Now children have more and more opportunities to contact the Internet, all kinds of "edge" small videos, love film and television drama clips always appear in the child's sight, coupled with the change of diet structure also makes the child's physiological development earlier, I have to admit that the age of children's contact with "sex" has been greatly advanced!
And are we, as parents, fully prepared to deal with the troubles of our children's growth?
Sex education is not only the education of physiological knowledge, but also the education of psychological knowledge, but also related to the education of children's personality growth, this "Be a parent who is not embarrassed" uses 150 cases to let us really understand our children and "good sex education", help us say goodbye to the dilemma of disdain, do not understand, and will not teach!
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"Be a parent without embarrassment"
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Attaching importance to sex education and doing a good job in sex education is no longer a new idea and fashionable, it has long been included in the basic education system by the State Council, and has long been written into the Law on the Protection of Minors.
When some children have been able to calmly face the changes in body and lust, while others still regard ignorance as purity, vulgarity as humor, and growth as shame. Obviously, calm children will inevitably face the environment and self more confidently when they grow up, feel emotions more rationally, and naturally focus more on their studies and life.
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Empowering sex education
There is a saying: "Parents are a child's first teacher." "It means that the influence of parents on their children is huge.
Similarly, parents are also children's first sex education teachers.
Even if parents never talk to their children about sex, they are still engaged in sex education. Because the practice of parents' own intimate relationship is sex education, the interaction between parents, the values and behavior principles of any party, are teaching children by word and deed, and are subtly affecting children. For example, whether there is violence between parents, whether they are close enough, whether the father is involved in caring for the child, and so on. In the face of children's sex-related questions, even if parents do not answer, they are carrying out sex education, but it is just wrong sex education, making children feel that sex is mysterious, shameful, and unspeakable, or many parents simply tell their children: this can be done, that can not be done. In this way, "discipline" is used instead of "education", even if the child obeys, he does not necessarily understand, he has no opportunity to learn, think, and therefore has no opportunity to grow. You know, real education is not about imposing on the educated what the educator thinks is right, but about promoting the growth of the educated. "Empowering sex education" has emerged, we no longer simply tell children what is "right" and what is "wrong", but guide the educated to think: what is behind a behavioral choice, what benefits or risks do it bring me? How can I avoid risks? What should I do if I can't avoid it?
This is the process of increasing the capacity of the educated, this is the real education. The best parents must be learning parents, and we all need to learn if we want to be good children's first sex education teachers. Only when parents become "quasi-professionals" in sex education can they communicate best with their children and deal with their children's sex education-related issues.
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A real cry from 20,000 Chinese families
The cases in the book are all true to the reality of Chinese families, from kindergarten at the age of 3 to leaving home for college at the age of 18, covering every stage of a child's growth, from the germination of sexual consciousness to the physiological development of adolescence. The selected cases are mainly common and common, and are some of the things that parents and children will experience.
The budding stage of sexual consciousness is the key node to build a child's gender consciousness throughout his life, and parents can only help children establish their own scientific values with scientific guidance and hands-on teaching. Not to mention the adolescent stage, when rebellion, growth, desire, change, and academics are intertwined, parents are walking on thin ice, and only the right methods can really help their children. These will be presented in the form of real family sex education cases, and Dr. Fang Gang will answer them one by one and guide the solution.
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150 personality education key points, difficult problem cases and professional analysis and suggestions
Dr. Fang Gang's 30 years of experience and methods condensed in sex education training, 150 real cases, 150 professional analysis, 150*N scientific suggestions, each of which speaks to parents' hearts, not only solves parents' confusion, but also can really help children.
What are the key difficulties in sex education in the book? For example, this hot issue that has been discussed by the whole network:
Is it okay for a mother to take her son into the women's bathroom?
There will be such a case section in the book, usually the content of parents' consultation. Although it is a matter for each family, the problem is not an isolated case, and the selected cases are highly universal, belonging to the high-frequency problems under Dr. Fang Gang's 30-year training big data.
Each case will have Dr. Fang Gang's reply analysis, usually a point of a puzzle nature, to clarify the crux behind the problem, and there will also be a brief comment on such phenomena in the family and society.
Each case will give a number of suggestions, analyze the psychology from the perspective of each party in the incident, and deal with it comprehensively.
The content of the proposal is objective and rigorous, and the analysis is a major feature of Dr. Fang Gang's writing, which can be taken into account from every angle. Like in this case, the parents' feelings, children's feelings, and the feelings of other women in the bathroom are interpreted separately, and then analyzed from the perspective of sex and gender, including heterosexual space, bathing, privacy, public places and other issues are very common in sex education.
The best education must be prevention education, you can also become an excellent "first sex education teacher" for children, it is better to start with this book!
Brave ReaderのReading Tips
The main directions of this set of books:
Improve knowledge of sex education
Guide adolescents to correctly cope with physical and mental changes
Take care of your child's mental health
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