The love story between Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie has always attracted much attention and speculation from the outside world. In the eyes of many people, Zhang Guoli is a good man, because he declared that he did not want Deng Jie to suffer from pregnancy, so he never had children. Such a statement made the outside world admire him and praise him as a man who knows how to love women. However, is this really the case?
Under the premise of having financial ability, almost all women have the desire to be mothers, and Deng Jie is naturally no exception. She has publicly stated that the reason why the two did not have children is because Zhang Guoli already has a son. Zhang Guoli did not want to let love be scattered, so he decided not to have children anymore. On the surface, this seems to be a decision full of responsibility and thoughtfulness, but it does not take Deng Jie's feelings into account at all.
Deng Jie gave a lot in this relationship, and her desire to become a mother was ruthlessly ignored. For her, this is undoubtedly a huge hurt and disappointment. Although she did not publicly express her dissatisfaction with this, we can imagine the pain and helplessness in her heart. She has been silently patient, silently sacrificing her desire for love.
Such a situation makes people doubt Zhang Guoli's decision and the so-called image of a good man. A man who truly knows how to love a woman should care about her inner feelings, respect her wishes, and build a happy family with her. However, from Deng Jie's point of view, the love and respect she received in her relationship was incomplete.
Deng Jie's sacrifice and helplessness in this relationship are regrettable. She used to be a great actress, but because of this relationship, her career seems to have been affected. Perhaps she weighed many factors in her personal life and made different choices, but we still feel sorry for her.
This story leads us to ponder: Do love and duty sometimes become contradictory choices? In the pursuit of personal happiness, should we also consider respect and support for our partners? After all, true love should be a blend of equality and understanding, not unilateral compromise and sacrifice.
Deng Jie's experience reminds us that each of us should be responsible for our own happiness, while also caring for and respecting our partner's feelings. Whether on the road of pursuing career or family, we should create our own happy life together based on equality and understanding.