The eldest daughter of male star Zheng Shaoqiu, Zheng Anyi, is an unknown "second generation of stars".
Recently, at the age of 55, she committed suicide.
She is unmarried and has no children. Only in a foreign land, there is a group of spiritual brothers and sisters, who pursue it together on weekdays.
After she committed suicide, people could not contact her immediate family and had to call online.
Zheng Anyi is the illegitimate daughter born when Zheng Shaoqiu was not famous.
When Zheng Shaoqiu was studying for an actor training class, he met Lu Huiru, and the two had a baby out of wedlock, and then broke up.
For many years, Zheng Shaoqiu had nothing to do with the mother and daughter except for tuition. He once laughed at himself: If you meet on the street, you don't know whether you recognize it or not.
Zheng Anyi has always lived very unhappily.
The mother-daughter relationship is strange, coupled with her deep love triangle, she is very depressed, and chose to commit suicide on September 30.
Netizens were angry, saying that Zheng Shaoqiu lost his wife and daughter, and Zheng Shaoqiu, who is now over 70 years old, is still active in the entertainment industry.
The reporter captured his life, handsome as below, not at all like an old man.
This is the scene of his 74-year-old concert.
He was bald in middle age and his hair was fake.
But the figure and dancing posture are practiced hard.
Yayi likes, he plays Chu Liuxiang.
Even Jin Yong gave an inscription to Zheng Shaoqiu and said: "Screen warrior, sassy and heroic, Jialuo Wuji, into people's dreams." ”
Yayi felt that Zheng Shaoqiu was not bad.
He is willing to pay the high tuition fees of his illegitimate daughter in the United States, he is willing to compensate his ex-wife (but people don't want it), and he attends every major occasion of Zheng Xinyi's growth. He supplied more than a dozen younger brothers and sisters of the extended family, and he helped others in need.
However, the woman who had an intimate relationship with him when he was young was so miserable.
The eldest daughter Zheng Anyi committed suicide, and he and his fat daughter Zheng Xinyi were also plagued by depression.
Now, there is no point in condemning Zheng Shaoqiu, let's talk about the lessons that ordinary people can learn from it.
Revelation one
Can help the husband succeed
But don't help your boyfriend succeed
Before marriage, keep your body like jade, let men give more
The umbrella of marriage is very important.
Importance is not only in the material, legal and economic aspects. More importantly, on an invisible level.
Yayi knew several sisters whose mother was pregnant before marriage.
Compared to their younger siblings, they have a hard time. From an early age, they were attacked, sick, and emotionally unstable. In middle age, he is plagued by depression, suicidal thoughts, and gynecological diseases.
If you are an illegitimate child, or a child whose parents became pregnant out of wedlock, you need to do deep spiritual healing to close this hole by repenting and repenting in place of your parents.
Before marriage, the girl carries a shelf, guards her body like a jade, does not give excessively, establishes a dignified and precious image in her husband's heart, and puts two people in an equal position.
Many girls don't know what equality is?
Equality, is that you can say no at any time.
When he touches you, you can say no. When he doesn't give you marriage and just wants to be ambiguous, you break up decisively, and that's equality.
I have advised little sisters many times that if you are in a relationship and feel unequal to both parties, you should consider breaking up.
The marriage between Zheng Shaoqiu and Shen Dianxia is a tragedy derived from unequal love.
The famous host Shen Dianxia, stage name Feifei, she takes care of Zheng Shaoqiu in life and helps in his career, and does not hesitate to use her connections to find resources for Zheng Shaoqiu.
Living together for 11 years, Zheng Shaoqiu has been rumoring, and she just takes Zheng Shaoqiu closely.
But in every case, something still happened.
Once, Shen Dianxia only left for three days, and Zheng Shaoqiu and Guan Jinghua, who was 17 years younger than him, got together.
Faced with Shen Dianxia's questioning, Zheng Shaoqiu agreed to break off contact with Guan Jinghua, and was willing to marry Shen Dianxia.
Marriage, is it compensation for cheating?
But if the fat brain can be carried clearly, it should not be agreed.
The wedding was so hasty that she didn't even have time to buy a wedding dress, which became a regret in Shen Dianxia's life.
After marriage, Zheng Shaoqiu gave Shen Dianxia, who was in her forties, an ultimatum to "give birth in three years", and said unashamedly: "If you can't give birth, don't blame me."
How unequal, Shen Dianxia endured.
When she was eight months pregnant, Zheng Shaoqiu and Guan Jinghua rekindled their old relationship. In the end, Shen Dianxia quickly divorced after giving birth, and since then she has never been close to a man again, living alone with her daughter Zheng Xinyi.
The following year, Zheng Shaoqiu couldn't wait to hold a wedding with Guan Jinghua and gave birth to two daughters.
In this life, he had four daughters.
There was no son he most hoped for.
Revelation two
Choosing a mate is an important topic in a woman's life
Look before you leap
It's not about finding a couple for yourself or a father for your children
There is nothing wrong with love, and there is nothing wrong with heavy feelings and weak materiality, but you must not fall in love, you can't listen to the advice of the reasonable people around you, and you have become a love brain who does not marry.
Shen Dianxia could not escape a word of "love", was bruised all over her body by scum, suffered from cancer, and died early. Her daughter, now in severe depression, struggles with suicidal thoughts.
Zheng Shaoqiu is not a big bad person.
But he killed three women, and there were three women (Guan Jinghua's mother and daughter) beside him.
Netizens are discussing: How terrible is it to stall a man who is not responsible?
Whoever is involved with him loses half his life if he does not die.
Every time Yayi said: "The bride price should be wanted", "Long-distance relationship allows brothers to move closer to sisters", "When in love, the man should pay more", "When falling in love, you must have the courage to break up"...
People ask me - do you have love? Did you teach unmarried girls to love?
Yayi teaches unmarried girls, knows people? Pick someone?
It's an anti-villain, not a anti-gentleman.
If your parents belong to the elders and the male elders, and everyone is sure that he is a gentleman, with good character, good faith, good career, and a better future, then of course you can marry naked.
The problem is, in most cases, you can't see clearly, and neither can your elders – that's why you need to talk about marriage.
This process is a selection process of testing, probing, investigating, finding out the other party's family views, and even breaking up, re-finding a partner, and testing the investigation again.
See his father and grandfather.
For example, Zheng Shaoqiu's native family is very complicated.
His biological father's surname is Huang, and Zheng Shaoqiu, as the eldest son, has more than a dozen younger siblings to take care of. Zheng Shaoqiu's father is a university teacher with a successful career, and he can't handle complicated family conflicts.
Girls need to understand: Why choose? Have the courage to break up if it is not suitable? Because marriage is not about educating men and reforming men, but trying to avoid risks.
If the boyfriend's parents and grandparents are all men who mess with flowers and start several families. The risk is high.
Good door style, family style, too important.
When talking about marriage, there are 3 questions that the two families should clearly understand.
1. How to manage the income of two people after marriage?
2. If there are children, who will bring them? If the wife brings it, who pays the wife's salary? If the elderly bring it, who will give the elderly subsidy?
3. How does the man's family express its welcome to the girl? Respect? Courtesy? Solidify it into a certain wealth and ritual to give the girl more security.
Yayi has said many times that sisters are stay-at-home mothers, provided that you have more than half of the discretion over your family's finances.
Many family conflicts are caused by sisters who love too much and have too little rationality when they are in love. There are also many women's families who have been kidnapped by morality, saying that it is not a good witness for you to talk about money and the boundaries
Some men want their girlfriends to obey + sacrifice in love. This kind of person should be vigilant.
The principles of marriage cannot be applied to love.
The principles of marriage cannot be applied to love.
The principles of marriage cannot be applied to love.
When the marriage is about to collapse, the wife can endure, save, compromise and sacrifice herself for the sake of her children.
In love, you must have a straight waist, guard yourself like jade, and dare to break up.
Don't tie up a man you like by getting pregnant out of wedlock, it will only create a very painful child - making the child blame himself for coming into the world is both a mistake and a joke.
In love, if the man does not want to be constrained by you and is unwilling to pay for you, from money to time, he just needs to live a free life.
Yayi advises you to hurry up and divide - he is a good lover, a handsome man with a charming charm, and a man with a successful career.
But he wasn't mature enough to get married.
In 20 years, he may become a good husband and father with all his heart, like Zheng Shaoqiu. However, if you have sex with him now, have children, and marry him, you will harm yourself + your parents' offspring.
You're right, he's fine, but the timing of the two meeting is not right.
Many men are late puberts.
In his twenties and thirties, he needed many women to be "medicine primers" and "stepping stones".
After they are forty years old, they will stabilize physically and mentally and marry a twenty-year-old wife to accompany them for the rest of their lives. We should be careful to guard ourselves and never use our lives as his "medicine introduction".
Decisively stop the loss, let him go, everyone forgets the back, and strives in front.