Life is like an unpredictable script, and we often continue to learn and grow in the flow of time.
However, some people do not realize at a young age that those seemingly distant misfortunes actually begin to brew as early as their middle age, even at the age of 35.
In this world, there are always things that we cannot control, such as the passage of time, such as the impermanence of life.
Neglecting health, the body gradually collapses
When we are young, we often neglect our health in order to fight for our careers. However, health is the cornerstone that sustains us through life. If we neglect the maintenance of the body at this stage, then as we age, the problems of the body will gradually increase.
Imagine that after the age of 35, a person begins to have various health problems.
Every morning when he wakes up, he needs medication to control his blood pressure, blood sugar and heart rate. Slowly, his quality of life deteriorated and his once-energetic body gradually became exhausted.
Due to physical ailments, he was unable to enjoy the happiness of family, friendship and love in his later years.
When we are young, we always think that our bodies are invincible and can be squandered at will. However, when people reach middle age, various diseases of the body begin to gradually appear.
If you do not pay attention to health and ignore the warning signs of the body, then in old age, the body will completely collapse.
Neglecting our health can make us suffer more in old age.
Therefore, from a young age, you may wish to focus on exercise and maintain a good lifestyle.
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There is no time to take care of the family, and the family relationship is estranged
The age of 35 is an important juncture, and we are beginning to enter the stage of being old and young. At this stage, we need to take responsibility for the family and care for the needs and feelings of the family.
But in reality, many people tend to overlook the importance of family because of their busy work. Over time, our connection with our families diminishes and our affection becomes more and more distant.
However, family is the most important support system in our lives. In our later years, what we need most is often the companionship and love of our families.
If we do not run the family well at the age of 30, then people are likely to fall into loneliness and helplessness in their old age.
Therefore, when we strive for our career, we must not forget to look back at our loved ones.
From the age of 35, he began to balance the relationship between work and family, spend more time with his family, and enhance family affection. In this way, when we are old, we can enjoy the warmth and happiness of the family.
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Pursuing a career too much and losing the meaning of life
In the eyes of many middle-aged people, career is the focus of life, and everything can be sacrificed for the sake of career.
However, the excessive pursuit of career success often makes us far from the essence of life and lose the true meaning of life. When we are fighting for our careers, it is easy to get lost in the world of material desires and forget our inner needs and true values.
When you enter your old age, you will find that the excessive pursuit of the past has not brought the expected satisfaction and happiness. On the contrary, there will be feelings of emptiness and loss.
Surrounded by money and material, the spiritual home has been deserted.
Starting at the age of 35, we should examine our lives and not let our careers become the whole of life. We must learn to pay attention to our hobbies and pursue the satisfaction of the spiritual world.
In addition to busy work, cultivating some personal hobbies or participating in some activities can enrich our lives.
At the same time, we must also learn to enjoy the small luck of life and make our life more flavorful.
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Friends drifted away, and loneliness flooded into my heart
In real life, friends are the sustenance of our hearts and important partners on our life path.
However, as we get older, our circle of friends also changes.
After the age of 35, due to the increased pressure of work and life, we may not have enough time and energy to maintain relationships with friends. Over time, the connection between friends becomes estranged and loneliness develops.
In life's journey, friends are our precious assets. In a busy life, don't forget to keep in touch with friends and share the joys and sorrows of life.
Alienating our friends can lead us to feel lonely in our later years. Therefore, from the age of 35, we must cherish the friends who remain with us after the big waves.
In this way, when we are old, we can have the warmth and support that comes from friendship.
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Life is like a long-distance race, and the track of the first half of life determines the journey of the second half of life.
If we don't get our way right from the age of 35 and neglect our health, family, career, and friendship needs, then the unfortunate fate of our old age may befall us.
Many unfortunate seeds in life have been quietly planted in youth, and then bear bitter fruits in old age.
35 years old is a key turning point, we may wish to examine our own life path and heart, and do not let the shadow of unhappiness in our old age hang over our hearts.
From now on, please cherish every day and feel the beauty of life with your heart.
Author: Brother Claw; Source: Horse Grabber.