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Feng Zikai said: "If you can't catch up, don't chase, don't want to don't belong to yourself, don't keep what you can't keep, life is so complicated, simple and good." ”
In 2014, the theme of the seventh season of Metamorphosis "The Call of Mother's Love" was broadcast, and a rural girl Wang Honglin appeared in the public's field of vision, and poor children in rural areas and rich children in the city switched identities and began to live.
After the program was broadcast, the rural protagonist not only became vain, high-eyed and low-handed, but also overwhelmed with abuse "vanity", "forgetting the roots", "squeamish", "did not have the princess's life but got the princess disease" and even more negative comments suddenly capsized like seawater.
Is it the program group's deliberate smearing hype or is Wang Honglin really like this?
The rustic little girl was chosen
In 2005, Wang Honglin was born in a poor mountain village, a typical rural girl, her parents divorced, her mother left home when she was three or four years old, her father also went out to work for the burden of life, only Wang Honglin and grandma were left in the family, and there was an uncle paralyzed in bed.
So grandma became the only labor force in the family, in order to take care of the uncle and help grandma, nine-year-old Wang Honglin was very sensible, helping grandma do some odd jobs, laundry and cooking, and working in the field, and she never complained.
A few years ago, the eldest uncle Wang Duoquan who went to work in the Shanxi coal mine, because he was killed in the mine, his spine was broken and he was half paralyzed in bed, and the sudden blow and physical mutilation, the wife of the uncle Wang Duoquan divorced him and remarried his younger brother, that is, Wang Honglin's father.
Several blows made the eldest uncle Wang Duoquan commit suicide many times, but they were all stopped, and a few years after giving birth to Wang Honglin, her mother still left because she disliked the poverty of the family and did not return, abandoning the family and Wang Honglin.
In his father's eyes, Wang Honglin is also a drag, so his father also went out to work and disappeared for many years.
The young Wang Honglin did not have his mother's care, his father also went out to work, the uncle Wang Duoquan took care of Wang Honglin, so since then Wang Honglin and the uncle's grandmother have relied on each other for life, the uncle taught her simple math problems, she helped the uncle do some handicraft work as best she could, the uncle and nephew had a good relationship, and she never disliked the uncle who was paralyzed in bed.
It is precisely because of the uncle and the complicated family relationship that nine-year-old Wang Honglin was selected by the metamorphosis program group and became the rural protagonist.
At this time, Wang Honglin was still an ordinary little girl who was strong and unyielding and did not know the world.
The program team found the well-behaved and shy Wang Honglin, explaining to her the outside world, the beauty and wealth of big cities, and she was full of curiosity and yearning for everything after never going out of a mountain village.
So the program group arranged a plane, and the first time to meet the city's "mom and dad" was also at the airport, and Wang Honglin went to the city to experience life with her brother Jiang Xin, who was the same age as her.
Jiang Xin is also a well-behaved and sensible child, along the way, he and Wang Honglin accompany each other and go to the "city life" that they have never seen before, which also became the beginning of Wang Honglin's life changes, losing his true self under the confusion of sugar-coated shells.
Happy city life
After the plane landed, the city "mom and dad" took the toys given to Wang Honglin and Jiang Xin, gently and enthusiastically embraced them into their arms, in order to welcome them, the city mom and dad also bought a big cake as a welcome gift, the two children were happy, maybe this is the first time they have eaten such a big cake.
At the suggestion of the city's parents, they ate and played and smeared cake on each other's faces, but after the carnival, Wang Honglin pouted, it turned out that because Jiang Xin smeared cream on Wang Honglin's new clothes while playing, her baby's new clothes were stained with cream.
The little girl's temper is bigger than the boy's, so the two children have an awkward fight, no one pays attention to anyone, the city mother Shi's mother found that the relationship between the two children is a little stiff, so she took the initiative to adjust the relationship between the two children.
Wang Honglin returned to the princess room prepared for her by Shi's mother, looking at the cute and exquisite decoration in the room, and suddenly felt that this place was much better than his previous home, and it seemed that this should be a little girl's room.
Wang Honglin said the reason why she was angry, it turned out that she was angry Jiang Xin stained her new clothes as soon as she came, making her very unhappy, so she played a little trick, at this time Jiang Xin also because of coming to a strange environment, and had an unpleasant trouble with her sister, sitting alone on the sofa silently shed tears.
Shi's mother went to inquire and learned that after Jiang Xin felt aggrieved, he remembered his grandmother who was at home alone, and he had to take medicine, worried that his grandmother would not be able to finish the farm work too tired and hard, and the homesickness made him reach the peak of his grievances.
In this way, the personalities of two people are compared, one arrogant and plays a small temper, and the other is filial and sensible.
Then the two were arranged to study in the city school and lived in the collective dormitory, because they all knew that Wang Honglin was from a far away countryside, and the classmates were worried that she was not comfortable with shyness, and the classmates came to chat with her actively and friendly, sharing snacks with her, which was particularly enthusiastic.
In the dormitory, everyone was also very curious about this classmate who came from afar, and Wang Honglin also chatted with his classmates in the dormitory all night because he had never lived in a collective dormitory, and he couldn't sleep excitedly.
In physical education class the next day, because everyone played the game of "three people and two legs" together, Jiang Xin and Wang Honglin played a group of games, but Jiang Xin may not have played it, so Wang Honglin accidentally broke his leg.
Jiang Xin quickly carried his sister to the infirmary, and because he knew that his sister was inconvenient, he took the initiative to deliver food to his sister, send her sister back to the dormitory, and help her sister wash her feet with inconvenient mobility.
Get used to city life and judge two people
But it seems that Wang Honglin gradually lost himself under the enthusiasm of his classmates and the care of his brother, taking his brother's kindness to him for granted, and her brother washed his feet with soap, and she still disliked it and did not want to use soap, as if she thought that it was used by rural talents, and learned from her classmates, and let her brother wash her feet with fragrant shower gel.
In just a few days, Wang Honglin seemed to have really become a child in the city, squeamish and picky.
Through the cause of the injury on her leg, her brother brought her food, her classmates helped her fold the quilt and comb her hair, Wang Honglin seemed to have really become a little princess, and she also enjoyed the feeling that everyone around her revolved around her.
Even the program team sighed that Wang Honglin had changed, and it was almost the same as when he first found her.
On the weekend, Wang Honglin and Jiang Xin returned to the city mother's house, Shi's mother took Wang Honglin to the mall to buy new clothes, each piece was hundreds of yuan, which was the food expenses of Wang Honglin's home for a month, but Wang Honglin did not feel bad because it was expensive, but accepted it gladly and happily, Shi's mother also took them to eat steak, which is a high-end Western food they have never heard of.
After eating, Shi's mother took them to the photo store to take photos, Wang Honglin combed a beautiful hairstyle, wore exquisite hair accessories, and put on a beautiful princess dress, at this moment, her dream of being a princess was completely ignited.
In the following days, the beautiful life here and the embrace of classmates, Shi's mother's careful treatment, Wang Honglin played in it, it seemed that he had long forgotten his former life, only Jiang Xin still worried about his grandmother who was at home alone, and often proposed to the program group that he wanted to go home and miss his grandmother.
On this day, when Wang Honglin was having fun in the amusement park, the arrival of a woman made her mood change greatly.
It turned out that in order to cater to the theme of this issue "The Call of Mother's Love", the program team invited Wang Honglin's biological mother to the show, but Wang Honglin didn't seem to buy it, seeing the strange mother in front of her, she showed great resistance, it seems that her mother is an uninvited guest.
The behavior of the program group inviting the mother is nothing more than the effect of the program, no matter how the mother in front of her softly expresses that she misses her, Wang Honglin is always unwilling to deal with her, obviously, she is full of resentment and unwillingness to meet the mother in front of her who has abandoned her since she was a child.
In order to ease the relationship between the two, the program group proposed to let Wang Honglin and his mother play in the playground together, and after a day with his mother, Wang Honglin seemed to have a less rigid relationship with his mother.
Good times are always short-lived, and soon their half-month city life will come to an end, and Wang Honglin's dream of being a princess will also end, but she shows all kinds of reluctance for the city life that will end.
The reality is brutal
Perhaps it was the beauty and delicacy of life in the city that deeply influenced Wang Honglin, and after returning home, she repeatedly asked her grandmother to go to town to buy her shower gel.
After returning to the countryside, Wang Honglin was accused by many people, and even looked at differently from the villagers, so that for a long time after going back, Wang Honglin was unwilling to go out, and even became tired of school, and even did not go to school for a long time.
She yearns for city life, but her way doesn't seem right, after experiencing city life, she does not want to open the door of the city through her own efforts and learning, but wants to contact city parents many times and wants to return to life, and without the exposure and traffic of the program group, city parents do not want to contact her anymore.
It didn't take long for City Dad to block Wang Honglin's contact information.
This urban experience life became a "tribulation" for her, she did not have the right guidance from her parents, did not have enough love and family, and the fragmentation and poverty of the family made her go further and further on the right path.
Later, in order to encourage her to study, the local government issued a subsidy of 5,000 yuan to her family, and promised to sponsor her to graduate from university, but her academic performance was very average, and she chose to drop out of school halfway, wanting to change the embarrassment of her native family by working to make money, and wanted to live her dream of urban life in this way.
But the reality is cruel, there is absolutely nothing wrong with pursuing a better, rich life, but what is wrong is that she did not use the right way, violated her original intention, and disliked her former family.
Now that Wang Honglin is an adult, he has not learned knowledge in school, and this "Metamorphosis" does not let rural children who have shouldered the heavy responsibility of life since childhood experience urban life, but let them taste the sweetness of life and return to the place where they originally lived, which is a huge blow to them.
Now she is working in a big city, hoping that she will live happily and realize her wishes, and hope that she can not forget her original intention, no matter where she is, she must live hard.
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