Seven years after Lin Huiyin's death, 61-year-old Liang Sicheng decided to remarry and marry a woman 27 years younger than him, but was ridiculed by a group of relatives and friends. What kind of person is this woman? Can their unblessed marriage be happy and long-lasting? This article will reveal the truth of this story. In 1962, 34-year-old Lin Su successfully married Liang Sicheng, who was 61 years old at the time. Their union not only made Lin Su decide to divorce despite her ex-husband Cheng Yingzhuo's obstruction and suicide threats; It also allowed Liang Sicheng to face the opposition of his children, the resolution of his best friend Zhang Xiruo, and the scolding of writer Shen Congwen.
The age gap between them is 27 years, and in the face of society's stereotype that old husbands and young wives cannot grow old, they have proved their happiness with love. (Lin Su's love-hate entanglement with Lin Huiyin, her ex-husband Cheng Yingshuo, and Liang Sicheng, please see below) However, Liang Sicheng's desire to marry a woman 27 years younger than him was ridiculed by a group of relatives and friends. People question such an unblessed marriage, fearing whether it will be happy for a long time. Marriage is as cold and warm as people drinking water. In less than two years, they had a marital crisis.
In 1963, Lin Su was investigated for allegedly misappropriating public funds, and the "double-reverse" storm swept the country. Liang Sicheng said that if the results of the investigation are true, "we are finished." Although his words were light and breezy, they revealed his attitude towards Lin Su: But that's all. In private, his dissatisfaction with Lin Su is even more ubiquitous. Although Liang Sicheng married Lin Su, his family all revealed Lin Huiyin's shadow. Lin Huiyin's mother lived with them, always dangling in front of Lin Su's eyes.
Lin Su, who had become a housewife, began to slowly eliminate the traces of Lin Huiyin, and even boldly removed the portrait of Lin Huiyin painted by Xu Beihong on the wall of the living room. Her scheming towards Liang Sicheng was recognized by Liang's son Liang Zaibing, who left angrily after throwing her a slap. Although Liang Sicheng is not satisfied with Lin Su, Lin Su still likes to declare that their marriage is harmonious and happy, and he is increasingly dependent on him. However, reality gave her a blow. Lin Su has to take care of Lin Huiyin's mother every day, and everything is detailed.
She tried her best to take care of it, but she could not satisfy Liang Sicheng, and he also had to personally record his mother's physical indicators and mental state. However, Lin-so's own mother lived a difficult life with her two children, rented a narrow alley, did not receive Liang Sicheng's care, and was only allowed to come to Liang's house every week to take a hot bath. Liang Sicheng did not like Lin Su's two children, especially Lin Su's son Lin Zhe. Once, Lin Zhe accidentally drank Liang Sicheng's water, and Liang Sicheng was furious. His attitude makes people wonder if he really cares about Lim Su's feelings.
In the past, Liang Sicheng always cared about Lin Huiyin's feelings, and even took care of her fans. However, when yelling "I've had enough of you" to Lin Zhe, he didn't seem to take into account Lin Su's feelings. Of Lin-so's two children, Liang Sicheng did not take on the responsibilities of a stepfather and allowed them to grow. In a family that focuses on education and majors, Liang Sicheng's advice to Lin Zhe is to go to the countryside to work. He explained: "Although I should help Lin Zhe to correct, my physical strength and energy are really not enough. His dissatisfaction with Lim so and his indifference to her children are puzzling.
After Lin Huiyin's death, Lin Su tried hard to endure the marriage. She herself rated herself as a person who was not cowardly, but just able to endure. However, she did not receive the warmth and dignity she wanted, nor did she receive the support of her parents and children. Widowed for nearly 50 years, she has lived a humble life. Although she was given the title of "First Lady of Chinese Architecture", she did not receive favorable material conditions. During Liang Sicheng's serious illness until his death, Lin Su took good care of him.
She supported the whole family with her salary of 62 yuan, and worked hard every day, paying special attention to ensuring Liang Sicheng's mother's diet. Before Liang Sicheng died, he said a touching sentence: "All these years, thanks to Lin Su!" However, this sentence is only touching, but it cannot solve Lin Su's actual dilemma. After Liang Sicheng's death, Lin Su did not receive any planning and arrangement from him. He hadn't thought about planning for her. From Liang Sicheng's illness to his death, he spent more than 1,000 days and nights in his hospital bed.
During this time, as long as he has the heart, he can make arrangements for Lin Su and her family. However, he didn't think about it and didn't leave her anything. They have only residency and no ownership in the house at No. 8 Shinbayashiin. In the late Cultural Revolution, Lin Su was even evicted from the house. Years later, she applied for a small house as a Tsinghua teacher. Some people say that Lin Su loves vanity, she just provides free nanny for others, which she deserves. When Liang Sicheng died, Lin Su was only 44 years old, and she had been widowed for nearly 50 years.
She lived a humble life, and apart from the title of "First Lady of Chinese Architecture", she did not receive material treatment. In his later years, Lin Su was asked in an interview with the media: "What do you think you have gained from your 10-year marriage to Liang Sicheng?" She was silent for a long time, and then said, "She gave me pleasure!" "Happiness is priceless, but it doesn't solve her life's woes. Lin Su arouses people's sympathy because of Liang Sicheng's indifference to her and the pain of marriage.
She took care of Liang Sicheng for many years before his death, and continued to take care of Lin Huiyin's mother, Mrs. He, until her death. People began to gradually whitewash her. However, in 2004, on the occasion of the 100th anniversary of Lin Huiyin's birth, Lin Su published the book "Liang Sicheng, Lin Huiyin and I", which appeared in various interview programs. She stood from the perspective of a stepwife who felt sorry for her husband, and intentionally or unconsciously distorted many facts. These distorted facts have become evidence that Lin Huiyin was exposed to "green tea" on the Internet. In Lin Su's book, people can only see the shadow of Lin Huiyin's little woman.
She defined Lin Huiyin as a woman who loves beauty and has a long desire for feelings, completely covering up Lin Huiyin's achievements as an architect and scholar. Lin Su also selectively published some love letters written to her by Liang Sicheng, giving people the illusion that Liang Sicheng loves her more than Lin Huiyin. She also published many books related to Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng, and tied her name to Liang Sicheng. What is even more surprising is that she actually went to auction Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin's academic manuscripts, collections and other items. She didn't leave anything with warmth and memory, but chose to sell it.
These behaviors made people suspicious and disgusted with her. Although Lin Su is a long-lived old lady, our attitude towards her should be more sympathetic and our evaluation should be more tolerant. However, the evaluation of a person is not only about character, but also about age. When referring to the wife of master architect Liang Sicheng, we can still only think of Lin Huiyin alone. Although Lim Su tries to prove her existence by publishing books and appearing on TV shows, everyone still thinks that she is a jumping clown, just for hype and profit.
To sum up, 7 years after Lin Huiyin's death, Liang Sicheng married a woman 27 years younger than him, which caused ridicule from the group of relatives and friends. Their marriage has experienced many difficulties and pains, but Lim Su has been silently patient. However, she did not get the dignity and happiness she wanted. She endured a lot, but received little in return. Her actions and remarks are questionable and disgusting. People have mixed opinions about her, depending on what people know and think about her. However, life is complex and tortuous, and we should treat the people and things around us with compassion.
For Lim Su, she may be a misunderstood person or a person who pursues her own interests. In any case, we should view her choices and actions with tolerance and understanding. Finally, I would like to ask readers a question: what do you think of the character of Lim Su? Is she a good woman or a bad woman? Why? The story of Lim Su and Liang Sicheng: The arduous journey of a widowed woman Lin Su's story is a forgotten character whose existence is rarely mentioned. The CCTV documentary "Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin" also did not mention her contribution.
So, Lin Sugao married Liang Sicheng for 10 years, for most of her widowhood, what did she get? This article will shed light on Lim's unique experience and explore her role in this marriage. In China in the 2020s, Lin Su was a dynamic and ambitious woman. She and Liang Sicheng met at Tsinghua University, and the two soon fell in love. However, Lin-so's family is not optimistic about this marriage, believing that Liang Sicheng is not a promising person. Despite this, Lim so chose to marry him. Life after marriage is not as rosy as Lim Su expected.
Liang Sicheng devoted himself to academic research and spent almost all his time on work. At the same time, Lin Huiyin's talent quickly rose to prominence in the architectural world and became a high-profile figure. This makes Lim Su feel that his existence is ignored and marginalized. However, Lim Su did not give up his pursuit. She became actively involved in society, voicing her opinions, and striving to contribute to the academic community. Although she has not been widely recognized like Lin Huiyin, her efforts and talents cannot be ignored. However, the marriage did not last long.
Liang Sicheng died of illness, leaving Lin Su and two children. In those days, the life of a widow was not easy. Lim Su faces financial pressure and social skepticism. She did not choose to rely on others, but relied on her own efforts to raise her children and make ends meet. Lim Su's strength and courage are admirable. Instead of wallowing in grief and loss, she actively faced life's challenges. She not only continues to engage in academic work, but also actively participates in social welfare undertakings. She leads women's groups to fight for women's rights and has made important contributions to the field of education.
However, despite Lim Su's important role in marriage and contribution to her family and society, her presence is often overlooked. People are more willing to talk about the achievements of Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin, but rarely mention Lin's contributions. This begs the question: Why is Lim's contribution overlooked? Maybe it's because she hasn't achieved as much in her field as Lin Huiyin, or maybe it's because her name isn't widely known. But in any case, we cannot ignore her efforts for her family and society.
Lim Su's story teaches us that everyone has their own value and contribution. Even if our efforts are not widely recognized, we cannot ignore the efforts and efforts we have made. Everyone should be treated equally, regardless of the size of their contribution. In short, Lim Su is a widowed woman who plays an important role in marriage and contributes to her family and society. Although her existence is often overlooked, her story still deserves our attention and consideration.
We should value everyone's efforts and contributions so that they are treated with the respect and recognition they deserve. Finally, I would like to ask readers a question: how do you think we should view those who give quietly behind their backs? Should their contributions receive more attention and recognition? Please share your views and thoughts in the comments.