A month after my new marriage, I found that my husband's sexual desire was extremely strong and he frequently sought sex, which I couldn't accept, I didn't know what to do, and I really asked for help!
The sadness and confusion of newlyweds
Since my husband and I have only been married for a month, we thought we would live a sweet and romantic life, but the reality is cruel. I found that my husband's sexual desire was extremely exuberant and he needed to seek sex frequently every day, which made me confused and unacceptable. As a working woman who has just entered the society, I experience stress and exhaustion at work every day, and after returning home at night, my husband frequently asks me to meet his sexual needs. It made me think, what should I do?
Find balance and communication
In the face of this problem, I realized that communication is very important. So, my husband and I sat down and honestly expressed my troubles and unacceptable feelings. I told him that I also needed time to rest and relax and couldn't meet his sexual needs at any time. Together, we find a balance and respect each other's needs and feelings. I suggested that we dedicate some intimate time on weekends or at specific times, which both met his needs and gave me some space and time to rest.
Dig deeper into the reasons behind it
However, communication alone will not solve the root of the problem. I began to think about the reasons why my husband had frequent sex, whether there were other emotional problems or physical needs. At this time, I started an in-depth conversation with my husband again. Through listening and understanding, I found that the reason why he frequently pursued sex was not simply because of strong desire, but because of his love and dependence on me. He felt that in this way he obtained emotional satisfaction and comfort. As a result, I understood his inner needs and was more able to understand his actions.
Build respectful relationships
After understanding the reasons behind this, I realized that the key to solving problems is to build a relationship of mutual respect. Together with my husband, I made some rules to avoid the negative impact of frequent sex on our physical and mental health. We began to focus on mutual caresses, emotional communication, and other forms of intimacy so that we could meet each other's needs and ensure that our relationship was stronger.
Compromise and acceptance
Finally, I realized that marriage is a process of compromise and acceptance. Both my husband and I need to make an effort to understand and support each other's needs and feelings. Although we will encounter various problems and troubles, as long as we love and tolerate each other, I believe that we will be able to overcome many difficulties and build a happier and more stable married life.