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The deep friendship of parents for their children lasts for a long time. Even as children are mature, they still see children in their eyes. Parental love can be summed up in short: wanting their children to be happy and never wanting to see them suffer. In the life journey of children, major events such as employment and marriage have a profound impact on the future. Therefore, parents need to have a vision and should not fall into short-sightedness. Especially before children enter the marriage hall, there are three important reminders to consider. Children lack life experience, are vulnerable, and regret it too late.
01 The first caveat from parents is that marriage and love are not the same concept. Love can make people "can't help but be affectionate". You may fall in love with each other for a variety of reasons, but that doesn't mean it's right to spend time in marriage. It is very unwise for many young people to equate love with marriage. When love subsides, trivial life will follow, which will wear down people's minds. For example, some young people think that the other party looks good and rush to get married. After marriage, he found that the other party was cold and violent and did not like to communicate. The other party is lazy, unable to take care of himself, and can only take care of himself. These problems will completely wear out the love, which is painful. The meaning of marriage is very different from love, and it tests whether the two can spend decades together. Living habits, personality characteristics, and economic conditions can all affect the quality of marriage. Therefore, parents need to remind their children: do not be naïve, it is foolish to measure marriage by love.
02 The basis of marriage is economic conditions, and whether it can match itself determines whether life after marriage is smooth. The material needs of daily life need to be supported by money. Therefore, it is crucial to carefully weigh the economic fundamentals to ensure that the two sides are compatible with each other. It is best to avoid choosing a person whose family conditions clearly do not match. I've seen some examples. At the moment when love gets carried away, the two parties get married in a hurry. After marriage, I found out that although the other party was talented, his family conditions were extremely poor and he needed to make up for himself. Over time, the feelings wear off. In reality, it is not necessary to consider people who are too rich, such a marriage loses its dignity. There is also no need to think about the poor. The most suitable is an economic situation similar to your own. It is desirable for both families to be similar in order to live together as equals.
03 The qualities and character of the other person are crucial in real life. However, many people think about marriage by focusing on material conditions and neglecting qualities and character, which is extremely dangerous. It is necessary to understand that getting along in the future depends on the cultivation, temper and quality of the other party. Those who are unreliable will mostly drive us crazy and suffocate. For example, some women find out after marriage that their husbands only know how to indulge in the wine table. And all the money he earns is spent on eating, drinking and entertainment. Is this quality worrying? Is such a person suitable for long-term relationships? In reality, getting married means spending the rest of your life with each other for a long time. Whether the other party is reliable, whether he knows how to score, whether he is honest and kind, is a wise choice. Otherwise, your bad qualities and temper will surely torment you. This warning must be told to the children.
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