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"Son go, let's go"
In the depths of the ocean, the father tied heavy pieces of iron to his son and his feet, and with a "son, let's go", the father and son sank to the bottom of the sea without hesitation.
"Why kill your son?"
"Because there is no point in living anymore"
The son suffers from autism, lives completely in his own closed world, cannot live independently, and has been dependent on father and son since he was a child.
However, when his son was 21 years old, his father was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, so instead of letting his son suffer in this world, it was better to leave with him.
That's why the two were tied with iron, so that nothing was lost, this is the story of the movie "Ocean Paradise".
It is said that art comes from life, but real life is far more cruel than movies.
On October 13, a man in Jinan, Shandong, jumped from a 40-meter high bridge without hesitation after tying his feet.
The same self-bound feet, the same mortal heart, so what has he experienced?
When the man's father went to claim the body, countless netizens burst into tears.
What is it that allows the elderly to send black-haired people to white-haired people? In addition to being heavy and helpless, what kind of thinking does it bring us?
At about 19 o'clock on October 13, on a bustling highway in Jinan, Shandong, a silver car with a double flash stopped by the bridge, and the subsequent vehicles thought that the man's vehicle had failed, so they all detoured.
However, the subsequent development surprised everyone.
I saw him get out of the car, firmly bind the rope in his hand to his feet, and then turn around and jump off the 40-meter high bridge.
"If it is not desperate, who will go to the end?"
The man jumped so decisively, which also caused regret among countless netizens.
Some people wonder: bind your feet, what can't you think about?
Some people grieve: the double flashing lamp is the last kindness and nostalgia he left to the world, it takes a moment of courage to leave, but it takes a lifetime of courage to live.
Some people also feel that we do not persuade others to be good without suffering others, we do not know what they have experienced, and we have no right to interfere.
After the incident, the owner of the passing car called the police and rescue calls, but he jumped off with his feet tied, apparently leaving no way for himself, so when rescuers found him, he had already lost signs of life.
In the face of such a tragedy, the rescue team leader also deeply regretted it, and posted: "Brother, we will definitely take you home."
In order to make the victims walk more dignified, the rescue team specially found a cloth to cover it.
After salvaging the body, the relevant departments also contacted his father, the gray-haired old father, watching the rescuers carry his son little by little, and at the moment when he lifted the cloth and saw his son lose his breath, the old father instantly collapsed, collapsed and cried.
Sending a white-haired person to a black-haired person is perhaps the cruelest thing in this world.
So what exactly happened to the victims? Why is it so rejected.
Just after the incident, the victim's suicide note and video were also found in the car, in which the victim described why he did so.
1. The victim's surname is Zhang, 33 years old this year, and he explained at the beginning of the video when and where he wanted to be from J.
2. Zhang is an employee of a company in Lixia District, Jinan, but in 2019 suffered a series of blows such as divorce and unemployment.
3. After the divorce, the children followed his ex-wife, and Zhang had to pay 3,000 yuan a month for child support, losing his wife and children, which made him often depressed.
4. Due to some special reasons, he also lost his job, borrowed money from relatives and friends, and could not pay it back, and eventually owed a lot of bank loans and credit card bills, and had to repay nearly 10,000 yuan in interest every month.
Under the dual pressure of emotions and finances, the 33-year-old gradually became depressed and autistic, but he has always endured these silently, and has never revealed to relatives and friends that he wants to kill himself.
It can be seen that if a person really has this idea, he will not say it easily.
At the end of the suicide note, Zhang expressed his guilt and regret for his family, and said that he had nothing but this car.
In addition, according to insiders, if it were not for a fraudulent APP called "Yongbeida Investment", Zhang may not have nowhere to go.
This app uses lies such as "stored value consumption" and "consumption rebates" to make users feel that they have picked up a bargain, so they invest all their hard-earned money.
However, when you want to withdraw money, you find that you are empty-handed.
I thought that I could turn over by investment and financial management, but I didn't expect to lose a lot.
It was not the last straw that crushed the camel, but every straw, and when these straws were pressed on the camel, he could not withstand it.
However, these are all revelations from insiders, the authenticity remains to be studied, and everyone still has to look at it rationally.
Zhang's departure also made Dousha think of another young life that had died.
On September 19, a 30-year-old woman in Chengdu disappeared on her way to Xindu District.
According to the surveillance, she took a taxi from Kabri City to get off at the faint island, and disappeared into the surveillance after arriving near the Fuhe River in Pidu District.
It was a demolition area, and there were many monitoring blind spots, and since then there has been no contact.
However, at about 22 o'clock that day, she transferred more than 14,000 yuan to her father, but her father did not accept it, and she also said that if she went home during the Mid-Autumn Festival, she would call home in advance.
According to his cousin's account, her cousin's behavior was very abnormal, first moving all her luggage home, and then transferring so much money when the salary was not high, so after she could not contact her cousin, she called the police as soon as possible.
The police did not find her check-in record at the hotel where she was staying, and the mobile phone location showed that she last appeared in Anjing Street, Fu Province, Pidu District, and has not been seen since.
It was not until 17 days later that his body was recovered from the river, the family had completed DNA matching, and the local police had ruled out a criminal case and was currently under further investigation.
As for the cause of the death, the family did not disclose.
Whether it is Zhang or this woman, they are in their thirties, and watching such a young life pass by in a flash, which also makes many netizens feel the same way.
The netizen in Zhejiang said: He is a single father of 99 years, collecting waste for 16 hours a day and walking about 2,000 steps a day, but he still gritted his teeth and insisted on working.
The mother of Shandong said: 15 years of her father's death of cancer, 17 years of brother died of a car accident, 23 years of husband heart attack death, obviously she is still very young, but her relatives are no longer there, if not for the child is still by her side, it is possible that she will also do something stupid.
The Guangxi netizen also cried that it has been too difficult in recent years, and there has always been a bad voice in his head, but he has been trying to restrain himself.
Yu Hua wrote in his novel "Alive": "If your world is free of painful fear, without fear of dignity, without rich and poor, without the alternation of warmth and cold.
Without the trouble of appearance, without the difference between men and women, without you and me, without life and death concerns, you will be closer and closer to "real life".
We live in the world, there will always be many setbacks, some people are not in good health, some people owe a lot of money, some people are deceived one after another, but no matter what happens, there will be a solution.
If you have a disease, then go for active treatment, there are Chinese medicine and Western medicine; If there is arrears, do your best to pay the money, if you can pay back a piece is a piece, if you can pay back a hundred is a hundred.
People live in the world, don't always look at what they don't have, you must look at what you have, if you eat, drink, work, and be healthy, then you are already happier than most people in this world.
After all, we still live in a stable environment, no matter what, there is a solution, don't think about it, think about the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, think about your family and friends, think about the beautiful scenery of food.
If there is a worry, there is hope, and if there is hope, you can live a better life little by little.
When you feel that life is meaningless, you may wish to look at those people in war, they do not even have the choice to live, it is very likely that they have just fallen asleep, but the next second the bomb will explode on the head, it is very likely that they have just given birth to a child, but before they can see the child, they have passed away.
Perhaps this is the "Initially we came to this world because we had to come, and eventually we left this world because we had to go".
At this time, looking back at the movie "Ocean Paradise", you may have a deeper understanding.
A father with cancer and three or four months to go, with an autistic child who can't take care of himself and doesn't understand anything, what choice does there have?
But the reality is precisely that after the father and son sank into the sea, it was the son who found that something was wrong, and then untied the iron on the feet of the father and son, and the son saved them and allowed the father to find new hope.
In order to keep his son alive, his father taught him how to work in the aquarium, taught him to take the bus and clean the floor in the petrel.
In order not to make his son feel lonely, the father dragged his seriously ill body, carried a homemade turtle shell and dressed as a turtle, swimming with his son, and he told his son to turn into a turtle and always be by his side.
In the end, the father left with peace of mind, and the son lay on the turtle's body, relieved and happy.
This is the story of "Ocean Paradise", but also the story of the meaning of life, everyone's life is meaningful, we only come to this world once, so please be sure to enjoy and love yourself.
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