Now that college students have started school for more than a month, the content shared by everyone has changed from military training uniforms and military training life at the beginning to "ambulances", "medical delivery records", "difficult diseases" and so on.
College students will always send themselves to the hospital in an unexpected way, which not only hurts the student's body, but also hurts the parents' wallet, but after looking at the instructor's perspective, it turns out that the most collapsed is here.
In the face of "crispy college students" is not the most sad parents, the instructor's perspective is even more collapsed: sinful has been made
After entering the university campus, students began their own free growth path, and they have been stumbled by learning for more than a decade, and they only need to talk to their parents about what they want.
When it is cold and clothes, hungry to eat, parents are on the side to help with whatever car they should take when they go out, but after arriving at the university, students suddenly become "orphans", and there is no help from parents for food, clothing, housing and transportation.
Many students are still able to adapt to this kind of life quickly, after all, these are not difficult things, and roommates can support each other. But what students lack is the ability to deal with emergencies and emergencies, and "crispy college students" always do these unexpected things.
For example, flying down from the bed and lying on the ground did not dare to move, acne needles pierced the bones, tearing barbs to get fingers infected, natural sulking and finding that they had eight tumors, sneezing and breaking the waist, laughing and bleeding from the nose and so on.
When he was sent to the hospital, the doctors were dumbfounded, and they didn't expect to have so many strange ways to hurt themselves. A doctor said he saw more than 1,700 people in September, all of whom were college students.
Netizens also think that this college student is really "crispy", but it is also really difficult to kill. And after this round of inspection, the parents' wallets are also bleeding heavily. But the most distressing thing is actually the instructor, who lives in fear every day.
The instructors asked for leave slips, the reasons were helpless, and they ran to the emergency department every day
Students go to the hospital in three days and two heads, the psychology of the instructors is also very apprehensive, this student has just started school, in case something goes wrong in his hands, he will also have great trouble.
Therefore, most of the time, as long as you take leave to go to the hospital with the supervisor, you will generally give leave, and no one wants to bear the charge of delaying the disease. One instructor shared his experience from the beginning to the present, which is too much.
At the beginning, I watched the classmates military training very vigorous, but within a few days, there were more and more fake notes in my hand, followed by the news that I wanted to take leave every day, and the reasons were also strange, and there were also a bunch of resting classmates sitting next to me during military training.
Make yourself very helpless, let them train for fear of problems, do not let them train and a little waste this military training, did not learn anything. And at night, the mobile phone business is busier, either cold and fever, or twisted feet.
While managing the order of most of the students, the instructor also had to remind the students what medicine to take, add more clothes when it was cold, and protect themselves, which was too torturous.
The situation that causes this is not only the poor self-care ability of students, but some education methods of parents, resulting in poor self-care ability of students, such as usually too spoiled, parents also need to make changes.
Parents need to change their education methods, not spoil them too much, and let them grow up healthily
The life of students before going to college can be said to be like "emperors", food, clothing and use are the best in the family, the thoughts of the elders are also on the students, in daily life to do everything, students do not have to care about anything, just need to study well.
But this is not the right thing to do, maybe students can indeed be more focused in their studies and have more time to study, but they are much worse in terms of personal ability.
I don't know anything about life, even when I get to university, I can't even use the washing machine, I don't know what to do when the season changes, or when I encounter other situations, and my self-care ability is too poor, and it is difficult to live by myself without the help of my roommate.
This is the consequence of parents being too spoiled, although there are roommates to help after school, but people are only students, there is no obligation to help you take care of your children, students can not rely on for a lifetime, it is important to face society by themselves, let them learn to be independent is very important.
In order to let students get ahead, today's parents have arranged all aspects of students' paths, and students have lost their own free play space, and their thinking has not been well diverged.
Parents need to change their own education model, let students develop in an all-round way, give the right to freely choose the direction of development to students, do not always feel that students are easily injured, only through setbacks can they grow better, hope parents can learn to let go.
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