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When there is a plot of the husband's cheating in life, the wife usually falls into a complicated state of mind and feels unbearable pain and anger. This emotion is understood, but we need to deal with it sensibly, not act too drastically. In this article, we will discuss reasonable ways to deal with cheating on your husband and how to defend your interests and dignity.
Do not do things that kill a thousand enemies and damage yourself eight hundred
We can understand the enormous sacrifice women make in the family, but we should not choose to take extreme actions to try to destroy the husband's life. In China, there is an old saying, "Leave nothing to your business, hang high", which means that most people will remain calm about things that have nothing to do with them, and some may even have an attitude of watching jokes. Publicizing his husband's wrongdoing, at best, would only embarrass his family, but it would not have a substantial impact on his kinship.
Relatives will mostly be on the side of men because they are related, while women are outsiders to them. There is no need for a woman to offend relatives for the sake of a person who is about to divorce. Worse, if a woman takes drastic action that causes her husband to lose his job, he may seek revenge and put the woman in danger. This kind of behavior of "killing a thousand enemies and damaging yourself by eight hundred" is not wise.
Making yourself better is the best revenge
A smarter approach is to make yourself better. We can draw inspiration from a true story: a woman who graduated from a prestigious university and became a full-time wife after graduation, but gradually lost her common language with her husband due to her long disengagement from society. When the husband cheats and asks for a divorce, the woman feels reluctant at first, but eventually agrees. With the support of her friends, she began to reintegrate into society, find a job and gradually improve her life. At the same time, the husband's marriage with the mistress was not satisfactory, and he regretted the divorce because he saw that his ex-wife's life was getting better and better.
This story tells us that when a husband cheats and files for divorce, women should not fall into humility, but should strive to improve themselves and become more confident and excellent. Making your life better and making your husband regret his choice is the best way to take revenge.
Don't try to redeem the other person through humility
It is often unwise to humbly redeem the other person. If a woman behaves too humbly, the husband is more likely to insist on divorce because he feels that his choice is the right one. Conversely, if a woman can calmly agree to a divorce, the husband may begin to doubt his decision, especially if he sees his ex-wife become more confident and excellent.
If you can, take your own property
In divorce, women should demand their fair share of property and not feel that they are receiving handouts from men. These properties are community property, and women have contributed to the family, and they have the right to return their share of property that belongs to themselves and their children. This is not only the protection of one's own due rights and interests, but also the responsibility of children.
In the TV series "My First Half of Life", the protagonist Luo Zijun showed this, and she fought for as many interests as possible, including child support. This clever approach allowed her to live a better life, and her husband was willing to compensate her.
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