, saying that he is just a straight man, don't think too much.
So girls, give yourself less anxiety about appearance, you can pursue beauty, but do not deny yourself, every confident person is beautiful, this is unique!
Do you think looks really matter?