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In today's society, the concept of childbirth has undergone great changes, and more and more people choose to marry late and have children later, or even not marry and have no children. However, there are also some people who have a strong desire and attachment to childbirth, and do not hesitate to take great risks and costs to realize their dreams.
Today, we are going to tell such a story, a story of a Tsinghua doctor who did not listen to the doctor's advice and desperately gave birth to triplets, who knows that all three have problems.
1. Dr. Tsinghua's extraordinary life
Feng Yao was born in an ordinary rural family, but with her own efforts and talents, she was admitted to Tsinghua University and studied for a doctorate all the way. She has shown extraordinary scientific research ability and innovative spirit during her time in school, and has won many honors and grants such as the National Natural Science Foundation of China and the National Science Foundation for Outstanding Young Scholars.
After graduation, she stayed on to teach and published many high-level papers at home and abroad, becoming a leader in the academic field. Feng Yao is so successful in her career, but not so smooth emotionally.
She never met a suitable partner until she was 32 years old, she met a man who was also Dr. Tsinghua, and the two fell in love at first sight and soon got married. Feng Yao and her husband were very eager to have their own children, but due to age and work, they did not get pregnant right away.
They tried various methods, including Chinese medicine, Western medicine, IVF, and so on, but they were unsuccessful. They even went to the United States, Japan and other countries to seek professional help, but they did not receive results.
Second, Dr. Tsinghua's unexpected joy
Just when Feng Yao and her husband almost lost hope, an unexpected news made them ecstatic. Feng Yao found out that she was pregnant after a routine examination, and she was still triplets! This is simply great news for them, and they feel that they have finally received God's favor and reward.
They immediately told their friends and family the news and began to prepare for the arrival of their three little lives. However, while they were overjoyed, the doctor poured cold water on them.
The doctor told them that triplet pregnancy itself is a high-risk state, and because Feng Yao is 36 years old and has done many artificial insemination and other operations before, her physical condition is not suitable to continue the pregnancy.
Doctors advise them to choose to keep one or both fetuses and terminate the development of the other one or both, which can reduce the risk to the mother and baby, and also improve the survival rate and quality of the fetus.
Third, Dr. Tsinghua's persistent choice
Faced with the doctor's advice and warnings, Feng Yao and her husband did not accept it. They feel that they have gone through so many hardships and setbacks, and finally have three children, how can they be willing to give up any of them?
They believe that they have enough intelligence and ability to overcome any difficulties and dangers to provide the best environment and education for their children. They insisted on giving birth to triplets and refused any form of intervention and termination.
Although the doctors did not approve of their decision, they respected their wishes and tried their best to provide them with the best medical care and supervision. Feng Yao underwent countless examinations and treatments during her pregnancy, and also suffered countless times of pain and suffering.
She constantly prayed and looked forward to the safety of herself and her children. Her husband has also been by her side, giving her encouragement and support. They believe that their choice is the right one and that their children are lucky.
Fourth, the tragic end of Dr. Tsinghua
However, it did not go as they had hoped. When Feng Yao was 31 weeks and 1 day pregnant, she suddenly developed severe abdominal pain and bleeding and was rushed to the hospital. Upon examination, she had placental abruption and amniotic fluid embolism.
This is a very dangerous situation that can not only endanger the life of the mother, but also lead to hypoxia and death of the fetus. Doctors immediately performed a caesarean section on her and tried to save her and her three fetuses.
After the operation, although Feng Yao saved her life, she lost her uterus and needed long-term treatment and rehabilitation. All three fetuses had problems of varying degrees due to premature birth and lack of oxygen. One of the daughters died of a brain hemorrhage.
The other daughter needed surgery because of a heart deformity, and the last daughter, although not obviously abnormal, also needed to be admitted to the neonatal intensive care unit and continued to undergo various examinations and treatments.
Such a result made Feng Yao and her husband heartbroken. They have paid too much for their three children, but in exchange for too much sadness and regret. They can't help but regret their original choice and doubt their wisdom and ability.
epilogue
Feng Yao and her husband realized their fertility dreams, despite the doctor's advice and risks, insisted on giving birth to triplets, but paid a terrible price. They not only damage their own bodies and health, but also bring irreparable harm and hardship to their children.
We are not denying their choices, nor are we criticizing their attachments. We just want to say that fertility requires scientific understanding and rational judgment, reasonable planning and preparation, and sufficient responsibility and responsibility. Childbirth is not only related to one's own happiness and future, but also to the fate and life of children.
I hope that Feng Yao and her husband can come out of their grief, take good care of themselves and their children, and give their children more love and care. It is also hoped that all people who have the intention and plan to have children can listen to the doctor's opinions and suggestions and do more necessary examinations and treatments before making a fertility decision, so that they can welcome the arrival of a new life safely, healthily and happily.