For many people, getting married is a big event in life. At the wedding, the bride and groom greet their relatives and friends, and also show their respect to each other's families. However, a recent news caused heated discussions among netizens: the bride changed her name to mother-in-law at the wedding instead of mother-in-law!
Behind this news, it reflects the contradictions and power balances in some families. Some people believe that the mother-in-law's "bigger the pattern, the worse the bullying", which is a very real problem.
In the traditional concept, daughters-in-law should respect their mother-in-law and call her "mother", which is a way of showing filial piety and respect. However, with the changes in society and the change of people's concepts, some people have begun to reflect on whether this traditional concept is adapted to the needs of modern society.
Especially in some families, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is complicated, and there are even contradictions and conflicts. In this case, if the bride changes her name to mother-in-law and not mother, it may be influenced by some external factors, or it may be because of her own choices and ideas.
Whatever the reason, this phenomenon has provoked people to think and discuss. Some see this as a manifestation of iconoclasm and a sign of respect for individual choices. However, there are also those who believe that this is a manifestation of disrespect for elders and family traditions, which may cause family conflicts and disharmony.
On this issue, we should not simply judge by right and wrong. Every family and each person's situation is different, and we should understand and respect their choices and ideas. At the same time, we should also reflect on the influence and constraints of family relations and social environment on people, and strive to create a more harmonious and healthy family and social environment.
Getting married is a turning point in life and an important moment for the family. At this moment, we should work together to create a harmonious and beautiful family and society with respect, understanding and tolerance.