This is a conversation shared by a netizen on WeChat, which triggered the surprise and curiosity of netizens. The netizen's name is Zhang Yue (pseudonym), she and her husband Li Hao (pseudonym) have been married for three years, but they have never had children. Because Zhang Yue has infertility problems, she is often blamed and snubbed by her husband and mother-in-law. She felt aggrieved and lonely, and she wanted to be understood and cared for by her husband and mother-in-law.
On October 17, Zhang Yue and Li Hao quarreled again, and Li Hao said some things that hurt Zhang Yue, such as "You are a waste", "You are not worthy to be my wife", "You get out for me". Zhang Yue was very sad, she felt that she had done nothing wrong, why should she be treated like this. She wanted to ask her mother-in-law for help, hoping that her mother-in-law could persuade Li Hao to be kind to herself. So, she sent a WeChat message to her mother-in-law: "Mom, your son bullied me." She thought her mother-in-law would sympathize with her, or at least ask her what had happened. However, to her surprise, her mother-in-law replied with something that shocked her: "Don't harass me anymore, I've blocked you." ”
After Zhang Yue saw this news, he felt extremely disappointed and desperate. She felt that she had no place in this family, no respect, no warmth. She felt abandoned, forgotten. She didn't understand why her mother-in-law would say such things to her, wasn't she a member of the family? Doesn't she deserve a little attention? Could she only endure the indifference and abuse of her husband and mother-in-law? Zhang Yue felt that she was about to collapse, and she decided to leave the house.
Zhang Yue sent a screenshot of this conversation to WeChat Moments, and attached a sentence: "I can't stand it anymore, I'm leaving this house." She hopes to be supported and comforted by her friends. However, shortly after she sent out this circle of friends, she received a call. It was from Li Hao. Li Hao said: "What are you doing? How dare you post your conversation with my mom to the circle of friends? Do you know how much impact you will have on our family by doing this? Do you know how humiliating you will be for me to do this? You hurry up and delete that circle of friends, and then give me home! Zhang Yue said: "I will not delete that circle of friends, nor will I go home." I've had enough of your bullying and tormenting me. I'm going to divorce you. Li Hao said: "You dare to divorce me? Who do you think you are? What qualifications do you think you have to divorce me? You have no children, no job, no money, no house, no car, you leave me, can you still live? Can you find a better man than me? Can you still get more happiness than I do? Don't dream, you are my wife, you can only listen to me, do my thing, obey my arrangement. You give me a good thought, if you dare to divorce me, I will make you regret it for the rest of your life. Zhang Yue said, "Li Hao, don't threaten me anymore. I'm not afraid of you. I don't need you. I don't love you. I have my self-respect, my dignity, my rights. I won't let you bully me anymore. Our marriage has no meaning. We have no feelings anymore. We have no future anymore. Please respect my decision and give me freedom. Li Hao said: "Zhang Yue, don't go, don't hang up the phone, we still have a chance..." Zhang Yue said: "Goodbye." Then he hung up.
The story of Zhang Yue and Li Hao has attracted widespread attention and discussion among netizens. Many netizens expressed support for Zhang Yue's choice, believing that she is a brave and strong woman who has the right to pursue her own happiness and dignity. They criticized Li Hao and his mother as a pair of "vicious" "tumors", they do not know love and respect, they will only hurt and use. They hope that Zhang Yue can come out of the shadows as soon as possible and start a new life. Some netizens also expressed doubts about the authenticity of Zhang Yue's story, believing that she was making up the story in order to win sympathy and attention. They think that Zhang Yue's conversation screenshots and friend circle content are full of routines, all in order to create topics and popularity. They suggested that Zhang Yue should stop this behavior and stop deceiving everyone's feelings.
This matter has also attracted the attention and analysis of sociologists, psychologists, legal experts and other professionals. From different perspectives, they explored the social and psychological issues reflected in this incident. They point out that marriage has always been a sensitive and complex topic in Chinese society.