In the current environment, it is indeed very good to be able to enter large factories, state-owned enterprises and institutions. But just in case you don't have the chance, don't be too anxious. Time can change many things, and things that used to feel good may change in a few decades, the so-called thirty years of Hedong and thirty years of Hexi.
Especially now that the world is turbulent and the economy is also tight, so some stable jobs will become more and more attractive, and even now some people have become pathological to pursue, it seems that they have not lost all hope of life in large factories and without entering public institutions. But the fact is that in a few years, these large companies and units may disappear, when the world returns to the main theme of peace, the market is good, and what everyone pursues will turn to free and market-oriented startups, because there will be more opportunities.
As a result, some people will begin to dislike the old-fashionedness of the system, the complicated processes and old-fashioned nature of large factories. Markets and situations are always changing, sometimes requiring flexibility and sometimes stability. In this process, the most important thing is to continuously improve your awareness and maintain sufficient concentration.
The anxiety brought about by salary comparison, 35-age crisis, and technical barriers is essentially insufficient for one's own positioning and cognition, and is easily affected by external subjective evaluation.
The tide swings, and it runs throughout life. The past has changed, it is still changing, and it will continue to change in the future. Individuals need to be judgmental and are not a big problem when it comes to obtaining information. More important is to filter the information.
Now that the Internet is widespread, fake news, bad news, rumors and anxiety are amplified by natural appeal. Don't just look at the glamorous side, a lot of it is noise or false information. Turn off TikTok and get back to real life.
The sky is not going to fall right away, and the world is still functioning normally. Everyone should recognize their own place and have their own rhythm. Life involves ups and downs, doing the right thing at the right time, such as thinking about getting married before the age of 25, thinking about having children at the age of 30, and putting more thought on the family.
Influenced by test-oriented education, many people only cater to the expectations of others to live, ignoring their own talents and interests. Always expect a stable job and a good salary, and then get temporary self-psychological comfort. Changing these perceptions is also a necessary process of growth.
Well-educated people with concentration and cognitive ability contribute to society as an important indicator of self-fulfillment. With sufficient wealth and social status, it is necessary to guide young people in a timely manner to establish a correct outlook on life and family, and enjoy life, rather than being caught up in the trend.
The life of 34 years old has just begun, whether it is in state-owned enterprises or large factory employees, this has surpassed many young people, need to enjoy the dividends of the development of this era, marriage, childbirth, education, community service, and cultivation of hobbies, are all important processes to enjoy life.
Being present and being kind enough is the courage to pursue your goals