Parental love: group pet Ding Xiao sample life failure, because of the pattern of mother

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Since Dehua and Lao Ding got married and gave birth to Ding Xiaoxian, Ding Xiaoyan has become the group pet of the Ding family and the Jiang family.

Lao Ding gave birth to 4 sons in a row, and suddenly a daughter came to be spoiled as a heart and liver baby. Even the eldest man Jiang Defu held Ding Xiaoxian and said amusedly: "Why are you so ugly, are you like your father?" This sentence is Jiang Defu's daughter who loves his sister with deep meaning. And An Jie also loves Xiao Xian, even Teacher Ge said that An Jie has never been so patient with his children. Coupled with the love and care of the brothers and sisters of the Jiang family and the Ding family for this little sister, it once again shows that Ding Xiaozian is a proper group pet.

Moreover, Ding Xiaoyan's birth background is not simple, Ding Xiaoyan has been destined to be extraordinary since birth, she is the daughter of Dehua and Lao Ding, and Jiang Defu is her uncle, so behind her stands the Jiang Ding family, this is her background. And the background of this kind of thing has its inevitability, the son of the rich is still rich, because this is the result of the previous generation desperately making money. For example, Yafei, after Yafei joined the army, it was smooth sailing, because her own father was the commander of the garrison, and her boss's boss was her uncle Lao Ding.

Later, Yafei's sister Yaning married Meng Tianzhu, and Meng Tianzhu took over the burden of the garrison from the old man, and used the resources of the old man and his own ability to be promoted to the political commissar of the military region in a very short time.

And the military region where Yafei is located happens to be Meng Tianzhu's jurisdiction, protected by his father in the early stage and his brother-in-law in the later stage, so no matter where Yafei goes, he is not afraid of the sky. She can train her younger brother and sister-in-law not to speak, because her level is not comparable to that of ordinary people. She can teach Lao Ding's sons a lesson because behind her stands the second generation of the Jiang family.

Jiang Jia's claim to be hegemonic in Ganxiu is not because of Jiang Defu's status as a retired commander, but because his children are more contentious. The opposite example is Wang Zhenbiao, who is higher in rank than Jiang Defu, but if his son does not marry Yafei, his Wang family will fall into an embarrassing situation.

Echoing Yafei's words: "My father thought that he was still the commander of the island, and everything he did was noticed, who still knows who he is now?" "The older generation will eventually turn to dust, and only future generations will support the future of the family. They are like seeds that are pruned and nurtured before they plunge into the sky, while crops that are not pruned and fertilized tend to be malnourished.

And Teckwah's daughter Ding Xiaoyan didn't think much about it. She comes from a very good background, and has a bunch of cousins with outstanding abilities, and they all mix well in the army system.

Dante did not wear a military uniform at Lao Ding's joint burial ceremony, and he had no status in front of his four brothers, and he did not even have the right to speak for how his mother was buried. It can be seen that she did not enter the army system, nor did she marry a powerful husband, which can be regarded as an ordinary person.

The gap between the second generation of the Ding family and the second generation of the Jiang family can almost be described by the word "clear and clear". The source of this gap is not the difference between Jiang Defu and Lao Ding, but the guidance of parents.

Ding Xiaoyan has the most top-notch background, and his mother Dehua brought up the 5 children of the Jiang family. The second generation of the Jiang family naturally invested a lot of affection for this child of his aunt. Not only Yafei and Yaning often help their aunt with their children, but even An Jie has deep feelings for Ding Xiaoxian, and even Ge Meixia said that Teacher An is not so patient with her own children.

The group pet is the label of Ding Xiaoxian, but that's it, Ding Xiaoxian, has become an ordinary ordinary person, and the key is the "guidance" of parents.

Ding Xiaoxian does not lack accumulation, does not lack background, what she lacks is the guidance of her parents. Lao Ding has a high official position, but he obviously has no attention to the education of his children, which can be seen from the growth and pattern of his four sons. Moreover, compared with Anjie, Teckwah is not at the same level in terms of cultural level, behavior pattern and education of children, so Lao Ding Cai said: "Where is the importance of this culture?" It is to look far, stand tall, and see far. An Jie did it, but Dehua was still a little worse, so Ding Xiaoxian, who led to the group pet level, still became an ordinary person in the end.

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