In the traditional proverb, it is often said that "in heaven it is a bird with wings, and in the earth, it is a branch." Every couple longs for constant companionship, and no one expects long-term separation. However, life sometimes does not go according to plan, especially with regard to long-term long-distance separations, which has become a reality for many couples. So, what do women think about this situation? Let's hear the answers of the three women.
Ms. Hu, 32, said that her family was ordinary, and her husband went out to work after marriage, resulting in a long-term separation between the couple. This situation made her feel tired and distressed, and every day she had to take care not only of life, but also of the elderly and children. Her children are still young and mischievous, and the elderly are in poor health and need her care. Every day from morning to night, she has almost no rest time, only slightly relieved when she falls asleep at night. She understands that her husband has no easy time working outside the home, but she also has a hard time at home. She once complained to her husband, but the other party thought she was too pretentious and felt that she was vexatious. She just wanted to get care by calling her husband, but found the other party incomprehensible, which made her feel even more sad, not knowing when this painful day would end.
Ms. Yang, 41 years old, originally had a happy family, and the relationship between the husband and wife has always been good, but a cheating behavior by her husband changed everything. Although Ms. Yang chose to forgive her husband in order to save the family, there was always a rift between the husband and wife. In order to prevent her husband from coming into contact with the woman again, Ms. Yang asked her husband to work outside the home for a long time. Although this decision may seem ideal, the reality is not satisfactory. Although the husband broke off contact with the woman in the family, he heard that he was involved with another woman in the field. Ms. Yang was already depressed, and her relationship with her father-in-law was also average, especially when her father-in-law did not interfere with her son, but thought that her son had skills. This attitude made Ms. Yang very angry. Despite her dissatisfaction with her in-laws' practices, Ms. Yang did not want to give up her marriage easily. She was reluctant to let her efforts become the wedding dress of other women. Now, her husband's close relationship with her parents-in-law has made Ms. Yang feel that her marriage is full of problems, and she has lost her sense of security.
Ms. Fang, 53 years old, has been married to her husband for many years, and the relationship between the husband and wife has always been very good. However, she has not been able to see her husband for nearly a year, and her longing is almost sick. The reason was that Ms. Fang's husband had to travel elsewhere due to work needs. Although Ms. Fang was reluctant about this, she had to let her husband go out to work. Every night, the two share each other's lives through video calls, although it is a kind of watch, but the distance between the screens still makes Ms. Fang's heart ache. She tried several times to persuade her husband to communicate with his boss and try to get a closer job. She even considered going to the city where her husband worked so that the two could spend a lot of time together and continue their two-person world. Some people choose to be away from home and their loved ones because of their work or dreams, and despite their reluctance, life is often inautonomous. However, distance often leads to gaps and problems. If conditions permit, it is best for the two to still be able to get together, because sincere feelings are priceless.