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However, the once glorious movie star Li Chengru is an irresponsible father. He abandoned his wife and children and mocked his son when he was in trouble.
Now, in his later years, after a serious illness, he found that there was no one around him to take care of him. In his sadness, he finally remembered the son who he mocked and abandoned.
Why is Li Chengru so ruthless? And look at how Li Chengru handled this father-son relationship in his later years.
Li Chengru's life was bumpy
In 1954, Li Chengru was born in Beijing to a declining family. His father died young, and his mother struggled to survive alone with eleven children.
Li Chengru has been tortured by life since he was a child. He often competed with others for a bite of food and was beaten to death before letting go. It wasn't until he was 21 that he ate his first meal.
Li Chengru, 16, works in a garment factory. He was exhausted from working every day, but his salary was too meager to sustain. Living without dignity makes young people lose confidence and motivation to live.
In desperation, Li Chengru's only livelihood is his love and desire for the performing arts. He often went to the theater and dreamed of one day being on stage.
In 1976, Li Chengru's fate began to open new doors. He became acquainted with the famous playwright master Dong Xingyu and accepted him as a disciple at repeated requests.
Li Chengru devoted himself to his acting career, studied hard, and made rapid progress through self-study. He began performing on stage in the Workers' Repertory Theater, where he met his first wife, Li Shirong.
Li Shirong is the leader of this crew. She had an excellent appearance and a wealthy family. She could have married a better man, but she was touched by Li Chengru's sincerity and chose this poor boy who still had nothing.
The two registered their marriage under the opposition of public opinion and moved into a small room of only 18 square meters provided by Li Chengru's employer. Although the little couple lived in difficult conditions, they were very loving and had no complaints.
In 1985, Li Shirong gave birth to a son for Li Chengru. She has always supported and encouraged her husband not to give up his pursuit of an acting career.
With the support of his wife, Li Chengru continued to work hard in the crew, and even recommended himself to play the role of Tang Monk in "Journey to the West". Although it was ultimately unsuccessful, he later joined the crew as a set manager, solved many problems, and was appreciated by the director.
Many problems were encountered during the filming of "Journey to the West", but they were all solved by Li Chengru. For example, the actor who played the "Jade Rabbit Spirit" was found by Li Chengru.
Although the crew's hard work did not make any money, Li Chengru was not discouraged. In 1990, he made a decisive transition and set out to start a clothing company. With strong management, his brand quickly became successful and financial resources poured in.
Li Chengru owns luxury cars, luxury homes and designer clothing, and enjoys sweet success. However, the good times did not last long. The sudden wealth soon increased his pride and self-satisfaction. He became arrogant and even looked down on his wife and children. Eventually, the marriage ended and divorced.
Li Chengru's violent suppression
After Li Chengru got married, Li Shirong gave birth to a son for Li Chengru, named Li Dahai. When he was a child, Li Dahai was weak and sick, and needed extra care from his family. Unfortunately, Li Chengru did not pay attention to this family. Instead, he put his career first and decided to divorce Li Shirong.
After the divorce, Li Dahai and her mother can live alone in a small room of 18 square meters and share the bathroom with other people. Life is difficult. Li Dahai often fell ill, but due to limited conditions, his mother was unable to provide him with proper medical care. Get it done.
The lives of their mother and son are very difficult. To survive, they had to share an old building with many people while sharing toilets and kitchens with others.
At the same time, Li Chengru's career flourished. He first became a television actor and starred in many popular TV series. He later returned to business. He started a company with a unique vision and managed to become a billionaire.
Li Dahai often wanted to ask Li Chengru for help, hoping that his father could give them some help, even if it was financial support.
But Li Chengru not only refused to help, but also humiliated Li Dahai in public, saying that he was incapable and relied on his parents to get to where he is today. This is a huge blow to the sensitive Li Dahai.
Instead, Li Chengru bought himself a luxurious villa and an expensive piano for his new wife, Shi Yihong, while his son and ex-wife lived in poverty.
You know, Li Dahai once wanted to learn to play the piano, hoping to get comfort from music, but Li Chengru said that this piano was bought for the newlyweds Shi Yihong, and it was not Li Dahai's turn to use it.
Li Dahai begged to borrow money to improve his living environment. Li Chengru also believes that Li Dahai must earn it himself. Whenever Li Dahai wanted to get close to Li Chengru, he was treated coldly.
In order to reduce his mother's burden, Li Dahai dropped out of high school and started working. He delivers food at cafes and works part-time as a salesman in shopping malls, but he doesn't make enough money to fill his stomach.
Li Chengru not only did not give his son any help, but also ridiculed him for not showing up and not making money. Li Dahai completely gave up on his father. He secretly promised that when he grew up, he would repay his mother's nurturing grace.
In 2013, Li Dahai participated in the talent show "I am a big star". The program group arranged for his parents to cheer for the contestants, but Li Chengru insulted Li Dahai in front of everyone, saying that he was incapable and unworthy of being on stage.
Li Dahai held back tears and forced a smile to say that his father was very good to him. In fact, Li Dahai was already desperate. He found that his biological father was so callous. Later, Li Dahai fell in love with his girlfriend and wanted to get married and have children. He wants to borrow some money from Li Chengru to decorate his new house and give his future family a warm home.
Li Chengru not only disagreed, but also yelled at him, saying that he could not even afford a house, so he was not allowed to get married and have children.
Li Dahai then realized that his biological father was simply a tyrant. He would use violent means to oppress him, just to trample on his dignity.
What Li Chengru did was undoubtedly trampling on Li Dahai's dignity step by step. He first abandoned his family, and then refused to help Li Dahai when he needed it most. If it weren't for his mother, he might have died long ago. Crashed.
In the eyes of outsiders, Li Chengru is successful and wealthy, but they don't know that he is a loser without father's love. His son's successful education was like a storm, no heat, but cold.
Use money later in life to repair family relationships
Li Chengru did not take much care of his son when he was a child, and even hindered his son's love of music. Son Li Dahai has always held a grudge against his father. It wasn't until Li Chengru was old that he suddenly realized the importance of his relatives and wanted to be close to them again. Relationship with son.
When Li Chengru was in his sixties, his health deteriorated, reminding him of the horrors of his helpless old age.
He took the initiative to contact his son and wanted to give him a good car as a gift, but Li Dahai was still wary of his father and wary of economic relations.
After Li Chengru repeatedly promised that no conditions would be attached, Li Dahai reluctantly asked for a practical car worth 200,000 yuan, rather than a more expensive and luxurious model.
Li Chengru realized the mustard in his son's heart and wanted to use money to make up for years of estrangement and misunderstanding. He began to call Li Dahai regularly to say hello, and often introduced Li Dahai to job opportunities.
Li Dahai also slowly opened his heart and let his father return to his life. Father and son try to rebuild their relationship. Li Chengru wanted to do his best to fulfill his son's wish and make up for his son's mistakes.
Li Dahai will also be wary of his father's sudden intimate behavior, worried that the other party has other intentions. Years of misunderstandings cannot be eliminated in a short period of time. They have to get along for a long time to regain their true father-son relationship.
At that time, Li Chengru prevented Li Dahai from learning to play the piano and did not support his choice of the entertainment industry. Now he deeply regrets his decision and realizes that music could have been his son's hobby.
He took the initiative to buy Li Dahai a brand new piano and encouraged him to practice more music, and Li Dahai could only be grateful.
As a child, he was always jealous of his classmates, who had their father to send them to school, but he was often alone.
Now Li Chengru began to care carefully about his son's life and often took him to the crew to film. Li Dahai was immersed in the love of his long-lost father and made up for the emotional lack of the past.
Li Chengru will also personally teach Li Dahai some acting skills. Although his son has been in the entertainment industry for many years, Li Chengru still wants to do his best to help his son. Li Dahai understood that this was his father's way of expressing concern and happily accepted the old man's kindness.
As time passed, the relationship between father and son became closer and closer, and Li Dahai was no longer guarded against Li Chengru's sudden concern, feeling that there was no purpose behind this pure fatherly love.
Li Chengru also let go of his past obsession and just wanted to stay by his son's side. Family affection finally overcame the barrier of time, and father and son walked hand in hand into the future.
The changes in the father-son relationship between Li Chengru and Li Dahai make people think about the meaning of family affection. Although fatherly love came late, it still came, but past trauma may not be fully compensated. How should we view this chain of events?
Perhaps this requires everyone to experience and experience. Affection is like a mirror. We see not only others, but also ourselves.
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